Widow ladie hit on me

[wildchild]

I was working today and this lady who ive been helping out came in to pay her bill. She was with her sister and while paying her bill she said can i have one of your buisness cards cos uve been very helpful and your a "little cutie" as well. Then she was going on about how shes been a widow for 2 weeks and her friend says and that still dosnt stop her. She then said again when i was giving her the invoice "did you put your number on that" i just laughed again - infact all my collegues were laughing it seemed like a joke kinda thing. Now at the time when she was joking about wanting my number and saying i was a cutie I totally lost my composure ( this women was hot she was like 37 but had big boobs and looked like she had alot of money i would definatly bed her even though im only 20) any tips on not losing my composure in future. I find it fairly easy when im trying to attract hot girls but when they start off by complimenting me I get kinda nearvous - dunno why though- any tips?

 

[racerX]

She's looking for a dude 2 weeks after her husband died?...maybe she killed him! Crazy chicks...dont people go thru a mourning period?

 

[TheCarGuyA4]

Man keep away, I know a guy who went through something similar, and found out that the reason she didn't care was because to was on enough anti-depressants to calm down a rabid wolverine...keep your distance.

 

[tyciol]

Yeah, she'll probably try and kill you too.

 

[wildchild]

lol ok man her husband died of a disease ( its non contagious) ive checked ill keep well away though thanks but any tips with dealing with similar situations with older women that dont include dead people?

 

[sfalexi]

You could be the sexual comfort that she needs at this time. We've all seen it in movies and stuff. Someone gets hurt that's near and dear to her, and she looks for sex to comfort her.

Do it. Just try not to get too emotionally attached

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Yeah that's happened to me too. It's more disturbing than a compliment.

 

[tyciol]

Even if she didn't murder him, her lack of emotion in the whole thing is creepy. Either she doesn't value life, she was planning on ending it, or is bunching up all the emotions and they'll explode on you.