What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Read betw- Great post.Jariel said:Very true to life and so sad, but as time goes by I've started to sympathise a lot less for these "nice guys" who masquerade as friends...something I've been guilty of myself.
Nice guys finish last, and that's if they finish at all. I've been guilty of this sh*t, and I've got very little sympathy for guys who present nice guy cases in my court. :trouble:
There's something quite underhanded about their behaviour and in most cases they hold all their good deeds and favours over a woman like a debt. There's nothing wrong with her fvcking the housemate, but the "nice guy" will feel like she's betrayed him or used him, even though he just pretended to want friendship.
Don't be a nice guy from the beginning and you won't have these problems.:nono:
Whenever I'm into a girl these days, I make my sexual interest clear early on. If she rejects me, just wants to be friends or shows any kind of hesitation, I'll next her and move on. It saves my time.
Make this your sig! This is the way to go!
by making you sexual interest early on, do you think (besides using inuendo) that you can tell her something like 'and ... im hard' (hank moody, californication) ?Jariel said:
