Why you shouldn't be her friend.

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awww... that made my eyes all teary. Women are such cruel creatures!
 

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Very true to life and so sad, but as time goes by I've started to sympathise a lot less for these "nice guys" who masquerade as friends...something I've been guilty of myself.

There's something quite underhanded about their behaviour and in most cases they hold all their good deeds and favours over a woman like a debt. There's nothing wrong with her fvcking the housemate, but the "nice guy" will feel like she's betrayed him or used him, even though he just pretended to want friendship.

Whenever I'm into a girl these days, I make my sexual interest clear early on. If she rejects me, just wants to be friends or shows any kind of hesitation, I'll next her and move on. It saves my time.
 

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Jariel said:
Very true to life and so sad, but as time goes by I've started to sympathise a lot less for these "nice guys" who masquerade as friends...something I've been guilty of myself.

There's something quite underhanded about their behaviour and in most cases they hold all their good deeds and favours over a woman like a debt. There's nothing wrong with her fvcking the housemate, but the "nice guy" will feel like she's betrayed him or used him, even though he just pretended to want friendship.

Whenever I'm into a girl these days, I make my sexual interest clear early on. If she rejects me, just wants to be friends or shows any kind of hesitation, I'll next her and move on. It saves my time.

Well said. My sentiments as well.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Jariel said:
Very true to life and so sad, but as time goes by I've started to sympathise a lot less for these "nice guys" who masquerade as friends...something I've been guilty of myself.

Nice guys finish last, and that's if they finish at all. I've been guilty of this sh*t, and I've got very little sympathy for guys who present nice guy cases in my court. :trouble:

There's something quite underhanded about their behaviour and in most cases they hold all their good deeds and favours over a woman like a debt. There's nothing wrong with her fvcking the housemate, but the "nice guy" will feel like she's betrayed him or used him, even though he just pretended to want friendship.

Don't be a nice guy from the beginning and you won't have these problems.:nono:

Whenever I'm into a girl these days, I make my sexual interest clear early on. If she rejects me, just wants to be friends or shows any kind of hesitation, I'll next her and move on. It saves my time.

:cool: Make this your sig! This is the way to go!
Read betw- Great post.
 

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sad story for him !

but like jariel said, we know how's life, and how to prevent that ... totally true !


Jariel said:
Whenever I'm into a girl these days, I make my sexual interest clear early on.
by making you sexual interest early on, do you think (besides using inuendo) that you can tell her something like 'and ... im hard' (hank moody, californication) ?
or maybe something like 'do i need to call the cop ? because the way you just talked to me, i see it as a sexual haracement for making me boner' ??
is that actually working ?
 
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