JdelaSilviera
Master Don Juan
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If you put them on a pedestal, you will feel inferior to them and they will notice it.
You have to understand that the all value thing is in your mind. People only have the value you give to them.
For instance contrary to most people I don´t consider celebraties to have high value. I have actresses in my gym always staring in hope they get noticed, but I just think they are pathetic and I can talk to hot actresses with the same respect I would give a 10 year old spoiled girl..
AGAIN it´s ALL IN YOUR MIND and YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL INFERIOR:
1) She is prettier than you, SO WHAT? Looks go quickly and you are probably smarter than her.
2) She has a lot of guys hitting on her and you don´t have many girls chasing you. ONCE AGAIN this is just how society works, it´s not her merit, even ugly women have more options than hot men, yes it´s true.
3) She has more friends than you, good for her but you are a stronger guy who is mentally stable to face life alone if needed.
The list goes on....get ride of these thoughts.... You are the man, you rule the world...
You have to understand that the all value thing is in your mind. People only have the value you give to them.
For instance contrary to most people I don´t consider celebraties to have high value. I have actresses in my gym always staring in hope they get noticed, but I just think they are pathetic and I can talk to hot actresses with the same respect I would give a 10 year old spoiled girl..
AGAIN it´s ALL IN YOUR MIND and YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL INFERIOR:
1) She is prettier than you, SO WHAT? Looks go quickly and you are probably smarter than her.
2) She has a lot of guys hitting on her and you don´t have many girls chasing you. ONCE AGAIN this is just how society works, it´s not her merit, even ugly women have more options than hot men, yes it´s true.
3) She has more friends than you, good for her but you are a stronger guy who is mentally stable to face life alone if needed.
The list goes on....get ride of these thoughts.... You are the man, you rule the world...