Posters here r being irked by seemingly rude responses, don't be offended by it, it's merely words.
Your understanding of things appears to be very shallow.
Sometimes one needs to dig a little deeper in a thread in order to uncover the gold.
Nobody really gives a fvck if the boy's "tactics" work or don't work. Frankly, haven't we heard them all before.
However, when there's inconsistencies it can be interesting to bring that ****e out into the open. Again, complaining that men are "shaming" (let's forget the fact that he's not even sure what shaming is or how he's perceiving it's coming at him and then throws out the beta beta beta term, thus revealing his unsure, hypocritical em beta nature....is an interesting addition to the discussion of the thread)
Again, nodody really gives a fvck about the alpha beta terms been bandied out (is that where you think people are being offended? failed to understand that fully) However, let's prod the source and see what they're made of...
Let's see maybe we can uncover something in the kid and help him overcome his SHAME (he's clearly carrying shame if he believes he is being shamed all of the time)
Maybe we can help him overcome his difficulties. Absent father? unloving, overcritical mother?
You see, sometimes you need to look deeper.