Why you should NEVER help a random person in need

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2005
Messages
4,444
Reaction score
87
Call_Me_Daddy said:
It's the mob mentality that sets in. Everyone has that. It's because we are all still animals (but with a high IQ). This is kind of like what sharks do: When they smell blood they all just go mad and attack whatever's wounded. Even if its another shark.
Yay everyone gets a free pass because "everyone else was doing it!" I've seen plenty of sh1t go down that i didn't join into because my brain, you know, sorta, well... functions...and i'm nobody special.

We're not sharks. We're human beings with rational brains. If you choose to forego its use, you deserve everything you get.

And the "everyone was drunk defense..." I guess we should give drunk drivers and every bar fight a free pass. Oh and the wife beaters who come home drunk and angry.
 

Latinoman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2006
Messages
4,031
Reaction score
57
I won't watch the video. I will only comment on the actual topic.

Only cowards do what they did to that guy. They sensed he was weak...because he was alone. I bet you WHATEVER, that if he would have pulled a gun...that EVERYBODY would have ran away.

Interestingly enough, NONE jumped on the guy that was punching her. Why? Because he was strong. He appeared to be dangerous. And he probably had a group of friends. I would have loved to have my hands on his "tough" guy azz.

I personally don't find abuse (any type of abuse) funny. And I can assure you that I'm the type of man that has no problem (if put into the situation) taking somebody else life. I know the odds. Some things are not laughing matter. And that is a best way to distinguish cowards. A coward would find that situation funny.

I personally would interfere if I see a woman getting rape. But a fight between a couple as described above? I won't.

You see? I know that I can lose my mind. In a rape situation, I have no problem nor remorse taking his life if it comes to that. But, would I be willing to do the same in the above situation? The fact that I hesitate to THINK about it is clear indication that I can and would get hurt.

In a nutshell...I avoid fights. Because when I TRULY fight...I do that under the premise that I'm going to die (and consequently, might have to take a life). And very few men approach fights like that.
 

Call_Me_Daddy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 28, 2006
Messages
1,372
Reaction score
7
mrRuckus said:
Yay everyone gets a free pass because "everyone else was doing it!" I've seen plenty of sh1t go down that i didn't join into because my brain, you know, sorta, well... functions...and i'm nobody special.

We're not sharks. We're human beings with rational brains. If you choose to forego its use, you deserve everything you get.

And the "everyone was drunk defense..." I guess we should give drunk drivers and every bar fight a free pass. Oh and the wife beaters who come home drunk and angry.
Relax dude. I'm not saying they should get away with that sh*t. They should get charged with assault. Every one of them.

I'm just saying it like it is. What happened was human nature in effect. No reasoning behind it.
 

SamePendo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 30, 2003
Messages
2,396
Reaction score
14
Location
At home
She was a ghetto ass chick, acting like crazy! DRUNK! Miles away from a lady getting raped.

It's like going to a prostitute and saying, hey come here with me, I'll show you the way of god etc etc... and then wait for the pimp to whip your ass. One can truly help when one's help is needed.
 

Call_Me_Daddy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 28, 2006
Messages
1,372
Reaction score
7
SamePendo said:
She was a ghetto ass chick, acting like crazy! DRUNK! Miles away from a lady getting raped.

It's like going to a prostitute and saying, hey come here with me, I'll show you the way of god etc etc... and then wait for the pimp to whip your ass. One can truly help when one's help is needed.
SamePendo is the voice of reason.

You should help when help is needed... but only to those who truly deserve it. Like friends, family and innocents. Not some skanky, ghetto drunk chicks trying to pick fights.

She should have gotten her ass whooped by the crowd instead of the dude. He was only trying to help.

But oh well. He was an idiot.
 

BlackJackal

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2005
Messages
590
Reaction score
6
Age
40
Location
East Chicago
Call_Me_Daddy said:
SamePendo is the voice of reason.

You should help when help is needed... but only to those who truly deserve it. Like friends, family and innocents. Not some skanky, ghetto drunk chicks trying to pick fights.

She should have gotten her ass whooped by the crowd instead of the dude. He was only trying to help.

But oh well. He was an idiot.
Right. She started the fight, she should have gotten the beat down. I believe that anyone, regardless of who you are or what you are, should get what they deserve. And what makes it crazy is when the guy tried to be the hero, the girl was the first person to hit him out of all of them. Aint that a bi<th.
 

wayword

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 13, 2006
Messages
1,478
Reaction score
21
Location
BFE
Centaurion said:
NEVER EVER PLAY CAPT.-SAVE-A-HOE and never try to break up a fight unless it is a very very very good friend of yours or family.
Bingo. This savior tendency stems from our belief that women are poor, innocent, weaker victims. :rolleyes:

LMFAO! Chances are that bych lied, cheated on and stole from that dude, etc etc. She's prolly a major ghetto fug-up and a victim of her own stupidity. Who knows - but she prolly deserved a good beating (and sure had no problems dishing one out!). So next time, let her get what she f'n deserves! If she gets hurt cuz she's weaker...then maybe SHE JUST SHOULDN'T PICK FIGHTS SHE CAN'T WIN TO BEGIN WITH NEXT TIME AGAINST STRONGER OPPONENTS!

No more free passes to byches for being weak...yet domineering! If you're weaker, maybe you should just learn to behave better and submit?
 

SamePendo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 30, 2003
Messages
2,396
Reaction score
14
Location
At home
Call_Me_Daddy said:
SamePendo is the voice of reason.

You should help when help is needed... but only to those who truly deserve it. Like friends, family and innocents. Not some skanky, ghetto drunk chicks trying to pick fights.

She should have gotten her ass whooped by the crowd instead of the dude. He was only trying to help.

But oh well. He was an idiot.
I'm pissed at you tho, you disabled reputation, and now I can't return the favor you gave me on because of my "why has my reputation been lost?" thread. :trouble:
 

[R]eality

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2006
Messages
98
Reaction score
1
Women aren't "bytches" to me, they're women, some nicer, some meaner, but they're women and men have certain biological predespositions, one of which is protecting them.
 

Call_Me_Daddy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 28, 2006
Messages
1,372
Reaction score
7
[R]eality said:
Women aren't "bytches" to me, they're women, some nicer, some meaner, but they're women and men have certain biological predespositions, one of which is protecting them.
Yes. But if a woman you knew STOLE from another dude or killed his dog or something... would you protect her? Knowing FULL WELL that SHE did it ON PURPOSE. Would you take the flak for her? Would you sacrifice a small part of yourself so that she doesn't have to deal with the consequences of her underhanded deed?


Mean = Bytch
 

badgm's57

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2006
Messages
16
Reaction score
1
you sir was probably seeing some gang related activity going on.

i for one stay outta clubs there's more troble i see ,well from where im at anyway.

ive seen people sniffing lines on the table and the passing around of big stuff
like meth,and krak.

and yes gang members as well hang out in clubs alot.some even run clubs.

so to be on the safe side ,i don't **** around in those places,might get ugly.
 

zerocelcius

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 24, 2004
Messages
924
Reaction score
2
Age
45
Location
CA
He did the right thing and he paid a heavy price!

But to me he is a hero. I was in the army and you can never ever question the right thing to do! Once you do that you lost your soul. Sure the price was high, but he has gained hugh respect.

I think it was bad timing. Could be somebody yelled he hit a chick, when they looked they saw the good guy holding her... and took him out!

Never the less! This guy already went through hell and does not deserve any of us to call him anything less than a true man!

Soldiers everyday get blown up and shot, and what do we say? HERO. Doesn't mean you all are going to go join up does it? But at least give respect where respect is earned.
 

everywomanshero

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2005
Messages
1,817
Reaction score
36
Let's say you "save" some chick. If you get put into a wheelchair in the process, how many chicks will come to "save" you? How many will want to be your LTR and WHEEL you around national parks so you can see cool sh1t and all that? Maybe a very tiny %, definitely not most!

Some really messed up women like the drama associated with lower class men and the fighting and yelling and all that. Just let them enjoy it and mind your own biz. That's what I do. If I really thought something was bad, then I would call the cops. There is plenty of women who aren't like that to be worrying what these people are doing.
 

WestCoast1492

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2005
Messages
58
Reaction score
0
The guy taping this should have called the cops instead of dropping in stupid color commentary. Shame on everyone involved in this. They should all be tried and convicted. Although that sketchy cell phone video won't help much.
 

Cod3r

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2006
Messages
863
Reaction score
12
Let's say you "save" some chick. If you get put into a wheelchair in the process, how many chicks will come to "save" you? How many will want to be your LTR and WHEEL you around national parks so you can see cool sh1t and all that? Maybe a very tiny %, definitely not most!
I have to agree, what's respect when you are critically injured for life ?? What's the reward ?? Save a girl who ends up hitting you and getting you beat my 40 guys and then hit by a cab ?? Fvck that, if i'm a pu$$y then i'm a pu$$y but hey i'm living and healthy and don't regret my acts except taping it..

The guy taping this should have called the cops instead of dropping in stupid color commentary. Shame on everyone involved in this. They should all be tried and convicted. Although that sketchy cell phone video won't help much.
Yeah, I was drunk and that's my defense. I admit that taping was stupid even for my own safety, and even worst for the guy that got beat down, but remember cops were watching the beating happen. There were 3 cop cars sititng outside the club and one on the street where they were chasing the guy and they did NOTHING

Not until the guy got hit by the cab did they put the lights on.

--
Plain and simply let people do what they do, value your own health and safety. I've seen women get sexually harrassed in trains and many guys and other women just stand there and look on while the woman is HELPLESS and scared, no one said a gotdamn thing... that scares me about nyc

Homeless guy came in saw some older white woman, walked over to her his pants fell down and he was just in underwear with pants down to his ankle and screaming at her. People just sat there and read the newspaper, no one did anything because people know to look out for #1...

Another example, I got robbed coming back from club one night. I was drunk and guys stopped in car smacked me with a gun and took my phone. People wre around and saw it, but yet while i was on the ground no one came to my aide... no one gave a damn, i don't care about NO ONE that ain't connected to me, u can be gettin raped or whatever it ain't my problem... that's the truth, this city has changed me...

Don't want to see me while you're in trouble, cuz u gonna stay in trouble



-Cod3r
 
Top