check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
You have been told to talk to people aobut themselves, infact my sig even tells you to! But guess what i figured out today, this is not the complete truth. Go on ask her questions about her self, you are now interveiwing her.
You have to talk about somthing that intrests her, maybe she likes politics, so that will intrest her, the only reason you are told to talk to her about her is because with some one new this is how you can find what they like.
Do not bring up somthing that that she is not expresing intrest in, find out what she likes through a few quick quesitons about her such as what she does and what her hobbies etc are.
Once you find a topic she likes, talk with her about the topic, allowing her to say a lot rather then just you, although make sure you talk aswell.
If you ask questions you will not get much response she will keep it short she will not want to bore you or she will feel uncomfortable but when you talk to her with her about somthing she likes, this is when you gian rapport because she will discuss it with you.
Good conversation is all about discusion, i repeat you must not just ask queston after question, use her answeres as a lead for a subject to talk about.
End on a high note, number close if you wish or still need to and leave her wanting to say more, do not leave at a point where you have nothing left to say to each other.
As an example, once she tells you she likes to go jogging, you could compliment her on the fatc she has a hobbie and likes to stay in shape. Then get her to tell you about her experinces jogging. Add somthing relevant to what she says because if you add an unrelated story about what happened when you went swimming, its going to be like you are just exchanging storyes, so make sure you intergrate it with her, if she tells you how she forget to take food once and almost passed out because of it, mention somthing about that, "yeah food is important i was really weak after swimming on an empty stomach once, so what happened to you?" this will go down a lot better then you telling her how badly you hurt yourself when you sliped off the diving board.
I hope this has been a help
You have to talk about somthing that intrests her, maybe she likes politics, so that will intrest her, the only reason you are told to talk to her about her is because with some one new this is how you can find what they like.
Do not bring up somthing that that she is not expresing intrest in, find out what she likes through a few quick quesitons about her such as what she does and what her hobbies etc are.
Once you find a topic she likes, talk with her about the topic, allowing her to say a lot rather then just you, although make sure you talk aswell.
If you ask questions you will not get much response she will keep it short she will not want to bore you or she will feel uncomfortable but when you talk to her with her about somthing she likes, this is when you gian rapport because she will discuss it with you.
Good conversation is all about discusion, i repeat you must not just ask queston after question, use her answeres as a lead for a subject to talk about.
End on a high note, number close if you wish or still need to and leave her wanting to say more, do not leave at a point where you have nothing left to say to each other.
As an example, once she tells you she likes to go jogging, you could compliment her on the fatc she has a hobbie and likes to stay in shape. Then get her to tell you about her experinces jogging. Add somthing relevant to what she says because if you add an unrelated story about what happened when you went swimming, its going to be like you are just exchanging storyes, so make sure you intergrate it with her, if she tells you how she forget to take food once and almost passed out because of it, mention somthing about that, "yeah food is important i was really weak after swimming on an empty stomach once, so what happened to you?" this will go down a lot better then you telling her how badly you hurt yourself when you sliped off the diving board.
I hope this has been a help
) and i ended up with a chick rubbing her ass against my crotch and giving me little snaps on the abs (i was half naked)... then a guy i knew that night asked for my number and she said she wanted it too. i said "this sounds a bit gay, dontcha think so?", as if i not cared about what she said. i don't have her number now... d'oh!