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Senior Don Juan
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Girl I broke up with called me to tell me she is back with her ex. She claims the only reason she is with him is because she does not want to be "alone", and since i'm not there she will settle for him. She initiated the break because she "needed to get him out of her head, and we rushed into a relationship right after they broke up" I agrred that we rushed. She was unsure of what to do, so i made the decision final. It got ugly, so i didnt want her back at all, because i realized she was emtoinally messed up from how her eex treated her.
Weird part is, this kid had hit her a couple of times. He was verbally abusive also, telling her she wont go anywhere in life without him, and no one else will want her, etc... When we were together, she claimed she would never ever go back with him, and would have to be an idiot to do so.
So why would she go back to someone like that? Do you think that someone can really have a hold on someone elses mind that much? She claims he controleld her mind or whatever. They are both 20 yrs old and were together for 4 years.
p.s. Im not asking because I care, I dont want her back at all. When she called me to tell me she was with him, she tried to get me back, but i said no because she was basically crazy. I am just wondering if someone that is 20 yrs old can really get that messed up from a guy...it soudns crazy to me
Weird part is, this kid had hit her a couple of times. He was verbally abusive also, telling her she wont go anywhere in life without him, and no one else will want her, etc... When we were together, she claimed she would never ever go back with him, and would have to be an idiot to do so.
So why would she go back to someone like that? Do you think that someone can really have a hold on someone elses mind that much? She claims he controleld her mind or whatever. They are both 20 yrs old and were together for 4 years.
p.s. Im not asking because I care, I dont want her back at all. When she called me to tell me she was with him, she tried to get me back, but i said no because she was basically crazy. I am just wondering if someone that is 20 yrs old can really get that messed up from a guy...it soudns crazy to me