Why women want MEN to APPROACH

[rakishness]

Women want men to approach them not only because they are timid but because of POWER. This is a quote from Robert Greene’s 48 laws book.


"How many times has this scenario played itself out in history: An aggressive leader initiates a series of bold moves that begin by bringing him much power. Slowly, however, his power reaches a peak, and soon everything turns against him. His numerous enemies band together, trying to maintain his power, he exhausts himself going in this direction and that, and inevitable he collapses. The reason for this pattern is that the aggressive person is rarely in full control. He cannot see more than couple of moves ahead, cannot see the consequences of this bold move or that one. Because he is contantly being forced to react to the moves of his every-growing host of enemies, and to the unforeseen consequences of his own rash actions, his aggressive energy is turned against him.
Remember: The essence of power is ability to keep the initiative, to get others to react to your moves, to keep your opponent and those around you on the defensive. When you make other people come to you, you suddenly become the one controlling the situation. And the one who has control has power."
(R. Greene)

It’s all a power game. So when women say they want a guy to approach. It doesn’t mean ALL we have to do is approach and they will like us. Women say this so they CONTINUE to have the advantage.

And BTW this quote is from the LAW “Make other people come to you—use bait if necessary” And we all can agree.... women have the BEST BAIT. :yes:

 

[bigjohnson]

The truth is though that they want the c0ck. So it's a lot like fishing - dangle it in front of them and eventually they'll nibble on .... er, well, you know what I mean.

 

[DJDoomage]

My friends, approach, then go approach another one, make this one wonder what is going on?!!!!



I have same situation with my job. I went working for a dude and he payed crappy. So I told him after he made an offer that Ill let him know in 2 days. I never called, 10 days later hes calling me. Told him what I want. He said hell let me know. Sooner or later hell call again, perhaps in 10 days. All my intel suggests that he wants me to work for him, because Im just so darn good.

Now hes a natural born player, good with women and very successful, HB8-10 and super cars, plus knows cops and key players. Yet I am able to get what I want here, because I have the power.

 

[blueblue]

Good point..

My friends, approach, then go approach another one, make this one wonder what is going on?!!!!



I have same situation with my job. I went working for a dude and he payed crappy. So I told him after he made an offer that Ill let him know in 2 days. I never called, 10 days later hes calling me. Told him what I want. He said hell let me know. Sooner or later hell call again, perhaps in 10 days. All my intel suggests that he wants me to work for him, because Im just so darn good.

Now hes a natural born player, good with women and very successful, HB8-10 and super cars, plus knows cops and key players. Yet I am able to get what I want here, because I have the power.

Soooooo True,

In sales, do you think the person who has all the cash has the power??? No way, they might have the cash, but they also have the problem. If you can solve their problem.......then you have all the power.

In time they will come around because you got what they need. Never let them fool ya.

 

[Jay Jay]

Ying and Yang.

There is the feminine power of "receptivity" such as you describe. But it is a passive power. When women wait to be approached, sure they have more power to control the situation, but at the same time it is a power with incredible limitation.

By waiting passively, they lose the power to take the initiative. The masculine power of penetration is an equal power. We can choose who to approach, the feminine power of receptivity doesn't, they can only exercise the power once they have been approached.

We, as males... sorry as DJs, have a massive advantage and you must integrate this idea into your mind, it will help your game more than any tactic. We ARE THE CHOOSERS.

If we approach, yes she will have more power over the interaction. Yes she can shoot you down, yes she can reject you, yes she can get her ego flattered, give her number and then flake again and again.

But we can say "NEXT!" And go and find someone else. While they have to wait around. With the most guys being AFC women know their options are limited and thus their power is limited.

Finally, the receptive power is feminine. Feminine is attracted to the masculine. The very act of approaching is a very masculine act. Women see you as being very brave for risking yourself in that way.

So don't sweat it boys.

JJ

 

[rakishness]

There is the feminine power of "receptivity" such as you describe. But it is a passive power. When women wait to be approached, sure they have more power to control the situation, but at the same time it is a power with incredible limitation.

By waiting passively, they lose the power to take the initiative. The masculine power of penetration is an equal power. We can choose who to approach, the feminine power of receptivity doesn't, they can only exercise the power once they have been approached.

We, as males... sorry as DJs, have a massive advantage and you must integrate this idea into your mind, it will help your game more than any tactic. We ARE THE CHOOSERS.

If we approach, yes she will have more power over the interaction. Yes she can shoot you down, yes she can reject you, yes she can get her ego flattered, give her number and then flake again and again.

But we can say "NEXT!" And go and find someone else. While they have to wait around. With the most guys being AFC women know their options are limited and thus their power is limited.

Finally, the receptive power is feminine. Feminine is attracted to the masculine. The very act of approaching is a very masculine act. Women see you as being very brave for risking yourself in that way.

So don't sweat it boys.

JJ

Great response!!!! I didn't mean to scare people from approaching. I mean thats what this site is all about. There is another law of power called "ENTER ACTION WITH BOLDNESS". No law is fixed. I just wanted to explain PART of the dynamic. We are MEN....thats why we have BALLS(lol)....we are NATURAL PREDATORS....of course...we are gonna approach.

 

[00Kevin]

The number one reason men are afraid to talk to women is that most women are disrespectfull.

There are however women where the game is truely different. If you show them that you are a good man they will respond kindly and be respectfull. These women are usually from other countries. They are well educated and they are not tainted by feminism

Since I don't give the americanized hor the time of day I don't have any of the issues that people are talking about here. I have decent women who do things for me and are happy when I am just being myself.

All you sad sorry f-ucks that go around trying to measure up to these hors deserve to contract a sexual disease.


There are many people here who have to learn about natural sexual selection. The man is the one who does the selection.

 

[Babnik]

There is the feminine power of "receptivity" such as you describe. But it is a passive power. When women wait to be approached, sure they have more power to control the situation, but at the same time it is a power with incredible limitation.

By waiting passively, they lose the power to take the initiative. The masculine power of penetration is an equal power. We can choose who to approach, the feminine power of receptivity doesn't, they can only exercise the power once they have been approached.

We, as males... sorry as DJs, have a massive advantage and you must integrate this idea into your mind, it will help your game more than any tactic. We ARE THE CHOOSERS.

If we approach, yes she will have more power over the interaction. Yes she can shoot you down, yes she can reject you, yes she can get her ego flattered, give her number and then flake again and again.

But we can say "NEXT!" And go and find someone else. While they have to wait around. With the most guys being AFC women know their options are limited and thus their power is limited.

Finally, the receptive power is feminine. Feminine is attracted to the masculine. The very act of approaching is a very masculine act. Women see you as being very brave for risking yourself in that way.

So don't sweat it boys.

JJ

Yeah, I noticed that a LOT of this alpha male stuff circles around the main idea of FEAR that men have and can't conquer in themselves. So, DJs try to find every way possible to show off, to do something to make women come to them. If these women don't come to them - they next them. So, our lovely DJs end up with sluts and *****s (they tend to give men all the power and approach them) and then get mad as to why they cheated on them...

I do, however, think that any good woman would not want to give up all her powers to a man. In fact, I talked to a few girls about this and they said that the sluttiest girls will give all the power to the man and the sluttiest girls approach men most often.

I think it is true from experience.




Just be honest with yourself, completely honest about how you feel. "Why didn't I approach her?" and it all comes down to the same old sh*t "I was scared ****less that she will reject me"
Sometimes I think that its not the fear of rejection but the fear of having nothing to say or just the interaction.

I mean if we were robots and all we could do was come up to a woman, press a button and get either green light or red light then I am pretty damn sure there would be no fear of approach...

 

[Mental]

The number one reason men are afraid to talk to women is that most women are disrespectfull.

AMEN to that!

I don't mind the asking. What I dread is the asking and getting the disrespect.

I realize however that it IS my role as the man to initiate for a date. I hate doing it, (and I wouldn't mind a chick asking me out ...or at least flirting), but I still try to get the dates because that's my job. I'm the man, I puff out my chest, wear the light cologne, make sure I look ok, and see if she wants to join me for coffee or something fun.

I still get the rudeness, but I'm less willing to just accept it without saying anything.

It's the man's job (in Western society) to ask the woman out. I dread doing it, but I still will.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

The truth is though that they want the c0ck. So it's a lot like fishing - dangle it in front of them and eventually they'll nibble on .... er, well, you know what I mean.

i can't believe no one quoted and laughed at this yet... this is hilarious :crackup: