Why WOMEN SLEEP with LOSERS or BUMS and always LEAVE GOOD QUALITY MEN

[Jor-El]

I dont know anything about this guy,nor have I watched his other stuff,but I happened across this today,I thought it was good and made sense...its about 12 mins so not a long watch,thought it may be of use

 

[Solomon]

Didn't watch the video but this is old news
Women sleep with losers and bums cause they are exciting, witty and adventurous
"Quality" men are boring, I mean heck even Pook talked about this years ago

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Being non-conformist and my IDGAF attitude (combined with having my life together) always attracted women.

I don't care much for his division though, nobody would consider me a 'loser' or a 'bum' where I live. I live in the center of one of the coolest cities in the world in a ground floor apartment big enough for five persons where I raise two teenagers. I'm retired and have enough money to live comfortably, although I'm hardly affluent. I just know when I have enough.

I think what attracts women is not being needed. I don't need a woman, so women are interested. And they have to offer more than sex to get me to invest my time in them. That challenges them to be more than a pretty face.

 

[soulforge]

Guys in 2024 being the Alpha good guy equals FAILURE.

You are not dealing with healthy females. You are dealing with 99% of the time, broken, ran through, damaged, traumatized females. Typically this is what the majority of Western women are.

It's just your turn with her.. You have two choices Infront of you.

01. Be the good guy & if you're lucky she will stick around for 8-12 months maximum.

02. Be the toxic, emotionally unavailable jerk, and she will stick around for 6-8 years and give you her peak years of beauty, then eventually leave when she has had enough.

I choose option 2 every single time.

If you want to be the Alpha good guy & want her to stay with you for a lifetime.. Best design a time machine & send yourself back to the 1950's.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Guys in 2024 being the Alpha good guy equals FAILURE.

You are not dealing with healthy females. You are dealing with 99% of the time, broken, ran through, damaged, traumatized females. Typically this is what the majority of Western women are.

It's just your turn with her.. You have two choices Infront of you.

01. Be the good guy & if you're lucky she will stick around for 8-12 months maximum.

02. Be the toxic, emotionally unavailable jerk, and she will stick around for 6-8 years and give you her peak years of beauty, then eventually leave when she has had enough.

I choose option 2 every single time.

If you want to be the Alpha good guy & want her to stay with you for a lifetime.. Best design a time machine & send yourself back to the 1950's.

This sounds like some nonsense from a guy who has been hurt by women one too many times and tries to blame them.

Being a good guy always is preferable, because you simply walk away from them with your head held up high if they choose to disrespect you or not play by your rules. The issue is when you are a good guy with no backbone that lets women walk all over you. That's called a nice guy. The two are NOT the same although many use them interchangeably. They are not.

The loser will always lose to the good guy who has a backbone, all things being equal.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

the good guy who has a backbone

That's the critical part.

 

[soulforge]

This sounds like some nonsense from a guy who has been hurt by women one too many times and tries to blame them.

Being a good guy always is preferable, because you simply walk away from them with your head held up high if they choose to disrespect you or not play by your rules. The issue is when you are a good guy with no backbone that lets women walk all over you. That's called a nice guy. The two are NOT the same although many use them interchangeably. They are not.

The loser will always lose to the good guy who has a backbone, all things being equal.

Which dude hasn't been hurt by a female..

Those good woman don't exist in the Western world & if they do, they are rare as fuk.

99% of men have been hurt by a chick in current times INCLUDING YOU, so that shaming tactic doesn't really work lol.

I'm simply speaking facts.. In the Western world a good woman is a UNICORN.

The vast majority of Western Women are ran through, depressed, broken, or delusional.

Good luck with being the "Good Guy" with females who are broken on the mental level.

It's all well & good saying "Walk Away" how many times are you going to Walk Away?

You going to walk away till your age 65 lol

Purely from a statistical point of view.. The chances of you finding a woman who appreciates your "Good" qualities is pretty damn slim..

The chances of her sticking around with you, because your a challenge & will not invest in her, are way way higher.

 

[SW15]

Some alpha and sigma males can be considered good men. Other alpha and sigma males are "bad boys" and have significant character issues.

Most beta males can be considered good men. A beta male is rarely ever a "bad boy" though there are some betas will character issues though.

The exciting guy is far more likely to be alpha or sigma.

 

[soulforge]

This sounds like some nonsense from a guy who has been hurt by women one too many times and tries to blame them.

Being a good guy always is preferable, because you simply walk away from them with your head held up high if they choose to disrespect you or not play by your rules. The issue is when you are a good guy with no backbone that lets women walk all over you. That's called a nice guy. The two are NOT the same although many use them interchangeably. They are not.

The loser will always lose to the good guy who has a backbone, all things being equal.

This is female language, shaming tactics.. "The dude who has been hurt by woman"

The vast majority of you jokers have been hurt by a woman, otherwise you wouldn't even know SS exists..

You can have a super strong backbone all you like.. This doesn't change the reality of the situation.. The vast majority of females you will meet in the Western world are ran through, broken, indoctrinated hoez.

 

[zekko]

Being a good guy always is preferable, because you simply walk away from them with your head held up high if they choose to disrespect you or not play by your rules.

I'm not going to compromise my principles do get laid. I'm not going to pretend to be a jerk or act like a jackass in order to get laid. And do you know what else? I've never had to.

But I'll tell you one reason why a woman would leave a quality, successful man: Because they are incentivized to. A woman marries a wealthy man and the divorce laws will reward her with cash and prizes if she leaves him. Then she gets a nice chunk of money for herself to use as she wishes.

 

[SW15]

I'll tell you one reason why a woman would leave a quality, successful man: Because they are incentivized to. A woman marries a wealthy man and the divorce laws will reward her with cash and prizes if she leaves him. Then she gets a nice chunk of money for herself to use as she wishes.

Those guys need to file prenups and most do. Divorce courts do favor females.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Those guys need to file prenups and most do. Divorce courts do favor females.

Not true for the most part anymore.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Which dude hasn't been hurt by a female..

Those good woman don't exist in the Western world & if they do, they are rare as fuk.

99% of men have been hurt by a chick in current times INCLUDING YOU, so that shaming tactic doesn't really work lol.

I'm simply speaking facts.. In the Western world a good woman is a UNICORN.

The vast majority of Western Women are ran through, depressed, broken, or delusional.

Good luck with being the "Good Guy" with females who are broken on the mental level.

It's all well & good saying "Walk Away" how many times are you going to Walk Away?

You going to walk away till your age 65 lol

Purely from a statistical point of view.. The chances of you finding a woman who appreciates your "Good" qualities is pretty damn slim..

The chances of her sticking around with you, because your a challenge & will not invest in her, are way way higher.

Many men are very poor at screening, which is where these issues would be found. The problem is these issues aren't found by most guys until they are in an LTR or married, then they try and do something about it.

Wrong. The time to do something about it was before you got into the LTR by either walking away or making her prove herself to you and then ensuring she actually was being serious about those changes.

Bottom line is most men refuse to believe when the woman tells or shows you who they are, even if they are screaming it at you from the rooftop.

How do you fix this? Believe them and stop ignoring obvious issues that get overlooked because she is hot or is great in bed. Most guys screen for superficial qualities that are meaningless in an LTR then wonder why they get destroyed by these women.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is female language, shaming tactics.. "The dude who has been hurt by woman"

The vast majority of you jokers have been hurt by a woman, otherwise you wouldn't even know SS exists..

You can have a super strong backbone all you like.. This doesn't change the reality of the situation.. The vast majority of females you will meet in the Western world are ran through, broken, indoctrinated hoez.

It's a screening problem, plain and simple.

 

[soulforge]

Many men are very poor at screening, which is where these issues would be found. The problem is these issues aren't found by most guys until they are in an LTR or married, then they try and do something about it.

Wrong. The time to do something about it was before you got into the LTR by either walking away or making her prove herself to you and then ensuring she actually was being serious about those changes.

Bottom line is most men refuse to believe when the woman tells or shows you who they are, even if they are screaming it at you from the rooftop.

How do you fix this? Believe them and stop ignoring obvious issues that get overlooked because she is hot or is great in bed.

Screening through a big pile of Shyte, searching for that diamond, is no easy task.

I agree, screening is very important.. However some of you guys are searching for something that doesn't even exist, or is as rare as Joe Biden forming a coherent sentence.

We have to be honest with ourselves here.. The vast majority of Western Women are Trash.

You can keep trawling through the garbage, hoping & praying you find that rare good woman, which you are unlikely to meet.

Or.. you accept reality, which is, most women you will meet are likely to be trash.

You can either adapt to this reality, or keep walking away till you reach age 65, finally realising, being the "good guy" for that unicorn didn't quite work out the way you hoped it would.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Screening through a big pile of Shyte, searching for that diamond, is no easy task.

I agree, screening is very important.. However some of you guys are searching for something that doesn't even exist, or is as rare as Joe Biden forming a coherent sentence.

We have to be honest with ourselves here.. The vast majority of Western Women are Trash.

You can keep trawling through the garbage, hoping & praying you find that rare good woman, which you are unlikely to meet.

Or.. you accept reality, which is, most women you will meet are likely to be trash.

You can either adapt to this reality, or keep walking away till you reach age 65, finally realising, being the "good guy" for that unicorn didn't quite work out the way you hoped it would.

They aren't as rare as you make it seem. You are just looking in the wrong places.

 

[CornbreadFed]

If you are older than the age of 25 and you are still dealing with women that choose bums over normal men, then you either A). Are in a severe scarcity mindset/Terrible choice in women or B). This is a socioeconomic problem, and you have no choice but to deal with individuals that make poor decisions.

 

[SW15]

Many men are very poor at screening, which is where these issues would be found. The problem is these issues aren't found by most guys until they are in an LTR or married, then they try and do something about it.

There have been times in my life where I've screened poorly and it did not end well. I have had a decent amount of mental and emotional trauma from nearly 25 years in the mating environment. Unlike a lot of men, I didn't have a nasty divorce settlement where I got wrecked and/or had to co-parent with a toxic ex. Some might say I was unscathed but I really wasn't.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Guys in 2024 being the Alpha good guy equals FAILURE.

You are not dealing with healthy females. You are dealing with 99% of the time, broken, ran through, damaged, traumatized females. Typically this is what the majority of Western women are.

It's just your turn with her.. You have two choices Infront of you.

01. Be the good guy & if you're lucky she will stick around for 8-12 months maximum.

02. Be the toxic, emotionally unavailable jerk, and she will stick around for 6-8 years and give you her peak years of beauty, then eventually leave when she has had enough.

I choose option 2 every single time.

If you want to be the Alpha good guy & want her to stay with you for a lifetime.. Best design a time machine & send yourself back to the 1950's.

How’s that sage advice working for ya stud?

 

[Pandora]

So I watched the video a few days ago. I am subscribed to his channel but he is wrong on this one. His basic premise is wrong. Most women don't sleep with losers just because they are losers. Women sleep with interesting men. The losers that get laid are either very good looking or have interesting hobbies/ are funny.

Square white collar professional guys are often boring. They lost their edge through years of schooling and societal programming.

There is a small minority of women who target losers. These women are rare and have severe self esteem issues. It the equivalent of men who target fat chicks.

All things being equal most somewhat healthy women will take the successful guy in a BMW vs the guy on the bus.