Why Women Love Badboys

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Originally posted by Fatality
I'm sure there are plenty of women that think Scott Petersen is disgusting.
I will say it time and time again the brain will only see what you want it to see. It will only look for things that you want to find. If you believe Beautiful women "only" date Bad Boys guess what that is the only thing you will see. You will look pass all the will smiths who women love, even his beautiful wife jada. You will look pass the denzel's washington, you wont even see that guy who was in school with you whom everybody seem to love, and was a really great guy.

You will only see what you believe, and what you believe you will always see.
 

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Originally posted by Royal Elite
I will say it time and time again the brain will only see what you want it to see. It will only look for things that you want to find. If you believe Beautiful women "only" date Bad Boys guess what that is the only thing you will see. You will look pass all the will smiths who women love, even his beautiful wife jada. You will look pass the denzel's washington, you wont even see that guy who was in school with you whom everybody seem to love, and was a really great guy.

You will only see what you believe, and what you believe you will always see.
yeah that's what I'm saying
 

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Originally posted by Royal Elite
I will say it time and time again the brain will only see what you want it to see. It will only look for things that you want to find. If you believe Beautiful women "only" date Bad Boys guess what that is the only thing you will see. You will look pass all the will smiths who women love, even his beautiful wife jada. You will look pass the denzel's washington, you wont even see that guy who was in school with you whom everybody seem to love, and was a really great guy.

You will only see what you believe, and what you believe you will always see.
Bingo...
 

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Interesting logic. But as hard as I think that pornstars find me irresistable I can't seem to find any that do. I also think a lot about a Ferrari in my driveway but, damn it, that 4Runner is always there in the morning when I go to work.

Behavior is observable. The question wasn't whether women exclusively date Bad Boys because obviously we can see many that marry the Nice guy. The question was 'why' women love Bad Boys.

'Why' is a guy that was very publicly convicted of murdering his pregnant wife and unborn child so attractive that (at least 36) women will ignore this fact to the point of attempting to make unprompted advances toward the guy on death row?
 

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Interesting logic. But as hard as I think that pornstars find me irresistable I can't seem to find any that do. I also think a lot about a Ferrari in my driveway but, damn it, that 4Runner is always there in the morning when I go to work.

Behavior is observable. The question wasn't whether women exclusively date Bad Boys because obviously we can see many that marry the Nice guy. The question was 'why' women love Bad Boys.

'Why' is a guy that was very publicly convicted of murdering his pregnant wife and unborn child so attractive that (at least 36) women will ignore this fact to the point of attempting to make unprompted advances toward the guy on death row?
Understandable.

But I would ask this: why worry about why women date bad boys? Are you planning on becoming one? Why not focus on why women date charming/good guys? Or even yet why not focus on what I can do for women to date me?
 

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From what Ive seen, girls like bad boys cause some girls are bored with their lives, so they go looking for thrills, and you know that you should never bore a woman, so the bad boy provides the thrill...
 

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Not true that they outgrow their

capacity to attract the bad boy......

They can always join dating clubs in the penitentary. In california, they can can even have congugal visits! Tell all the badboy lovers you meet. I do.

Tell them too that sociopathy is genetic. You inherit this personality disorder. I looked into this when an old love was getting a divorce(who's been screwing criminals since she was 18). This babe has 3 kids ( 1 molested daughter and two sons).
Geneticist's told me that her chances of having sociopathic males is quite high--With 4 kids there is a 100% chance that 2 will be sociopathic. Geneticists have figured this out from the study of twins separated at birth from their birth parents., and this is the price these woman pay for screwing criminals.

No way is this nice guy going to be raising her kids--NO WAY.

Tell these women, that you're going to enjoy lifting their offspring off their feet with a rope--and hanging them untill their legs stop twitching!



Geoff


Pamela Anderson has hepitis B. Tommy gave it to her, and
the son of a ***** knew he had it but didn't tell her. Her doctor told her ,"there's no cure, you're going to die from it."
 

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Doesn't Tommy still deny having it and giving it to her? Like I said before she was raped when she was 12. That can really screw up a person's mind especially at a young age.
 

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Interesting logic. But as hard as I think that pornstars find me irresistable I can't seem to find any that do. I also think a lot about a Ferrari in my driveway but, damn it, that 4Runner is always there in the morning when I go to work.

Behavior is observable. The question wasn't whether women exclusively date Bad Boys because obviously we can see many that marry the Nice guy. The question was 'why' women love Bad Boys.

'Why' is a guy that was very publicly convicted of murdering his pregnant wife and unborn child so attractive that (at least 36) women will ignore this fact to the point of attempting to make unprompted advances toward the guy on death row?
Why? That ones not really that hard if you've ever known a woman who jumps from one prison inmate to another. The type that are writing those letters are of a pretty distinct "type". I've always been a bit of a "people watcher" and I did a lot of observing during the 4 plus years I spent visiting inside a prison.

1) They don't handle close, normal intimacy well. They LIKE not having the guy "out" to have to "be with" on a daily basis. They like their intimacy in small yet intense doses.

2) They like a "caged" man because he can't cheat on her with other women. She KNOWS where he is at all times.

3) Men in prison are pretty emotional, write long love letters, tell you everything and then some, because all they have is time on their hands. Tons and tons of the emotional closeness with minimal, if any, sex.

4) Men in prison typically become extremely good con artists. They know how to play the system and people...tell them what they want to hear to get what they want. They are quite good at doing this with women, too.

These are SOME of the reasons convicts have groupies. There are more, but I just got home from work and don't much feel like explaining more right now. The women who were already with a guy when he went to prison or who, like myself, met and got involved with only one prisoner on a fluke, are different, and hate the separation and downside to being with a man who is locked up. But the type that write those letters to Scott Peterson and his ilk actually LIKE those disadvantages. I suspect some of it is about having complete control and power over the prisoner, even though these women are usually being conned big time.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Sorry, but I have to bump this thread in light of new evidence:

Scott Peterson Marriage Death Row Proposals

The prosecution rest.

For God's sake, 3 dozen women! Do you really need any more proof than this?
I lived in Modesto and I've met people who knew Lacy. I think Scott is a ****in sick **** and those women can't be serious.

Anyways, back on topic...

I was arrested at school for some stupid **** I did (I've learned so much how important it is to control your temper), and I got 3 girls from my school IMing me less than a week later online wanting to hang out with me. 2 of them were actually quite hot... Now the girls were not exactly good girls, one of them was arrested to for shoplifting with a friend, and the other hottie is a pot head.. (not the kind of girls I would liek to be around)

After being arrested I was kind of depressed and wasn't interested in going after any ass for a little while... Pluss I moved, so nothing happened, but I'm kind of glad.

Yes, women do love bad boys, but I'd rather be a guy with confidence and looks than a bad boy. I think bad boys attract girls that are trash anyways (at least from what I've seen).
 

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'Why' is a guy that was very publicly convicted of murdering his pregnant wife and unborn child so attractive that (at least 36) women will ignore this fact to the point of attempting to make unprompted advances toward the guy on death row?
that is ****ing screwed up
 

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Women like bad boys because they're far closer to being real men than mild-mannered wage slaves or pvssy-whipped emo kids could ever be. Not only do they do as they please, but they're usually tough enough to handle whatever comes their way as a result.

In fact, I think that bad boys are the raw material from which real men are made. I say this because real men and bad boys are basically the same. They have the same restless energy, the same self-centered approach to life, the same fearlessness, and the same lack of regret or remorse.

The crucial difference is that the real man has direction to his life, while the bad boy doesn't. The real man has the discipline to do what it takes to achieve his goals, while the bad boy is at the mercy of every random urge. Other than that, they are identical.


It's possible that on some weird, animal level, a woman could see a vicious killer as a better choice of mate than the glorified housepets most men are today ... the legacy of countless generations of cavewomen having to choose between a sadist and a corpse for a husband.
 

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I also think its the look of a bad boy that initially attracts girls

notice I said initially

real life comparison: I know this one dude, tats, bike, lost teeth, the whole deal and he has the hottest girlfriend out of anybody I know, however, he is by far one of the nicest dudes I know, he does have the traits of a DJ that help him keep the HB10 that she is. so initially, the look is what got him there

now take me for example, I have all the charachteristics of a DJ, maybe even better than that guy but Im a total prep, I drive a Benz and Im all Abercrombie & Fitch. and yes, Im sitting at home typing this shyt

so in comparison, even though both of us are typically the same DJ and think alike, his girl is hot and I mines....uuhhh...welll...she sick at home lol

maye this doesnt speak for everybody but both of us are fun, confident and have balls, but if a girl had to choose without getting to know a bad boy and a prep then she'd go for the bad boy look simply cos the prep looks like a romantic "nice guy" type while the bad boy rocks tore up shirts and tats
 

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The problem is that most "nice guys" are wusses, which is an attraction killer, while the "bad boys" aren't wusses.

Being a nice guy while not being a wussy is a very powerful combonation when it comes to attracting women.

The fact that women can and do become attracted to total losers who happen to be "bad boys" is proof of that, and the fact that women are repelled by supplicators is even more proof.

One doesn't have to become a "bad boy" or an A-hole to attract women.
 

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escobar04 said:
I also think its the look of a bad boy that initially attracts girls

notice I said initially

real life comparison: I know this one dude, tats, bike, lost teeth, the whole deal and he has the hottest girlfriend out of anybody I know, however, he is by far one of the nicest dudes I know, he does have the traits of a DJ that help him keep the HB10 that she is. so initially, the look is what got him there

now take me for example, I have all the charachteristics of a DJ, maybe even better than that guy but Im a total prep, I drive a Benz and Im all Abercrombie & Fitch. and yes, Im sitting at home typing this shyt

so in comparison, even though both of us are typically the same DJ and think alike, his girl is hot and I mines....uuhhh...welll...she sick at home lol

maye this doesnt speak for everybody but both of us are fun, confident and have balls, but if a girl had to choose without getting to know a bad boy and a prep then she'd go for the bad boy look simply cos the prep looks like a romantic "nice guy" type while the bad boy rocks tore up shirts and tats
Yep, but it depends on the girl. Some girls go for the bad boy torn shirt look, and some go for the preps. I just act who I am... I am a natural ******* with a bad temper.. haha But I am nice to people who are nice to me. Some girls liked how I looked when I was mad, and some didn't...

It all depends on the girl.
 

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00Kevin said:
the badboy list is simply describing a man who is strong, confident, in control, and powerfull in his own way.
Spot on.

Lets face it "bad boy"? In this day and age could simply mean a guy who has the balls to look a b!tch in the eye.

Just another bollocks word along with "rape", "love", child "support" and "family" courts.
 

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Derek Flint said:
The problem is that most "nice guys" are wusses, which is an attraction killer, while the "bad boys" aren't wusses.

Being a nice guy while not being a wussy is a very powerful combonation when it comes to attracting women.

The fact that women can and do become attracted to total losers who happen to be "bad boys" is proof of that, and the fact that women are repelled by supplicators is even more proof.

One doesn't have to become a "bad boy" or an A-hole to attract women.
I dunno, I've tried it all ways... being that I've got long hair and a goat, I can pull off the badboy look pretty well. I used to pull up to places in my Viper, with my boots, the Desert Eagle, badass shades, the whole thing... it never worked. I tend to dress more clean-cut now (though I still swich it up)... button down shirts, slacks, dress shoes... It still doen't work much for Sh1t, but statisciaclly I've had better luck with it. The bad boy thing is overrated IMHO.

I guess I'd concider myself a 'nice guy'... to people I like. Get on my sh1t list and forget it though. I can give a big fvck you to anyone without hesitation... and I don't supplicate or any of that sh1t. BUT talking or dessing tough never got any female attention. It's a fvcking myth as far as I'm concerned.

I've got friends in that same boat. They're all really nice guys if you meet them, but they'd ventilate a threat in a second (ahhh... yes, gun nuts) if they needed to. Their all into fast cars, fast bikes, and fast music... and they don't dress like pvssies... but they don't draw women... at all. Seriously, it's a crock.
 

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