Why women LIE about men's LOOKS mattering

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They are AFRAID of what would happen. They would LOSE the grossly inflated sexaul market power they wield today. Guys would no longer be so eager to do them special favors, and men would be MUCH more wary about getting married. Guys would no longer be such easy targets for the deceptive games so many women play for materialistic gains. Women are SCARED of that truth getting out!!

The majority of men have been married and have had girlfriends, but many of THOSE men are blissfully unaware of how fake their mate's "love" is . Women find the majority of men unattractive, yet settle for those same guys for practical, social and cultural reasons. Paradoxically, the majority of THOSE guys have NEVER experienced what REAL love from a woman is like! Her practical needs simply outweigh her need for love, and she is under social pressure to maintain a fascade of love for her man. If only those men knew this...

Think about it. What do you think would happen to the dating/marriage game if most men realized just HOW much looks affected their true market value? What do you think would happen if those "normalfags" woke up to the fact that women can ONLY have romantic emotions toward a man who is conventionally physically attractive? If men want to regain the value in society they have lost, they MUST wake up to the redpill truth about male looks and the games women play.

Women would not be able to get away with the blatant disrespect that is so commonplace nowadays. Male knowledge of the true nature of female sexuality would make a woman's erotic capital less effective in gaining special favors and perks from men. Her erotic costs for those special favors would be much higher. They would also have to bring their standards in line with their actual market value and not be so demanding in their mate search. Men as a group would NO LONGER TOLERATE the pricey behavior women get away with so easily today. We would probably see a return to a much more traditional approach to courtship and marriage. The sexual market would be far more balanced between the sexes, like it used to be. Women very well might return to traditional ways... WILLINGLY...as they are faced with the EVEN WORSE end result of unrestricted and uncontrolled female sexuality, without a male counterbalance in place in the sexual market.

The 60s sexual revolution had a major flaw. It allowed women to get ****ed by guys WAY out of their league, but the sexual revolution did not account for the intense internal conflict many women feel between marriage and sexual attraction. Today, the Sisterhood is in the position of trying to explain away damning proof of the true nature of female sexuality. Actions speak louder than words. What men see does not match the words, and not every man is so gullible. Female sexual privaledge is only possible when men remain decieved and unaware of how female sexuality operates.

THAT is why women lie about looks! They KNOW what would happen to their privaledged position in the sexual market. Don't kid yourselves, guys. THEY KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THEY'RE DOING! If a women is sexually attracted to you, she reveals a part of herself that is a CLOSELY GUARDED SECRET`she keeps from the average-looking guys she dates.

Cheating is commonplace because women typically settle in the looks department for relationships and marriage. They cannot truly _LOVE_ a man who does not spark her SEXUAL desire IMMEDIATELY - on LOOKS ALONE! The guy usually cheats because she isn't putting out, and the woman usually cheats because she was never truly sexually attracted to her man in the first place. A man generally does not require a "7" to get sexually aroused, but a women DOES. She has to deal with the internal conflict between the desire for companionship and family, versus her sexual needs. I belive guys would be even worse than women as cheaters if they were in the typical female position. As much as women cheat, the amount of restraint they exhibit before finally succumbing to the temptation is admirable. Too many men do not know how truly easy it is for a woman to cheat if she really wants to. They do it simply because they can, where doing the same takes a lot more effort to accomplish for a man. That's why most female cheating is typically more spontanteous, while a man's cheating is typically more planned and methodical.

Honestly, while a return to traditional ways might be largely beneficial for men, it has its problems. There's gotta be a better way to solve these problems, without women having to settle for a guy they aren't physically attracted to, and taking away the freedoms of another human being. More guys would have mates in a more traditional sexual market, but a pragmatic approach to marriage absolutely CANNOT be sustainable without one gender submitting to the other's total CONTROL, and SERIOUS restraints on divorce. The true nature of female sexuality is THE MAIN FUNDAMENTAL RESAON why women were classically put under such tight constraints. THAT is why feminism and female sexuality is often so tightly interlinked. Notice how much they talk about SEX and SEXUALITY in their writings? That is NOT a coincidence!

I say **** all this slavery and settling ****. This is the 21st century. Mass male looksmaxxing, legalization of anabolic steroids under a physician's care, and publicly available, IMPROVED cosmetic surgery for the aesthetically disabled males, would be the more civilized, progressive, and EASIER-to-accomplish solution. You can call this idea crazy, but as gender problems get progressively worse in the future - and they WILL -, a dramatic solution WILL eventually be necessary. Putting men on gear and under the knife would be far more efficient, peaceful, moral and beneficial, than regulating women to second-class status and glorified prostitution. That's the **** that caused feminism in the first place. In a world of erotic equality, men wouldn't need MGTOW and MRA's, and women wouldn't feel the need for feminism.
 

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great post.

this is exactly the reason why the hottest females i see at work are all married to or dating guys that look like roman polanksi or ron jeremy, for many of these fake females the need to attach themselves to someone who could provide them with a certain lifestyle was clearly much greater than their need to be with someone they find attractive.
 

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The entire reason websites like this exist is because women as a group lack honesty. If women where honest.. there would be no confusion about them.

People cry "misogyny" when I claim women are compulsive liars for the most part. Sorry if the truth offends you.. but it is what it is.

Women are rarely if ever honest in their relationships and they are NEVER completely honest in their sexual/romantic relationships. Yeah, I said "never". And if someone can show me an example that proves otherwise I would love to see it. :yes:

Men manipulate the world and women manipulate men. That's the name of the game. The faster you accept the reality of the game the better off you'll be.. both in life and in your sexual relationships.
 

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Nowadays for some reason I think height is way more important to them than looks.

I overheard one chick saying she'd rather have a guy who's 6'6" and a "3" or "4" in looks than to have a 5'6" guy who's a "9" or "10"
 

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no one thing matters to a girl. the whole picture does unless one thing is absolutely extraordinarily worse or better than everything else

as in, if you're a 9.5 out of 10 pretty boy, you won't need much else, but as long as you don't look like a literal LotR-style troll then your looks won't damn you.

same thing with everything else about you. as long as you're not a heroin addict in crippling debt then you can still pull plenty of babes with little money. though it'd be effortless if you were a millionaire

just think about girls, how pretty does a girl's face have to be for you to overlook a flat ass and chest and crappy figure? how big do her boobs have to be for you to completely overlook her boring personality and butter face? same concept.
 

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latino158 said:
Cheating is commonplace because women typically settle in the looks department for relationships and marriage. They cannot truly _LOVE_ a man who does not spark her SEXUAL desire IMMEDIATELY - on LOOKS ALONE! The guy usually cheats because she isn't putting out, and the woman usually cheats because she was never truly sexually attracted to her man in the first place .
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I agree with the entire post, but I want to emphasize the part above that I snipped. It's signature quote worthy.


I even asked a HB7.5 female friend about this last year to confirm my thinking.

Mike: "I think that looks are the ONLY source of genuine attraction. Status is good for ego. Money is great for lifestyle. Personality is what it is. But only looks truly attract someone."

HB7.5: "I completely agree."

But ask women this publicly and they will give you some BS about wanting personality and confidence lol.
 

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I just think that looks is a major contributing factor in attraction : Good genetics help you make good first impressions. But how can you explain, flat broke fellas going out with rich, educated and beautiful women? (I've seen that myself!)

It was always confusing for me.
 

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Looks matter in attraction. But it really isn't that important for a women long term. Long term she is much more interested in status than looks, then money.

If a woman dumps a man, you can be 90% certain it is because she met another guy with better LMS that expressed interest in her.

Confidence, self-control, and challenge are all by products of being high status and wealth.

A truely confident, disciplined man will make a good life for himself.

Challege just causes her to invest in you, which increases the value she has in your relationship. It's possible for someone to fake all this (PUA stuff), but you won't end up in any LTR, which is fine if that is what you want.
 

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Well I dont agree on the cheating part, there are girls, usually ones who worse to males than you to females, who will make it easy for you to cheat, no planning or anything.


In the end ****s fuked up, so its always a good idea to cheat as much is you can. Its not moral, its not right, but its a good idea to do it so you got ammo.
 

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I agree

But its not only women to blame, weak men shouldn’t not be partnering up with a low quality woman because she has a nice face and a good p*ssy simply because they are lonely and want regular sex

One of my friends is doing it right now he’s with a chick who to be honest i wouldn’t see fit to clean my shoes

When i ask him if he “loves her” ......he says he doesn’t know but the sex is pretty good and he gets it regularly so who cares

LMAO

From her POV ......he has 2 houses , a car , 2 jobs and a few quid in the bank, she isnt the best looking woman in the world , she works as a hairdresser doesn’t have much money and knows full well shes going to have to put a lot more effort in too get any better

You now have 2 people that “society” has jumbled together in the hope they reproduce and somehow “make it work”

Im sorry but i would rather forgive sex for the rest of my days than find myself in this type of arrangement

I think that example perfectly sums up how corrupt and useless the dating / mating system has now become
 

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If a guy is over 26 and still using women for sex and brags about getting it everyday then his priorities are messed up. That is something a teenager in high school brags about or college. After school is when the real learning begins. Looks matter, but they are one piece to the pie. I seen my less attractive friends bag more women than me, and they don't have a good job or much ambition, but they do have game and confidence and personality
 

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Too many generalizations in the post to make a comment about it.
 

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Yes, women will marry a less attractive but decent earning guy. But will she actually be happy with that guy in the long run?

He may well be ambitious and hard working and confident, etc., but mostly likely, wifey will still stop putting out. She will blame it on her age, being too busy with the kids, etc., but the real elephant in the room is that she compromised on his looks and she's not happy about it. Sex was just a scam she used to lure in the guy with money and get him to commit. So she cheats with some younger hotter broke guy or just gives up sex altogether.
 

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Real men, no matter what they look like, will get rid of any woman who doesn't put it out, or show respect or meet their needs.

They stop f'king you because you became a pu$$y, not because they realised you weren't good looking enough over time.

I know plenty of guy who look like they've been set of fire and put out with a spade. They don't give a **** and this confidence shows though and their women are f'kin hot

End of story...
 

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Couldn't agree more, excellent post.

I have a buddy who was chasing a chick above his pay grade for a looong time (years). He's one of those guys that tries to make everyone feel good and she loved the attention.

He tried getting some alcohol in her and she still filibustered (pretending to fall asleep while he was taking her clothes off).

Finally she gave it up. However, he told me she literally laid there and did nothing while he just got himself off. After he was finished she asked if he liked it, but she wouldn't do it again after that. I told him to stop chasing her and he'd get pissed off at me...

Some women will have sex with you even when they aren't sexually attracted to you to get favors, money, attention etc. The chick in this story was pretty hot too. In the end she couldn't get passed the lack of sexual attraction.
 

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I think women will lie about it looks because it keeps her gang of orbiters chasing. Flat out telling a man: "I like you as a friend and that will never change, I will just use your time and resources and never gives anything in return" would make her lose that guy that she can cry to when her bf is being an assh*le

So it's not really surprising that they lie about it
 

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Looks matter. Upto a point. Then it becomes irrelevant. Frankly I call them on their BS when I see it. It may not be the best strategy, but it makes me feel good. And it works in turning them from the exploitative critters they are, into these sweet girls who treat me right. I mean like I know this girl, she is a complete asshat to her boyfriends and people in general, yet I called her on her BS, so now she considers me the best thing since sliced bread.

I see commied girls posting duckface selfies. I see married couples where the dude put a pic of them both on facebook, and the girl has only pics of herself on her facebook. I see women stringing men along. I see women keeping orbiters so they can get over their big love. Their big love is usually a big kid, who didnt understand what is he getting into, and then walked out on them (IVe been in this position). I see more and more women call "Abusive childhood, traumaric experiences" which doesnt impress me in the least. I just advice them to keep quiet about these things couse it may seem like good ammo, but in the end the dude will always miss out on some hard convos or let some things slip, with good intentions, she is this hurt little kid, you better not upset her too much right? Wrong. This kills the relationship. Been there, done that.

So the tides have turned *****. I got them doing ME favours, couse when they see the usual tricks dont work, they be like WOooooW this guy is smart. Well ye, *****, it doesnt take a genius to spot the ho you are.


Women have a way of making men fight lost causes like that. Stay smart or if you want to be a fool, be aware of it, so you dont become someone else's fool.

Anyway, recently I did 5 psychological tests, and got 90 % on schitzotypal disorder so I may be the crazy one here. But I doubt it.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Yes, women will marry a less attractive but decent earning guy. But will she actually be happy with that guy in the long run?

He may well be ambitious and hard working and confident, etc., but mostly likely, wifey will still stop putting out. She will blame it on her age, being too busy with the kids, etc., but the real elephant in the room is that she compromised on his looks and she's not happy about it. Sex was just a scam she used to lure in the guy with money and get him to commit. So she cheats with some younger hotter broke guy or just gives up sex altogether.
+20 points for this one. I see this happening very often.
 
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