Why women disliking you is a good sign

[izza]

It's a good sign in your life if many people, especially hot women, don't like you. I'm not talking about your friends here - it's a really bad sign if your friends don't like you. I'm talking about people you barely know.

The reason is simple. Some people just won't like who you are. Period. More importantly, the fact is that the happier, more confident, more sexualized you are, the more certain strangers will resent you. This is due to jealousy: unhappy people are jealous of the happy, the meek are jealous of the confident, the repressed envy the sexualized. Remember in high school how lots of women hated the most popular,attractive girls? At my high school a group of nerdy, hideous chicks made a merciless, almost cruel blog about the hot, most popular chicks at my school. They got caught and a lot of people were really angry. It all began with jealousy.

Also, if people don't like you it's a sign that you are being yourself - your personality is not "rent-a-buddy" piece of clay that molds to whoever you are with. It shows that you are selecting your company based on your personality. It means you are not so desperate for approval that you seek to befriend everyone you meet.

Besides, it's inevitable that if you are honest with people about how you feel - abortion, politics, dating, what country you're from etc. - certain people will dislike you right away. Division is part of this world.

All right, so I'm not suggesting people go out there and be d!cks to everybody. I don't recommend anyone be an @sshole on purpose. I'm just saying, if people don't like who you are, it's a sign you're living your life on your own terms.

--Izza

 

[Fender]

Sounds good in theory I guess...

but truth is, most people like to be liked.

-fender-

 

[Jay-X]

i don't think so... there's this guy in my ex school that is ultra confident and everybody loves to be around him. another one is a super alpha male and many people say he's a stupid, but in reality everyone loves to be with him

certainly, if you are confident, lots of people try to strike your confidence, more expecially people that admire you

 

[white cloud 8]

I think what he is trying to say is that those people whom are naturally confident and exude it because they know in themselves that they are comfortable with this thing called confidence. Yes, along the road you will meet people who will just not take a liking to you because thats just life, not everyone in this world is going to like you (its a nice thought though). People always fear whats different.

 

[skeeloo]

i like this, ever noticed when someone hates you for no damn reason? this is prove happens to me alotta no matter how nice im am i still get hated on even by women that dont know me, they say i think im all that, when im just living my life and putting my awful past behind me, never let these ppl bring you down, they are sad ****s.

good thread anywayz.

 

[exwhyzee]

I feel like when I am in a good mood nothing can bring me down, but sometimes I rub people the wrong way with too much confidence or happieness or whatever. I try not to let upset/unhappy people to bring me down.

On the flipside, if I go out and not allow myself to have a good time (meaning go out with a bad mood) confident and happy people sort piss me off, and that is me being jealous..you probably know the feeling.


Its just best to be happy, real happy, most if not all the time.
There is this quote I found that I really enjoy and try to live by...

"The secret to happiness is not in doing what one likes to do, but in liking what one has to do."

peace

 

[DrBeard]

yeah man. All them biatches give me loadsa shiat and they start out nice then call me names and laugh at me and stuff but I know it means thyr neghiting + they really want me!

U gotta be a badazz loose cannon and make em chicks hate u cos when they hate u they get horny for u!

 

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by DrBeard
yeah man. All them biatches give me loadsa shiat and they start out nice then call me names

like pidgeon? just jokin, i'm happy you are back

 

[Vince]

Originally posted by izza
Remember in high school how lots of women hated the most popular,attractive girls? At my high school a group of nerdy, hideous chicks made a merciless, almost cruel blog about the hot, most popular chicks at my school. They got caught and a lot of people were really angry. It all began with jealousy.



--Izza

Women HATE other women period.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Someone disliking another is neither a good or bad sign. If a girl I like has a friend I dislike, I try to be nice. But if a friend of mines has a friend I dislike, I act indifferent about her/him.

Can't some of you DJs just take something that it is and not twist it around to be of some sort of philosophical mumble jumble?

Bush knows 60%+ of America hates him, HE KNOWS THAT. he doesn't act nice or act even more evil (dunno about that) - What I do like about Bush is that he is consistent in what he does and says... He's pretty consistent in being a dumbass so people expect that of him, and that's good thing especially if you're one of those dumb republicans.

 

[izza]

Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
Can't some of you DJs just take something that it is and not twist it around to be of some sort of philosophical mumble jumble?

It is impossible to formally present any element of a life philosophy through language without what you call philosophical mumbo jumbo.

If you ever read something and you say "wow, they didn't resort to any philosophical overcomplications" it's because you naturally agree with what they are saying.

You have the right to disagree.

Personally, I have found that one roadblock in my development as a person and as a manwh0re is the desire to please everybody. This post is useful for those with the same problem. There have been times in my life where it was as if I believed when I reached full potential, everybody would like me. I would like everyone to like me, but that is life, and I am better for it.

All the best bro,

--Izza

 

[nosexbox]

If you're successful, people who are not successful (by their own judgement) will tend to resent you. People that are OK with themselves will not.

Kinda sad, but reality.