Why Women Are Attracted To Toxic Men

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Found this very interesting video on YouTube.

It simply talks about the different types of attachment styles we develop in relationships & the biggest factor/cause of the type of attachment style you will develop.

Simply put, your upbringing & the relationship you had with your parents, will massively determine your attachment style.

So why are some or most Western women attracted to toxic men? The biggest contributer is either neglect from her father, or the complete absence of a father figure.

If you have a secure attachment style, your less likely to be drawn to toxic girls & less likely to act out in a toxic manner towards women.

I would highly recommend you watch this video.

 

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Because that's what they have seen their whole lives growing up in their parents relationship and that's what they feel is normal and what is in their comfort zone.

Essentially because they are toxic themselves and are born of a toxic household environment.
 

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And here I thought everybody already knew about these attachment types. :cool:
 

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So basically, it's due to feminism
 

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I think theres some truth to this... but all women regardless of upbringing drop panties for bad boys.


Women go nuts for this video. I think it might have something to do with bad boys reminding them of misbehaving children. Bad guys... I have to say are the guys I keep around as my friends the longest. They're willing to go on real adventures and get serious about sh1t really quick. Regular joes are so busy grinding they forget to actually live life. There are millions of mysteries and adventures to go on, how many of the people in your life would you seriously consider taking with you.

Here's a perfect example of two of those types of guys.


I guarantee neither of these guys worries about pulling chix. Women love these dudes because they have something to say. I've made this point before but he, vietTim and Haldr Baldr are former RooshVforum guys. ;)
 
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Found this very interesting video on YouTube.

It simply talks about the different types of attachment styles we develop in relationships & the biggest factor/cause of the type of attachment style you will develop.

Simply put, your upbringing & the relationship you had with your parents, will massively determine your attachment style.

So why are some or most Western women attracted to toxic men? The biggest contributer is either neglect from her father, or the complete absence of a father figure.

If you have a secure attachment style, your less likely to be drawn to toxic girls & less likely to act out in a toxic manner towards women.

I would highly recommend you watch this video.

Women fall in love with the guy they want to ****.
 
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