Why we MUST play games with women?

[FrankWank]

Why do we have to play these games in order to get women? Why be alusive, nonchalant, aloof, and ignore them etc.........???????????

Why cant we just be nice and do what they say?
Why cant we cry with them and express our feelings?
Why not buy them gifts and flowers?
Why not be available?

the list goes on and on

 

[IsiMan84]

Originally posted by FrankWank
Why do we have to play these games in order to get women? Why be alusive, nonchalant, aloof, and ignore them etc.........???????????

Why cant we just be nice and do what they say?
Why cant we cry with them and express our feelings?
Why not buy them gifts and flowers?
Why not be available?

the list goes on and on

Because they play games too. Either play or be played.

The answers to your next 4 questions:

1) Because they will use us to the max.

2) Because they will think we are weak and take advantage of it, then use us to the max.

3) Because they will use us to the max.

4) Because they will know they are the only one we have our eyes on, meaning there is no competition elsewhere, and then use us to the max.

 

[ChenCristos]

when you are DJing girls , like most of life you are selling yourself and she is selling herself to you as well. Its a means of showing the value of a product. The product is people. Who would buy **** when they could get something brand name or top notch? Its not about playing games all the time- You have to be sincere and do what you want but at times games are necessary to tap that ass

 

[Qualtran]

Before I say anything I will answer your questions with 2 questions:

1. ARE YOU SERIOUS?
2. Have you read a word of the dj bible, or paid attention to any of the posts here?

I think you are trying to get at something else here, but the way you ask is not going to get you any decent answers.

isiman84 gave you good answers to your current questions, but if you are serious you should try to rephrase in order to get advice that hasn't been repeated 10000 times before.

 

[Jake-inator]

Cuz its a Dog eat Dog world, and you're kibbles n' bits.

 

[TedJustAdmitIt]

These games are only games if you're pretending to be something you're not.....you don't need to act aloof/elusive etc. if you actually have a fuking life.

Why cant we just be nice and do what they say?

Oh dear.....do you realise how spineless that sounds?

 

[JonJack]

Oh man! Is FrankWank complaining? Is he actually complaining about why he's not getting women because he doesn't want to play games? Wait! Is he whining? Is he actually whining about not getting women because he doesn't want to play games?

Quit whining and complaining.

 

[IsiMan84]

I just realized he's been registered for about a year, is this his first day actually reading this stuff or what...

 

[NRM]

Because you have been socially programmed to be the man that a women say they want but don't actually want. The whole idea behind a Don Juan isn't just about women. It's about improving yourself for a better life. It's about gaining confidence, being bold, living life for what it is, and pushing all boundries.

You think you're playing games because you haven't tried to improve your life yet. You come here and try to use scripts and lines that other people use. You're spending too much time researching just about women and not about yourself. Well, none of this bullshit works if it's just a game to you. What you consider "a game" is the way you should act, the way you should be if things were right and you were ACTUALLY A MAN.

Why be allusive or step back or treat them like goddesses? Because nothing is wrong with the women. The something that is wrong is you. Women are acting the way they just act. They care less if a man is crying over them. But the second a woman rejects a guy like you, you cry over it. It hurts you and you just want to tell her all about it.

If you're a man, and you cry and share your emotions with a guy like me, all I'd wanna do is slap you. You'd be wasting my fucking time.

We are all socially programmed by the media, Usher, JT, romantic comedies, our mothers who tell us to treat women right and most likely tell you to be the man that is complete opposite to your father that she just so happened to fall in love with. Men misinterpret signals. They hear something once and think that's ALL a woman wants.

Most of the guys on this site don't understand any of that. It isn't games or a front. It's about YOU. You were born as an empty vessel, ready to be filled up with knowledge and information on the way you should act. You took things in wrong. The electric pulses in your brain became fried and you became some loser on the block. It's time to heal those impluses and become a more successful, confident, and bold person. Fuck those lines. Once you become a REAL DJ, you won't be coming here no more, because you'll be absolutely content with your life.

 

[Sayajin_Prince]

no games = no pu$$y

 

[mactheripper]

Originally posted by FrankWank
Why do we have to play these games in order to get women? Why be alusive, nonchalant, aloof, and ignore them etc.........???????????

Why cant we just be nice and do what they say?
Why cant we cry with them and express our feelings?
Why not buy them gifts and flowers?
Why not be available?

the list goes on and on

Because it's not attractive to them, regardless of what they may say. Actions speak louder than empty words.

It's almost like a girl saying

Why can't we fart and burp like the guys
Why can't we let our legs grow hairy and be all natural

etc......

I agree, games are very bad, but I look at it as gaining a psychological advantage, or going some way to empathize with what a girl is thinking or needs...

 

[spider_007]

DON'T LOOK AT IT AS A GAME

This sites original purpose was to make guys understand that they need to BE MEN, NOT DOOR MATS if they want to get laid. Over time everything got broken down into technics and steps......

It is not a game, IT IS EXPOSING THE TRUE MAN INSIDE YOU (and not the kind you see on TV eather)

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

Well welcome bud, good to see you around here!

Just to touch on your subject, players play games....by using seduction tactics and techniques.....the reason a don juan is called a don juan, is because he gets women without playing games like seducation, or playing games like being too nice, like nice guys do, or playing games like acting all hard and tough like jerks do.

A don juan does not play games, it is his positive attitude that attracts friends and girlfriends to him....there are no games with don juans.

I know you read about that you should call her 3 days after getting the numba or whatever, even that rule is not a rule. That rule was created so you would not be desperate and too clingy to her, it was originally created so the guy would, haha, not be all thinking about her all the time.

But if you set up your date first, then if she accepts, get her number, you could call the next day, that really does not matter.

In the end bud, there are no games, just a positive attitude from us, which makes us display to people that we are confident, fun, and comfortable, and that attracts, all kinds of people to us.....keep going bro, you are on the right track!

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by FrankWank
Why do we have to play these games in order to get women? Why be alusive, nonchalant, aloof, and ignore them etc.........???????????

If you're asking these questions, you missed something along the way.

You don't have to be nonchalant and aloof. You just have to set aside your ego, your insecurity, and your desperation. When was the last time you saw a woman responding to someone who was "aloof"? Are the guys you see out there working the women being "elusive" or "nonchalant"? No. They're being CASUAL. They're acting on their attraction without any "must-complete" attitude about it.

Why cant we just be nice and do what they say?
Why cant we cry with them and express our feelings?
Why not buy them gifts and flowers?
Why not be available?

the list goes on and on

Because you have your OWN life and shouldn't be trying to live through her opinion of you. And if not, then you need to GET a life.

You're looking at it like it's "black or white". You're either "aloof and disinterested" or you're "buying her flowers and crying with her".

The two ends of the scale you've described are repulsion and feminine attraction. You decline to address the possibility of MASCULINE attraction.

Not your fault...society brings us up to believe that "love" is strictly a feminine thing. It's not.

 

[PimpNHard]

Because they lie - you should check out my thread "Females Lie" and you wisee exactly why you shouldn't do those things!

 

[Pookie]

You can do all of those things! Just not in the beginning or you turn women off because they think you are desperate.

The DJ tactics are just here to get a chance with women. Later on, you can do all of these things!

 

[nachos]

Are you the dumbest person ever, seriously. just think for a second what you asked.

if a guy appears to a woman to be a ***** she wont want to touch him.

even though those dumb peieces of **** that are only good for a root and a clean house think that they know what they want they dont, all they want is a tribal leader type guy.

outspoken -
strong -
smarter than them -
natural leader -

its insincts for suvival purposes, with women, just baffle them with bull****.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

well guys what he is trying to point out....is that it seems like we are acting just as women do on some playing field, as to with the tactics and techniques and what not...and what he is asking is, why cant I just be myself? For that, is the only way I can truly love, and his is correct....

Todays dating scene is filled with more gamers and players then people seriously looking for a committed relationship, there is nothing wrong wit that, a little fun never hurted anybody.

But when you really find someone you like, there is no more tactics or techniques because she has now been released from her barriers so to speak.

Most of the tactics taught are to even get women to notice us, if we happen to not be famous, tall, dark, or handsome.

Lets not get mad at women for this, lets just learn how to deal with them.

In the end brother, the only game that is to be played, is the fact that your positive attitude, fun and loving personality, and creating warm and comfort in her, is going to stop her from playing her game.

Women created the game, but don juans, breaks them away from it, and that is why, she loves us.

Lets do it guys!

 

[darthsidious]

we must always be at an advantage over all the women out there that want to test our manhood.

we will become the victors of the glorious battles!

only the weak believe that everything is honest and truthful.