About two months ago, I went on two dates and they went really really well and of course I screwed it up by not closing either one with a kiss... Seriously don't ask why.... I know I f'd it up. So I ask for the third date and I get the run around.
I've stayed in touch in her by texting once a week and she always replies back the next day.
A couple of weeks ago, I hung out with friends and she was there (We have mutual friends). It was awkward. It was the first time we've seen each other since the 2nd date. I can tell both of us felt awkward and uncomfortable throughout the night. I played it cool the whole night. I socialized with everyone and really didn't focus on her at all. When we did talk, it was more flirty than anything else.... At the end of the night, I felt really bad cause I should have broken through the awkwardness and just make both of us feel comfortable. So the next day, I sent a text apologizing for the awkwardness knowing I could have broken it. She replied back the day after, "No worries. Just another night out with the guys. Good to see you again."
I haven't spoken to her or seen her since then... so that's 2 weeks and yes, I've been seeing other women.
So a couple of questions:
1. Why was it awkward between us?
2. I know I'm in the FZ but why not give it last hoorah. I was thinking of asking her if she would like join me when I go to the museum. Something non-threatening..something I would do on my own anyway? So how much longer should I wait to contact her? Any suggestions? Anything I should do differently? If she said yes...I know what to do. Trust me!
3. If she says no...how do I play it out?
Thanks
I've stayed in touch in her by texting once a week and she always replies back the next day.
A couple of weeks ago, I hung out with friends and she was there (We have mutual friends). It was awkward. It was the first time we've seen each other since the 2nd date. I can tell both of us felt awkward and uncomfortable throughout the night. I played it cool the whole night. I socialized with everyone and really didn't focus on her at all. When we did talk, it was more flirty than anything else.... At the end of the night, I felt really bad cause I should have broken through the awkwardness and just make both of us feel comfortable. So the next day, I sent a text apologizing for the awkwardness knowing I could have broken it. She replied back the day after, "No worries. Just another night out with the guys. Good to see you again."
I haven't spoken to her or seen her since then... so that's 2 weeks and yes, I've been seeing other women.
So a couple of questions:
1. Why was it awkward between us?
2. I know I'm in the FZ but why not give it last hoorah. I was thinking of asking her if she would like join me when I go to the museum. Something non-threatening..something I would do on my own anyway? So how much longer should I wait to contact her? Any suggestions? Anything I should do differently? If she said yes...I know what to do. Trust me!
3. If she says no...how do I play it out?
Thanks