Why they let go so easy

[Music_czar]

The fact that you care that women are promiscuous means you are coming from scarcity. It's the same as guys who complain of hypergamy. Those guys are incels. They have a victim mentality.

And also, the fact that you downplay having a life and being indifferent (naturally because you have plenty of women) also tells me you have no concept of attraction.

Like I said, this thread smells likes incels victimizing themselves and complaining/coping.

Of course there’s scarcity of quality women, recognizing this is just stating the obvious.

One thing you don’t seem to understand about attraction is it doesn’t last long, no matter how great or indifferent a guy you are.. that’s the whole point of the thread.

 

[guru1000]

@stormrider , you got stick around here pal. We're outnumbered.

 

[Music_czar]

There isn't a scarcity of quality women. Not in my reality. Maybe in yours. Which explains everything you have written.

We all live in the same world, but we experience the world differently. Some people experience abundance, and some experience lack.

Your paradigm is what determines whether or not you are winning or losing in this game.

If you read my post again, I already said that there are no gurantees in life, and only people coming from scarcity look for gurantees. They look to control the outcome.

The fact that you want something to "last" that comes from outside of yourself tells me you are not self-fulfilled. And that's why you don't run into high quality women.

Like attracts like. Scarcity attracts more scarcity.

You are living an Alice in Wonderland fairytale. When you have had a successful 10+ year relationship with a high quality beautiful woman, then come back here and spew your BS.

 

[Music_czar]

If being successful with women is a fairy tale according to your standards, then that says more about you then me

Your definition of success is being in a long relationship? There are people who are married for 30 years who hate each other, lol.

Some people want to be single. It does not mean they are not successful. They are successful at their terms, which can be banging hot women.

Just because you need a woman to complete you does not mean the rest of us are as needy as you. Don't project your neediness to the rest of us. I'm happy with what I got

Yeah sure you’re happy with what you got.. that’s why you joined SoSuave two months ago because your life was so overflowing with quality pvssy.

Some of you guys bullshyt so much it’s really getting ridiculous, the experienced men here aren’t as naive as you think.

One more thing: I never said I needed a woman to complete me. You’re arguing with me but you don’t even know what my argument is.

I said the growing divorce rates and increase in female promiscuity is a reflection of the decreasing quality of women for long term relationships. If you are happy with what you have that’s great.. but your need to jump from woman to woman is proof in itself that these women aren’t making you happy.

 

[lamath]

I said the growing divorce rates and increase in female promiscuity is a reflection of the decreasing quality of women for long term relationships..

That argument can be explain from an other point of view also.

Or maybe its the men that are getting less manly in this feminist word, and are making women leave relationship.

A relationship is 2 people, even if the women initiate the divorce 80% of the time it does not mean the man as not his part in it

 

[Music_czar]

The pot calling the kettle black? Lol. So you think everyone on Sosuave is a frustrated loser?

I never said I need to jump from one woman to the next.

My life is more like I make money. I do MMA. I bang a hot chick who's been a friend for a while. I can bang more. I also have connections with women I bang. I don't want commitment.

I have never met a Hot guy 10 alpha male who in my entire life who wants to settle. They want to pump and dump as long as they can until they become old and balding.

Now, if I meet a woman that I an completely infatuated with, then that is different.

But guys that I know that are winning are not desperately searching for her either.

No big stud, don’t put words in my mouth to fit your bullshyt perspective. What I’m saying is you’re full of sh*t because if you had so many quality women you wouldn’t have joined this site a couple months ago.

Lol@guys coming here for a few weeks and all of a sudden they’re masters of getting high quality pvssy.

We see right through your bs.

Men are experiencing problems finding quality women, if you actually found a quality woman you wouldn’t have the need to spin plates. Because a quality woman wouldn’t put up with her man fvcking other women.

The whole point of spinning plates is to find a quality woman worth spending time with.

 

[lamath]

Also i think the age of the man in this post might have an effect on his perspective.

The older you get the older the women you go after are, its a fact that women that are at let say 35 and still single are often not quality.
The older a single women get the more jaded she become in general

 

[Music_czar]

While you are looking for "the one," the hot women are banging away and depreciating their vaginas. Better catch em young!

Now are these women terrible human beings? Or are they just natural women?

We can both look at the world and see it differently. I see women just doing what is natural to them.

Is marraige a man made construct or some super-natural God ordained sh!t? It's a fantasy.

Nature designed women to be pumped and dumped until they hit the wall. I don't understand all the hate women get for doing what they were programmed for, lol. It's mostly coming from the socially conditioned guys who believe in Disney.

So when I say "quality," I really do mean hot women who add value to my life. I don't mean finding my Cinderella as if FATE has decided there is someone out there for me.

I know for A FACT you don’t have any quality women because a quality woman wouldn’t put up with a man who fvcks other women.

 

[Music_czar]

I know for a FACT you have no idea what you are talking about. Because ALL women (quality or not) are attracted to guys who can get other women.

They would rather COMPETE for a guy who is socially proofed than to be with a guy who gets no women.

This has happened to me in every situation where I have been surrounded by women. The alpha guy gets ALL the women. Hypergamy.

What reality are you even living in?

Yeah you’re so alpha and surrounded by hot women that you felt the need to join SoSuave 2 months ago. Tired of reading your bs.

Women are attracted to guys like that, but a quality woman won’t be fvcking a guy who actively fvcks other women.

You do understand the difference between a woman attracted to a man who can fvck other women vs a man who actively fvcks other women while with her?

Only low quality trashy women go after guys they know are fvcking other girls.

But please, continue to school us on your mastery Mr. been on SoSuave for two months.

 

[Chi Town]

You do understand the difference between a woman attracted to a man who can fvck other women vs a man who actively fvcks other women while with her?

This is true

 

[Music_czar]

On one hand, you ask me if I am such an alpha male, then why am I on sosuave (insinutating that sosuave is full of losers).

And now you are saying that I can't be that alpha because I've only been in sosuave for 2 months (insinuating that you have to live in this website just to have credibility).

So which is it? Your logic is all over the place. Combined with the ad hominems, you sound like a passive aggressive woman.

If you think that women who go after guys they know are fvcking other girls are trashy, then ALL women are trashy.

That's right. In my life, being an out and in the open player has never hurted my value. Now, these women do try to get me to commit. And eventually they give up. But not after I have already slept with them a few times. IN FACT, the fact that I have options is the REASON they want me to commit.

Every woman (quality or not) wants a guy with many options to commit. This is a universal LAW. They would even give up sex and suck his d1ck every day just to get commitment from him.

You can be frustrated and put a value judgement on female behavior, or you can accept it and enjoy them for who they are.

Luckily for me, I am not a socially programmed disney hopeless romantic who believes in "the one." So I am happy with the way things are.

No what I’m insinuating is that you’re trying to bullshyt us with your lies about fvcking lots of quality women when meanwhile you joined sosouave two months ago

People aren’t as stupid as you think

 

[Music_czar]

I think everyone who has game knows what I am talking about. The fact that you think I am making this up says more about YOU. Lol. It says you are as blue bill as they come. I would never attempt to decieve people. I respect this the people on this site too much. They know what I am talking about and that's all that matters. I know my experience. There's nothing anyone can say that could de-validate me.

If you try to de-validate a guy who spits real game, that means you have no idea what you are talking about.

Only one of us can be right, and that person obviously is not you.

P.S. What does me joinging sosuave 2 months ago have to do with anything. The world existed before this website was ever concieved. And so did the laws of attraction.

It’s not that I think that you’re making it up.. it’s that YOU ARE making it up. Your recent join date here is more than enough proof of that.

Quality women don’t fvck men they know are fvcking other women. Only trashy girls with low self esteem/mental problems do that.

 

[NaturalSpirit]

So guys, I read all the replies on this thread and I can say I have found some chunks of gold.
I understand that the behavior of a woman is in fact how they are programmed to be ,and that you shouldn t take it personally.
But girls are now more kissed in the ass by society then ever, with all these brainwashed "man" who think that if they give them compliments all day and gifts etc.. they will get the pvssy but that NEVER happens, all the social media inflating girls egos like a baloon ready to explode and many many things that are putting women on a pedestal, but i guess you already know that.
What I have also discovered here on ss is that when you post a thread you will have to be very detailed or the users will misslead you, you will have people arguing about your situation even tho they don t know the whole story but surely I am the one to blame.There are always the little details that matter and that will change the whole story.
But all in all you have hepled me to understand some things here and there.

Maybe I will write another posts in the future when I am experiencing it so it will be fresh and more detailed than this one, but for now I am done.
Thank you for replying to this thread, i don t like or dislike things( even tho I "liked" some of yours posts , i just resonate with them).

Don t argue on this thread anymore, it is pointless.

 

[HankHill]

There are two types of guys; those who seek LTRs and those who're happy climbing one pv$$y to the next eternally. One guy wants to experience a deeper emotional connection, the other is happy pounding a different pv$$y every other week. Neither makes one alpha nor beta, it's about what you want out of YOUR life. I will say this from experience that until you've experienced a quality relationship you can't appreciate it and thus won't see its value and trying to convince otherwise is pointless. It's like the Reps vs. the Dems, the debate will never end because the world cannot be carved into just black and white, however, interestingly enough we all eventually end up in the same place i.e. 6ft under ground. As long as you do you (meaning whatever makes you happy) is all that matters. When you're 87yo lying in your deathbed thinking about life just be happy with the path you took to get there and have no regrets.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

None of what you said had anything to do with the discussion, just random gibberish lol

Low test. You mad son?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

It seems like 90% of guys in this website are still stuck in their social programming and constructs. They are still projecting their principles on to women, when the only principal women follow is the pleasure principle.

+1

Most guys aren't forged in the fire.

Men project blue pill rubbish. Projecting is fine. Ie young, top form SMV, thin, feminine and attractive etc. Its when cucks plsy house eith a *****

 

[djdfuser]

Yes, but wealthy men still have more options. How they choose to take advantage of those options is another matter.. wealthy men often become wealthy later on in life when beta tendencies are still strong from their youth. This is why sugar dating has exploded in recent years.. men paying women exhorbitant amounts of money just to hang out with them. Not the kind of women I’d like to get involved with, but to each their own.

Women, however, are naturally well trained in developing options and closing off prior relationships because they have instinctively learned that it’s much easier for them as a whole to find a replacement.. since it often falls right into their lap.

As for your own personal experiences, the women who were professing investment in you - I have absolutely no doubt that they were spinning plates just as much as you were if not moreso.

The combination of wealth, options, and indifference is a powerful aphrodesiac for women.. but very few men are lucky enough to develop that especially since most men (even wealthy ones) just aren’t as good at socializing and networking as women are. And with the explosion in social media, women are getting much better at this while men are getting worse.

Spinning plates can be fun but it gets old and tiring, but these days it’s a necessary evil. Men just need to learn how to say no to women more and dismiss disrespectful behavior (EDIT ADDED: IMMEDIATELY, 2 STRIKES THEN WALK).

Not sure about the bolded but the rest shows very good awareness.

 

[Spaz]

Only 2 or 3 men in this entire thread gets it.

The rest are losers that complains endlessly and yet have no desire to change.

The only change that's forthcoming from these losers are the excuses that spouts from their mouths and the endless blaming of women.

Disgusting.