Bagofnuts said:
I actually dated her quite a lot in that span of time
This means went out on dates with? That means virtually nothing!
Bagofnuts said:
I don't even like to kiss a woman unless it's going to lead to sex soon after.
My reasoning: There's not going to be many times a woman is hotter for you than when your lips first touch. That is when she's the most ready to be fvcked.
Also, the more she's used to kissing you without it leading to sex - the harder it'll be to use it to escalate into sex.
Bagofnuts said:
And I don't think its all about the sex......
Maybe you're right.
But there's a good chance you're wrong. Especially since your view of her seems to be skewed towards, "she's not that type of girl" beliefs.
If she found a guy to fvck her; and he fvcked her good. It's game over for you. Unless/Until......... he moves on to the next woman.