Why the hell is she doing this?

[Centaurion]

So there was this chick that I was involved with a couple of years ago. She was a solid 8, had a pretty good personality. We used to talk on the phone ALL the time, send messages to eachother all day long (I remember receiving 67 messages -sms- in one day from her), hang out when we coud (she lived in another town), basically I thought she was perfect. But after a year or so I cut all contact because I realized that it was a waste of time, it took some serious time to get over her though.

I've barely had any contact with her during this time (3 years), just a short msn once every blue moon.

Fast forward to now. The other day just out of the blue I got a lengthy (2pages) email from her, asking me how I was and etc. then at the end she attached a link to her online profile. Stupid me had to of course click on that link.

And damn!!!!!

She has gone from a HB 8 to HB 15+++. It's totally ****ed up. She's got 1000s of chumps going all afc on her ass, leaving all these stupid messages and ****.

She looks so good that I have problems breathing. Seriously. I've been thinking of her constantly for the last week. I just can't get her out of my head. I've barely managed to restrain myself from calling/messaging/emailing her, but my willpower is at an all time low today. Even though I havnt contacted her, she has sent me 3 emails and left a message on my voicemail.

WHAT THE **** IS UP WITH THAT!!!!??

I need help DJs. I really really need help. I know that this **** can't work, I'm in sydney, she is in norway and she knows that as well. So why the **** does she lite up old flames!!!!????

 

[DanDaMan]

Challenge, buddy. You're one of the guys that she can't keep on her reigns. As soon as you go AFC on her, she'll be satisfied. But if you don't go AFC on her, she'll be longing to get you and she'll do the stuff she's doing now (emails, etc).

Women can't control their emotions and impulses... Doesn't matter if she lives half a world away; she won't think logically and realize that hmm... it just won't work out... She won't be able to resist chasing you anyway. That's what accounts for her behavior. Simple as that.

 

[the_great_gaia]

this is happening to you because it is a test for yourself to see if you have any self-control. the only way you will fucc it up is if you give in to the part of you that LONGS for her. Think about it, why have you become like this? Because of her looks. You got her right where you want her, so are you going to tell me that her looks and appearances are much stronger than your pride? Don't make me laugh! Don't become what she's so accustomed to: teasing weak chumps. She's e-mailing you 3 pages of *whatever*, don't do the same. For every 3 e-mails she send you, you reply back with 2 sentences, basically just letting her know that you are still breathing. DON'T go spilling your guts, or you'll be the one writing the 3 paged e-mails, and i guaran-damn-tee you that she won't have the courtesy to write you back one word. Don't fucc it up for yourself, take her looks as face value. She's basically throwing this in your face. She wants you to see that she is doing and LOOKING better without you, and she's curious at how you're gonna handle it. She's waiting on a response NOW. You dumped her, right? This is exactly why she's doing this. Treat her the same as before, just don't waste your time again like you once did. And she's probably just bored. And that is exactly why you shouldn't waste your time.

 

[Q-Pid]

Originally posted by Centaurion
WHAT THE **** IS UP WITH THAT!!!!??

She's seeing all these AFC chumps who are messaging her all the time and is desperate for someone she felt she could connect with. She remembers you - how you were a cut above the chumps - and pours her heart out to you in a big e-mail.

In my opinion i seems like she's interested in you. So chill out and stop overanalyzing ****. Stop being nervous and go for it. Remeber SHE IS THE SAME GIRL YOU KNEW FROM BEFORE. So nothing's changed - she's just got a bit prettier.

 

[italostud]

Lol, now she's a "hb15+" Just because you saw a couple of new pics of her online?

Newsflash buddy: Even ugly girls can be made to look decent with the right combination of makeup, lighting, photography technique, hell, even airbrushing/photoshop.

All you're seeing is carefully selected photos of her that make her look her best.

I should scan some older pics I have of past girlfriends. I can show you two pics of the same girl.

One pic you'll go: "Hmmm, not bad, about an 8"

Next pic you'll go: "Jesus I just blew a wad in my shorts. That chick has to be HBinfinity+1!!!!"

It's all an illusion. Sorry to burst your bubble

 

[Mr.De Beer]

yeah

Dude, fvck, thats a crap one... I suggest you get a bottle of your favourite booze, get pissed, cry...whatever. And then think how foolish you are to feel something for a girl in Norway. Dude, go out, get some HB9+ drunk, shag her, and say to yourself:"I'm the man..."

Good luck buddy...
Keep us posted.

 

[DirtMcGirtRIP]

Ya dude, she's in Norway for Christ's sake. You need to let her go.

Edit: Or pull a "Eurotrip" (the movie) hehe