Why the hell are they so unpredicable?

[evoke]

This one is driving me mad.

Last week I hung out with her and we were practically ****ing in the bar. Last night I was with her and it was like hanging out with my sister. Just some mindless chit-chat, and her and her friend telling me I'm "cute". Then we went to another bar, and two seconds after getting there she got depressed and wanted to go home. Something about there being too many people she went to highschool with being there. What the **** difference does that make?

Needless to say, my confusion over the matter led to much binge drinking, which in turn led to a few stupid text messages. I didn't reveal anything to her (I've already blown that cover wide the **** open in the past), I just said some random, bizarre things, and told her to stop being so sad all the time. Then I told her I was ashamed of sending her so many pointless text's (much like this post, huh?), and she said that she likes my "silly" messages, and that she thinks I'm special. So I'm a retard now? Whatever.

 

[Socialreject]

Three questions...

- What did you send her?

- Aren't you driving yourself mad?

- WTF?

 

[satyriasis]

Man, your making her problems your problems.

 

[guitaronfire411]

Go with the flow, or struggle against the river current and die.

 

[blueangel83]

Advice from a female:

She is trying to get your attention.

She wants your sympathy.

She thinks she's being cute when she's acting wierd.

When you went to another bar, she wanted to go home WITH YOU.

This type of girl likes to beat around the bush...

Your job is to reassure her that everything will be fine blah blah, act like a caring boyfriend (even if you're not together) and OPEN UP.

Good Luck!


Meg

 

[evoke]

Haha, no, we're not together. I was LJBFed by her months ago, but no matter how hard I try to move on, she keeps coming back. She's like Jason Vorhees or something.

When some guy addressed me as her "boyfriend" the other night (as in, "I don't want to piss off your boyfriend here..."), she didn't correct him, or even flinch. maybe she wanted him to think we were together to get rid of him. I dunno. I just kinda laughed and said, "Aww, did you hear that? I'm your boyfriend. Haha.", and she just looked at me.

She was also saying these things, like how I have "cute" features, but I'm still kinda scary and imposing (shaved head, piercings, built like a tank, yadda yadda...), and that I was like a "big, huge teddybear". WTF does that mean?

Anyway, I'm having this party tomorrow, and I'm not entirely sure if I should invite her. She already knows about it (as she asked), but she was never actually told to come. The last two times I invited her over for parties, I didn't talk to her for a month after the first, and I *****ed her out after the second, and didn't see her for like two months because she says she'll be there and never shows up. She had the nerve to say "I might actually show up to this one". ****.

 

[DJ4Real]

Don't invite her since "she already knows about it". When she said that "she may actually come this one", you should have said "haha, well, my door might be locked when you come knocking on it"

 

[evoke]

Don't worry, I did say something like that to her. I just can't remember what .

But yeah, she had this hilarious look on her face.

 

[BLUEox117]

If shes hot, and shes at your door, hit it.
Otherwise stop bothering.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Never take a woman seriously, This is the best advice from one of the SS elite members.