Why some LTR fail and others endure: subconscious needs?

[jhonny9546]

Is this completely wrong or are two people together because one matches the other in terms of what his subconscious needs, at psychogical level? Yes, there are fake relationships, like the women who want a rich guy or the guy who can't stay alone so chooses any woman.

So why do LTRs fail after having kids or after 10 or 20 years of marriage, or just stay togheter, while others stay together for more than 20, 30, 40, or 50 years? Does this genuine union, which goes beyond everything, precisely comes from the "psychological match" that we have with this other person and that we cannot control nor foresee in any way?

This goes beyond courtship techniques and other things we learn on the forum.
It's a feeling you feel exclusively with certain and very few people in the world.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Is this completely wrong or are two people together because one matches the other in terms of what his subconscious needs, at psychogical level?

Nope. This is the result of The Lizard People who control every aspect of our existence

 

[zekko]

Couples break up because there are inherent flaws in the personality and makeup of one or both of the people involved. No one is perfect, so it's a matter of what the flaws are and how they end up affecting the relationship.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

People who come together to fill a void in their lives often part ways when that void keeps existing. Dissatisfaction is the most common excuse for breaking up.

People who have been married for fifty years married in 1974, so they're not comparable with marriage requirements of the last decennia.

 

[The Duke]

Selfishness, lack of empathy.

 

[jhonny9546]

3 comments all completely right!
There is no single factor but this resonate so strong "People who come together to fill a void in their lives".

Usually a person fall in love in their deepest / darkest life moment.