Razor Sharp
Senior Don Juan
Why Real Life Game ALWAYS Trumps Online Game
Before I begin, let me say that I use Facebook, Twitter, and am registered on a few dating sites. I email and do not shy away from SMS because with younger women in their prime it's a necessity to break the ice often times.
What I do not do is rely SOLELY on internet game and this is why:
This online sh*t is a crutch which causes your realtime mental agility to atrophy.
Let me explain:
When a girl messages you, there is ample time to respond. You can marinate on her words, think of the perfect response (maybe even get help from SoSuave too) and then hit her back later on. It's the perfect type of game for someone who is not that quick on their feet and likes to analyze the sh*t out of everything.
It also takes a lot of pressure off you not to have someone in front of you who is so gorgeous it almost hurts to look at her. There is a nice comfy buffer protecting your ego and allowing you to wear the player hat more efficiently (or at least appear to do so)
But here is where you shoot yourself in the foot:
Let's say you ramp her interest enough to get a date/meetup/whatever. She's finally in front of you and all your buffers are gone. When she asks you a question or throws a ****-test your way, you don't have the luxury of time to formulate the perfect response. During these first crucial moments of live interaction, your wits have got to be sharp; the second she suspects that you are not as quick on the jump as you appear online, her interest will nosedive and you WILL get flaked on.
I hear lots of dudes complaining about this too. They can't figure out why women flake so often, well I'm telling you why - too many of you are fronting as e-pimps and your real-life balls do not match the virtual ones you wear so proudly. What many of you fail to understand is that
Incongruence is the ultimate turn-off for a woman.
The moment she suspects you are not the man you presented to her, you may as well dump a bucket of ice in her pants because that'll turn her on about as much. It's like someone selling you a car with the body of a Ferrari but the engine of a Pinto. It's not only a turn-off it's an INSULT to your intelligence!
The best way to avoid being a fraudulent "penis salesman", is to have a solid foundation to your game, which means that your social engine must be greased and ready to do 0-60 in a split second. You don't get these skills from texting, emailing or even live chatting. The only way to get the instincts that make for successful game is to be in the field working the muscle LIVE.
This is why I approach and talk to women EVERY CHANCE I GET. Anytime I see a gal who is even remotely attractive, I kick it to her regardless of where we are. Most of the time I don't even care if I get a number. The result does not matter to me, but the experience does!
Even if she has a boyfriend I will persist. Mind you I am not interested in taking a woman away from her man, in fact I am proud to say that (to my knowledge) I have never slept with a girl who was committed to anyone else because I think it's the wrong thing to do.
BUT...
The opportunity to deal with female resistance is too valuable an experience for me to pass on. I like to see how far my charm will get me, and many times I meet some really sharp women who challenge my intellect, patience and resolve and that's a good thing.
Now, I grew up in a small town and recognize that this is not a viable strategy for folks in this situation. Which is why I recommend, if you are interested in taking your game to new levels, you really need to travel. I am a f*cking ANIMAL on the road. There are no social consequences when nobody knows your name. Seriously, 80% of the reason I do so well is because I'm a frequent flyer who loves the adventure of something new. That alone makes me VERY attractive to women. Best money I have ever spent is on plane tickets and gas money, hands down. So if you live in West Bumblef*ck, do yourself a solid and explore new territory, you won't regret it!
Steering things back to the virtual domain - the times when I do game a girl online or via text, the actual interaction is MINIMAL. We will exchange a few brief messages (enough to demonstrate that I can hold her intrigue) before I go for the jugular and get her to meet me. This often involves me screening her to see if she is as adventurous as I am, essentially daring her to do something different. If she wavers or doesn't show enough interest I put her on the shelf and move on.
I've come to realize something in my years of playing this game, what a woman wants more than anything is ATTENTION.
If you satiate her appetite for that online, then often times she has already gotten the validation she wanted and doesn't bother meeting you. But if you just give her almost enough so that she is left wanting more, then you have some incentive to escalate things.
See, the true art of seduction is all in the anticipation, which is simply a vacuum of desire. To quote the Tao of Steve
Be desireless. Be excellent. Be gone.
Don't entertain her for hours on messenger. Give her a taste and then bounce so she is left HUNGRY! Minimize the virtual time you share so that you can not only get that date, but you also get a chance to work that social muscle, because it needs constant training!
On that note I am going to end this post and leave you hanging. I have tons more great tips but want to give you a glimpse at what keeps the women in my life thinking about me
Before I begin, let me say that I use Facebook, Twitter, and am registered on a few dating sites. I email and do not shy away from SMS because with younger women in their prime it's a necessity to break the ice often times.
What I do not do is rely SOLELY on internet game and this is why:
This online sh*t is a crutch which causes your realtime mental agility to atrophy.
Let me explain:
When a girl messages you, there is ample time to respond. You can marinate on her words, think of the perfect response (maybe even get help from SoSuave too) and then hit her back later on. It's the perfect type of game for someone who is not that quick on their feet and likes to analyze the sh*t out of everything.
It also takes a lot of pressure off you not to have someone in front of you who is so gorgeous it almost hurts to look at her. There is a nice comfy buffer protecting your ego and allowing you to wear the player hat more efficiently (or at least appear to do so)
But here is where you shoot yourself in the foot:
Let's say you ramp her interest enough to get a date/meetup/whatever. She's finally in front of you and all your buffers are gone. When she asks you a question or throws a ****-test your way, you don't have the luxury of time to formulate the perfect response. During these first crucial moments of live interaction, your wits have got to be sharp; the second she suspects that you are not as quick on the jump as you appear online, her interest will nosedive and you WILL get flaked on.
I hear lots of dudes complaining about this too. They can't figure out why women flake so often, well I'm telling you why - too many of you are fronting as e-pimps and your real-life balls do not match the virtual ones you wear so proudly. What many of you fail to understand is that
Incongruence is the ultimate turn-off for a woman.
The moment she suspects you are not the man you presented to her, you may as well dump a bucket of ice in her pants because that'll turn her on about as much. It's like someone selling you a car with the body of a Ferrari but the engine of a Pinto. It's not only a turn-off it's an INSULT to your intelligence!
The best way to avoid being a fraudulent "penis salesman", is to have a solid foundation to your game, which means that your social engine must be greased and ready to do 0-60 in a split second. You don't get these skills from texting, emailing or even live chatting. The only way to get the instincts that make for successful game is to be in the field working the muscle LIVE.
This is why I approach and talk to women EVERY CHANCE I GET. Anytime I see a gal who is even remotely attractive, I kick it to her regardless of where we are. Most of the time I don't even care if I get a number. The result does not matter to me, but the experience does!
Even if she has a boyfriend I will persist. Mind you I am not interested in taking a woman away from her man, in fact I am proud to say that (to my knowledge) I have never slept with a girl who was committed to anyone else because I think it's the wrong thing to do.
BUT...
The opportunity to deal with female resistance is too valuable an experience for me to pass on. I like to see how far my charm will get me, and many times I meet some really sharp women who challenge my intellect, patience and resolve and that's a good thing.
Now, I grew up in a small town and recognize that this is not a viable strategy for folks in this situation. Which is why I recommend, if you are interested in taking your game to new levels, you really need to travel. I am a f*cking ANIMAL on the road. There are no social consequences when nobody knows your name. Seriously, 80% of the reason I do so well is because I'm a frequent flyer who loves the adventure of something new. That alone makes me VERY attractive to women. Best money I have ever spent is on plane tickets and gas money, hands down. So if you live in West Bumblef*ck, do yourself a solid and explore new territory, you won't regret it!
Steering things back to the virtual domain - the times when I do game a girl online or via text, the actual interaction is MINIMAL. We will exchange a few brief messages (enough to demonstrate that I can hold her intrigue) before I go for the jugular and get her to meet me. This often involves me screening her to see if she is as adventurous as I am, essentially daring her to do something different. If she wavers or doesn't show enough interest I put her on the shelf and move on.
I've come to realize something in my years of playing this game, what a woman wants more than anything is ATTENTION.
If you satiate her appetite for that online, then often times she has already gotten the validation she wanted and doesn't bother meeting you. But if you just give her almost enough so that she is left wanting more, then you have some incentive to escalate things.
See, the true art of seduction is all in the anticipation, which is simply a vacuum of desire. To quote the Tao of Steve
Be desireless. Be excellent. Be gone.
Don't entertain her for hours on messenger. Give her a taste and then bounce so she is left HUNGRY! Minimize the virtual time you share so that you can not only get that date, but you also get a chance to work that social muscle, because it needs constant training!
On that note I am going to end this post and leave you hanging. I have tons more great tips but want to give you a glimpse at what keeps the women in my life thinking about me
