All my opinion, I reasoned this for myself but may be some guys find it helpful so I wrote it up.
Why Pook is not coming back:
At least the Pook you knew in the posts here
It is simple:
the key to this site is to get to the level where you leave it
that level is knowing who you are, and being your TRUE self
then you place other things in boxes - career, girl, friends, hobbies
once you do there is no need really to discuss anything else, you just live
People write to put their thoughts down and see the chain of thinking, to notice errors in logic and see what emotions are driving your thoughts.
He always said he wrote for himself.
He did the things above and it was time to move on
With his new blog he was focusing on what was really destroying America (and now the world more and more each day) and that is women not being comfortable with being women.
That's why he attacked feminism so hard in his blog
Unless he figured THAT out (and he would show us (himself) what it is) and moved on three things are possible:
1. Something in his life prevented him from computer access
2. He realized he couldn't win - doubtful, this war will be won because people want to be real and accepted at their core
3. He decided that it's time to move to another medium where he can gain in other ways - financially for example, via books
writers write for therapy, if it was #3 he would give a sign, so I think it's #1
I hope he is alive and well, but I think there is a reason why he isn't updating his blog, and that reason could be a really bad one.
People come back to this site when they are having problems with women in their lives, that's the ultimate truth, guys who "teach" others here for years are egocentric, there are always new members who will need to figure all the things above out, and you can't physically teach them, because eventually you die of old age.
Best thing you can do is post your stuff, hope it helps and hope the message spreads. THen you go and live your life - repeating yourself over and over is exhausting and arguing is worse, and we all know how many arguments people have here - a huge sign that people aren't being 100% honest and real, or those arguments would end with a compromise.
But via new blood they will never end, so you are wasting your own life sticking around imo.
If Pook comes back here, he won't be the same guy who left, and his advice neither, so take what you can from his posts when he "got it", but understand who you are and read them then once again, then see it through your new perspective take what you need and go live.
Just like he hopefully is.
Why Pook is not coming back:
At least the Pook you knew in the posts here
It is simple:
the key to this site is to get to the level where you leave it
that level is knowing who you are, and being your TRUE self
then you place other things in boxes - career, girl, friends, hobbies
once you do there is no need really to discuss anything else, you just live
People write to put their thoughts down and see the chain of thinking, to notice errors in logic and see what emotions are driving your thoughts.
He always said he wrote for himself.
He did the things above and it was time to move on
With his new blog he was focusing on what was really destroying America (and now the world more and more each day) and that is women not being comfortable with being women.
That's why he attacked feminism so hard in his blog
Unless he figured THAT out (and he would show us (himself) what it is) and moved on three things are possible:
1. Something in his life prevented him from computer access
2. He realized he couldn't win - doubtful, this war will be won because people want to be real and accepted at their core
3. He decided that it's time to move to another medium where he can gain in other ways - financially for example, via books
writers write for therapy, if it was #3 he would give a sign, so I think it's #1
I hope he is alive and well, but I think there is a reason why he isn't updating his blog, and that reason could be a really bad one.
People come back to this site when they are having problems with women in their lives, that's the ultimate truth, guys who "teach" others here for years are egocentric, there are always new members who will need to figure all the things above out, and you can't physically teach them, because eventually you die of old age.
Best thing you can do is post your stuff, hope it helps and hope the message spreads. THen you go and live your life - repeating yourself over and over is exhausting and arguing is worse, and we all know how many arguments people have here - a huge sign that people aren't being 100% honest and real, or those arguments would end with a compromise.
But via new blood they will never end, so you are wasting your own life sticking around imo.
If Pook comes back here, he won't be the same guy who left, and his advice neither, so take what you can from his posts when he "got it", but understand who you are and read them then once again, then see it through your new perspective take what you need and go live.
Just like he hopefully is.
