why not pay for it?

ChanceBoudreaux

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eventually we all pay for it one way or another, maybe not in hard cash but something more valuable... time
i'm 31 years and i'm not getting any younger, time is too precious to me

think of it like this, in the stone-age times, caveman had to go hunt for there food, now fast forward to the present-day, we have supermarkets, convenieance stores, mcdonalds etc, if we feel hungary we go to the store and pay for it, easy as pie

so why not with woman?

there seems to be a stigma with this practice, why? because we're paying for it, i think i could get a girl for free if i had 12 months to look for one but i dont cause i have a life, for some people getting girls is easy, its like the gods have lined the girls up for them , they will meet hot ones everyday for 350 days of the year without having to look
myself i will be lucky if i see a decent 1 in a week or a month (and thats when i'm really looking hard) then theres the high chance she taken which is 99.9% of the time

who knows after paying for sex with a really hot chick, walking down the street some chick may pick up on that confidence and scent that you had sex and she will approach you

ps I have never in my life paid for it but after not getting anywhere for far too long i am finding cold approachs a waste of my time and energy when i can be using it on more productive activties and live my life, i have resources money, so why not use it to my advantage
 

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even girls who arent escorts, pros, hookers

have already been around the bushes, what makes them clean, they're no angels either
 

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the hot 7,8,9 or 10's that everyones after have high p***y value, does anyone think that p***y is virgin territory, its probably more loose than a single moms whos had 10 kids
 

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i personally dont want to do it but thats because i dont have the money anyways lol.

but i mean if i get girls through 1 attribute (looks) and you get girls through another attribute (money) i dont seethe difference, whatever makes you happy in the end. thats all that matters.
 

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When I'm a old man, you better believe I'm paying for it. I have no intention of getting married to a sneaky b*tch that can rob me legally.

In the meantime, I'm enjoying the game.
 

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ChanceBoudreaux said:
i'm 31 years and i'm not getting any younger, time is too precious to me

You're right. You might expire from old age at any moment. omfg I hope I never live to be that old. It must be horrible. I pity you.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You're right. You might expire from old age at any moment. omfg I hope I never live to be that old. It must be horrible. I pity you.
I pity the fool, who can't get laid!

Lots of free info here. If you want an ebook, go to utorrent and look there.

I pity the fool who buys one of them ebooks!

Effort, I don't know what to say. I didn't know that stuff existed.
 

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One big issue with paying for it is that it can be extremely expensive if you want some quality on a regular basis.

Lets say one finds a decent girl for $200 a session. Seeing her once a week adds up to $800 a month.

Since we all end up paying for it anyways, about how much does it cost, to sleep with a real for a month. The expenses are stuff like, meals, drinks, movie tickets etc.

LOL I should have read efforts links first :p
 

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Maxtro said:
One big issue with paying for it is that it can be extremely expensive if you want some quality on a regular basis.

Lets say one finds a decent girl for $200 a session. Seeing her once a week adds up to $800 a month.

Since we all end up paying for it anyways, about how much does it cost, to sleep with a real for a month. The expenses are stuff like, meals, drinks, movie tickets etc.
I really don't mess with escorts. Strippers will charge you most of the time, but there are ways to get lucky and f**k her w/o paying. (Me and a friend went to a strip club in Clarkston, GA and gave a dancer some fake weed and fake cocaine. We tore her fine ass up then left the place happy as hell before she found out!

A woman wants a man, more often than not, for his resources. As in what he has to offer, his money, his car, etc. Being that pu$$y has a high market value, women can charge and decide just how far you'll get. If you appear valuable, they'll let you go far. If not, good luck. It's true most women are shallow.

Try to get the woman interested in YOU, not your RESOURCES. You'll feel a lot better, especially in a relationship.
 

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I'm all for it. If you have the money and can get away with it, then do it.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Effort, I don't know what to say. I didn't know that stuff existed.
The discussions? The calculators?
 

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nismo-4 said:
(Me and a friend went to a strip club in Clarkston, GA and gave a dancer some fake weed and fake cocaine. We tore her fine ass up then left the place happy as hell before she found out!

A woman wants a man, more often than not, for his resources. As in what he has to offer, his money, his car, etc. Being that pu$$y has a high market value, women can charge and decide just how far you'll get. If you appear valuable, they'll let you go far. If not, good luck. It's true most women are shallow.

Try to get the woman interested in YOU, not your RESOURCES. You'll feel a lot better, especially in a relationship.
Man, you must have been @Strokers! That was the first shoes show club I went to about...18 years ago.

I absolutely agree with try and get the women interested in you and NOT your resources!

Back on topic, I am starting to think pay for it up front and leave the drama for so other poor soul!
 

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An old man once said "If it floats,flies,or fu&ks--- its cheaper to lease". He was a cowboy,so it could also apply to breeding stock
 

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You say that you have a life and your time is precious ...this seems to mean that you are a real man. then go to some club with your buddies ...you have a good chance to bang some random girl. And if not.... then you had a good time.
 

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nothing wrong with paying for it

BUT
for you in this situation, wont it put Sex on an even higher and more uattainable pedestal?

i personally dont see the value in "bought" women, what does it acheive, apart from placing the women in a harder palce to reach?

buy a fleshlite

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on the other hand once or twice many do a good stress reliver for you...
as long as you dont link to only way to get laid as paying for it !
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ChanceBoudreaux said:
ps I have never in my life paid for it but after not getting anywhere for far too long i am finding cold approachs a waste of my time and energy when i can be using it on more productive activties and live my life, i have resources money, so why not use it to my advantage
what "pickup / improvement / DJ dogmas do you follow

no offense your probably doing things wrong (or have hit a plateau at a very low level)
how often do you go out to practice?
how many sets do you open?
where do you go out?
are you improving yourself to be a better man in other ways (personality + health )

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ChanceBoudreaux said:
cause i have a life, for some people getting girls is easy, its like the gods have lined the girls up for them , they will meet hot ones everyday for 350 days of the year without having to look
myself i will be lucky if i see a decent 1 in a week or a month (and thats when i'm really looking hard) then theres the high chance she taken which is 99.9% of the time
you have some limiting beleifs there!!!
you clearly see women as higher value from yourself

where exactly do you live/work/go where there are no nice women???
i dont beleive it at all
 

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well, I had to pay in one way or another. It's your choice I guess your right. Whats the difference between paying rent for your significant other and paying to fuk her every week.
 

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The best things in life are free.

Idea of paying for sex with a women who isnt going to enjoy it, seems a bit of a turnoff.
 

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seems tempting..

but the reality is if you used even the same amount of money on a girl you meet I think its a better investment then giving it to a hired gun

...more time enjoying something (good food, dancing,entertainment etc)...than a sure thing for 30 min or 1 hr.

Still dont always think profit/ loss myself.
 
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