Why it’s cheaper to pay a lady of the night, rather than waste your time and money trying to “pick up” women in bars and nightclubs.

[Pierce Manhammer]

Dude, everyone here has tried to help you so many times, if you want to wallow in your own excrement by all means, do so, but stop flinging it around here.

Your solution for anything is to call the person you’re talking to a Chad. It’s your little excuse for everything and frankly, very few of us here are chads - if any - and definitely not me by any measure.

You have your head so far up your third point of contact you’re starting to see light from your mouth.

 

[corrector]

Dude, everyone here has tried to help you so many times, if you want to wallow in your own excrement by all means, do so, but stop flinging it around here.

Your solution for anything is to call the person you’re talking to a Chad. It’s your little excuse for everything and frankly, very few of us here are chads - if any - and definitely not me by any measure.

You have your head so far up your third point of contact you’re starting to see light from your mouth.

And your advice is to get therapist that will advise their clients to visit prostitutes? This is how you defend yourself in an open forum?

 

[2rings]

Lets get back on track

I live in a big city and have reviewed several websites for local escorts. One night I contacted at least 20 women and it was similar to Online Dating, whereas, I never figured out how to get an escort over to my place. Seriously.

Some responded and told me to send them money first. I was like no way.

I even got a text response from some dude saying he was a pimp from a Mexican drug cartel and he threatened to expose my phone number unless I paid extortion costs. Later I researched into that and heard it was a common scam.

Another women sent me a link to her escort website that completely did not match the same woman from the original ad. Later I researched that they dont gaf, they will just send any random girl over that does not match the photos.

A few texted me photos of themselves but then kept saying they need money sent first, I think like $50 and I said no way. Later I read they all do that to just scam guys, they keep the money and then never show up.

several of the women I called and left voicemails. One picked up the phone and she sounded very sketchy and told me I had the wrong number. Two minutes later she texted me more ads.

i had cash to try a hooker but ordering one was difficult to navigate.

So it was a big effort. It was like online dating.

 

[SW15]

Alissa Heinerscheid, former marketing executive on Anheuser-Busch's Bud Light brand, is the perfect example of this.

In sales, it’s common to see women blowout earlier because they can’t handle the pressure.

A lot of what I'm about to say is product and industry dependent, but I'll speak in general terms below.

Women have two distinct disadvantages in sales.

1. They are not accustomed to rejection. Women are rarely rejected for sexual relationships. Getting rejected for money and business dealings is different for them.
2. There is a lot of pressure. It's tough to deal with quotas and other pressures.

Women have one major advantage in sales.

1. People like to buy from attractive women and many organization hire attractive women as sales reps. As a result of being attractive, a lot of female sales reps do well.

Women are often in marketing roles. Marketing is a tough occupation because it is prone to layoffs. Companies do also try to protect women in layoffs, but that only goes so far.

 

[corrector]

Lets get back on track

I live in a big city and have reviewed several websites for local escorts. One night I contacted at least 20 women and it was similar to Online Dating, whereas, I never figured out how to get an escort over to my place. Seriously.

Some responded and told me to send them money first. I was like no way.

I even got a text response from some dude saying he was a pimp from a Mexican drug cartel and he threatened to expose my phone number unless I paid extortion costs. Later I researched into that and heard it was a common scam.

Another women sent me a link to her escort website that completely did not match the same woman from the original ad. Later I researched that they dont gaf, they will just send any random girl over that does not match the photos.

A few texted me photos of themselves but then kept saying they need money sent first, I think like $50 and I said no way. Later I read they all do that to just scam guys, they keep the money and then never show up.

several of the women I called and left voicemails. One picked up the phone and she sounded very sketchy and told me I had the wrong number. Two minutes later she texted me more ads.

i had cash to try a hooker but ordering one was difficult to navigate.

So it was a big effort. It was like online dating.

You don't have any local escort review boards? The ones that are asking for a deposit, do they also offer incall? Chances are, if they are offering incall, then it may be legit, after all you can choose to forgo that deposit and visit them in person right?

Seriously, I've read through this and it sounds wierd. Probably the other numbers didn't pick up the phone or went straight to VM.

The way I'd read this, in your case, is that you should quit this and go after real women. Now that you did this, perhaps OLD will work in your favour. I remember there was this time I called a bunch of escorts in 2012, and had a similar experience you did. Then I received a call-back from a girl I was pursuing from OLD,, and wouldn't you know, I had a great romantic adventure with her, and then when we broke-up later and I called an escort again, then she picked up the phone but I didn't go ahead with it (had another off and on gf I was seeing afterwards anyway and went with a real girl instead of that). How are your dating prospects looking like?

 

[2rings]

You don't have any local escort review boards? The ones that are asking for a deposit, do they also offer incall? Chances are, if they are offering incall, then it may be legit, after all you can choose to forgo that deposit and visit them in person right?

Seriously, I've read through this and it sounds wierd. Probably the other numbers didn't pick up the phone or went straight to VM.

The way I'd read this, in your case, is that you should quit this and go after real women. Now that you did this, perhaps OLD will work in your favour. I remember there was this time I called a bunch of escorts in 2012, and had a similar experience you did. Then I received a call-back from a girl I was pursuing from OLD,, and wouldn't you know, I had a great romantic adventure with her, and then when we broke-up later and I called an escort again, then she picked up the phone but I didn't go ahead with it (had another off and on gf I was seeing afterwards anyway and went with a real girl instead of that). How are your dating prospects looking like?

Haha so the OLD girl had your # in her phone from you calling online escort ads?

i stated previously i have no experience with ordering escorts.

i would be scared going to some strange location, it would probably be a sting or a setup with a pimp trying to rob haha

yeah I mostly use dating apps and in person i flirt and establish rapport, and at work and a few social groups

 

[SW15]

We have had a long thread about men paying directly for sex and no one has mentioned the type of person who pays directly for sex the most.

Married men in sexless and infrequent sex relationships are the men often paying directly for sex.

 

[corrector]

Haha so the OLD girl had your # in her phone from you calling online escort ads?

i stated previously i have no experience with ordering escorts.

i would be scared going to some strange location, it would probably be a sting or a setup with a pimp trying to rob haha

yeah I mostly use dating apps and in person i flirt and establish rapport, and at work and a few social groups

I had the OLD girls number and she returned my call. She was unaware I called escort ads. As the premise of me calling escort ads is escortcelling as soon as a civvie women shows interest then I will not deal with escorts. Women must reject me for me to even go there mentally.

You sound paranoid. I visited incall locations three times in 2014. If it was a sting they would have a hard time proving anything as all I did was stand at the doorway and did not even knock. There was no statement made where I asked for sex. I asked for experience not sex to the first door opened.