Why is this happening!!!

[ARguy]

Alright so I'm extremely confused by what is going on here. I like this girl, she knows it because I told her and she seems to like me suggested by the way we are but... She has huge extremes when it comes to testing someone out.

She asks questions and puts down scenarios, but not simple ones like "would you still like me if I get fat?" nope.

The contradictions are what is making me think too much. She comes off as religious and the entire no sex for a long time stuff (which is how I am anyways) but then she comes out saying stuff like "I would make a terrible girlfriend" I cheat on all my boyfriends, or that she can be a b*tch, etc.

Like personally. Why would you say those things??? And then it's countered with what's seems to be an innocent girl that likes me and hugs me and has strong values and seems like she wouldn't do those kinds of things.

I feel like she is trying to push me away because she is scared or something. Then its followed by us being close again...Anyone have experience with this?

 

[JohnChops]

First line "this girl knows I like her because I told her" ..... Bad mistake there . However this girl seems like she is mental. Back off and go find some new fish

 

[Iceberg]

Hate to throw out the cliche line....but this post is BEGGING for it....

Spin more plates.

Alright so I'm extremely confused by what is going on here. I like this girl, she knows it because I told her and she seems to like me suggested by the way we are but.

Never a good move to tell a girl that you like her...Especially considering that there is no real relationship between you two.

The contradictions are what is making me think too much. She comes off as religious and the entire no sex for a long time stuff (which is how I am anyways) but then she comes out saying stuff like "I would make a terrible girlfriend" I cheat on all my boyfriends, or that she can be a b*tch, etc.

Honestly, man. It just sounds like it's a typical situation where the guy neutered himself.

The girl doesn't respect you. She knows she has you by the balls. So, now she's doing what girls do in that situation - which is, push boundaries for the sake of seeing what you'll put up with.

Like personally. Why would you say those things??? And then it's countered with what's seems to be an innocent girl that likes me and hugs me and has strong values and seems like she wouldn't do those kinds of things.

Would I say those things? No. Would women I date say those things? No. Would a woman who has no respect for me.....yes.

I feel like she is trying to push me away because she is scared or something. Then its followed by us being close again...Anyone have experience with this?

Haha. She's not scared, my friend. That is what we tell ourselves when a girl doesn't accept our efforts to start dating them. "She's scared.....she's been hurt before.....she's just taking it slow." Trust me, if George Clooney walks up and offers to move her to his Paris condo, she wouldn't be "too scared."

A girl who wants you will find a way to have you. A girl who wants you isn't "too scared."

You'll find out when you see how quickly things progress with her NEXT guy.

 

[5string]

Many hamsters are cluster b's.

She sounds crazy. Go get a replacement.

 

[MisterD]

i would abort mission dude.

girls say stuff like that so when you do catch her cheating, she says "i told you! i'm terrible! please help :-("

so they can play the victim role

girls like this are bad news my friend

 

[Tictac]

Good old fashioned push-pull.

If you don't like this ride, stop and get off.

 

[nismo-4]

Stop worrying.

Spin more plates.

There's no good in this that is for you.

Case closed. Leave my court. :yawn:

 

[yuppaz]

She just isn't into you, there is nothing confusing going on here. You need to go out and meet more girls.

 

[coochieman]

Lmao!

Okay, Possible Reasons:

She's not interested.... if she were, she'd be in your arms telling you lovely junk not playing games.

She's just mindscrewing you.... mostly a bye-product of disinterest, might not be though. be true to yourself to know if she really is.

About the cheating on her be-fores.... ultimate sign of no respect, if she were so scared of losing you, she would leave all that out of the story for now. nobody's Christ here so we cannot know for sure....

what's the only way to have you giving the least possible fucck? Get options now. work on getting options, its time consuming enough.

 

[ARguy]

Thanks guys. Yah I don't think I would want to be with someone that starts things off that way at all. Everything you guys said sounds very logical and not worth my time. It's weird because I thought I knew her as a person a little better but what a surprise I got..