For the record, it has all come out now and she has finally told me her problem.
I'd ignored her and avoided her last week, but then she decided to meet up with me unexpectedly one day and hang out for a while. We were cool and polite with each other, but then the following night I received a drunk text message from her insulting me and accusing me of treating people like sh1t. I ignored it and then she sent me another one telling me she doesn't like me and doesn't trust me because of something I said to her ages ago.
I won't go into detail, but I "called her on her bullsh1t" one day and suffice to say it was something that really hurt her. She acted cool at the time, so I had no idea that it had been eating away at her and she secretly hated me for it. I have apologised and we have had a talk. It seems like all the games I've been playing, my "confident" attitude and the way I play on my social proof have made her feel like sh1t. I don't know what will happen now, but we're talking again.
I've been visiting this board for a year now and I now conclude that all games, charades and strategies don't work. They've messed me up and they've messed other people up so no more game playing or strategizing for me!
All these strategies and fascades do is give the illusion of confidence and that is weak at best. My advice is to learn to accept your true nature because that's the only way you can truly respect yourself and develop genuine confidence.
I'd ignored her and avoided her last week, but then she decided to meet up with me unexpectedly one day and hang out for a while. We were cool and polite with each other, but then the following night I received a drunk text message from her insulting me and accusing me of treating people like sh1t. I ignored it and then she sent me another one telling me she doesn't like me and doesn't trust me because of something I said to her ages ago.
I won't go into detail, but I "called her on her bullsh1t" one day and suffice to say it was something that really hurt her. She acted cool at the time, so I had no idea that it had been eating away at her and she secretly hated me for it. I have apologised and we have had a talk. It seems like all the games I've been playing, my "confident" attitude and the way I play on my social proof have made her feel like sh1t. I don't know what will happen now, but we're talking again.
I've been visiting this board for a year now and I now conclude that all games, charades and strategies don't work. They've messed me up and they've messed other people up so no more game playing or strategizing for me!
All these strategies and fascades do is give the illusion of confidence and that is weak at best. My advice is to learn to accept your true nature because that's the only way you can truly respect yourself and develop genuine confidence.
