I've had this happen too where I laugh during an intimate moment because something unrelated came to mind and the girl instantly thought it was about her. Usually this shows some lower self esteem but it depends on how we recover.
think about it this way. What if you pull your diick out or you're doing your best to dig in her guts and the girl bursts out laughing. You ask her what's up and she says she remembered something funny and unrelated. Depending on the mood and the moment and how she follows up on that remark you might not believe her and think it was at your expense.
That said I absolutely love it when the reaction is as extreme as you've described it
@MountainSlide . It gives me this awesome excuse to casually flex my IDGAF muscle. What she really wants is for you to cuck it out and beg her back into bed so she feels better about herself, but that's toxic and demeaning and not your damn problem. Terrible way to get a man to care for you. I looove teaching women a lesson when I find out they're trying this sheet. She's clearly willing to gamble on seeing me again, and I'm going to make damn sure she never makes that gamble again. She'll either lose the gamble or straighten up.
If her crazy disrespectful response turns me off then I double down and call all her bluffs. Let her remember to NEVER pull something like that again by not saying a word through text or over the phone until she's polite. Then saying something like, 'we can talk about it when I see you.' she comes over and I'm doing something casually like dishes or cooking. If she tries to act like nothing happened I stop her advances and ask her how she plans to make it up to me. If she can't think of anything or I'm not impressed then I propose something she's probably never done like suck me off for at least an hour straight or tie her up and cane/flog/whip her til she has a bunch of deep red raised marks on her as$. I want her thinking about her mistake every time she sits down. Or one of my favorites is the zipper. You get at least ten clothes pins and tie them together with a thin rope. Now put those pins on her tits or thighs or pusssy until she's begging for you to take them off, then yank the rope to rip them all off at once. Ahhh the satisfying domination, it's so much fun. This is how you make her submit and teach her to show respect.
You obviously didn't spank or dominate this chick enough in bed for her to think she could get away with some crap like this. You need to be ruthless and push her limits in the sack so she feels used up and respects you by default simply from your performance. When you fuuck like the world's coming to an end you get respect by default. You get women obsessed and treating you like a god. But these women are fickle, you can't expect much from them, so you shouldn't sacrifice much for them. If you're not feeling like going all out on her then don't even bother calling her over, call over a more respectful girl.
At this point sounds like you called or something and tried to explain yourself, oof. At least you know to not reach out and save your dignity. She's probably gone. Don't respond until she's blowing up your phone begging to come over. By blowing up I mean calling. Don't answer a text. Don't answer the first call. Don't call back if you miss a call.
Hope you learned something.
