Why is it so ****ing impossible to lose my virginity?

[Shadow8230]

Honestly, coming from a girl, if you want girls to like you, you have to get them to notice you
What's different about you from all the other men?
You gotta know how to treat a girl, make interesting conversation, and not seem too desperate to lose it.
Being rich and ripped, like some other guy said, it completely irrelevant to most girls. Sure that's a bonus, but in reality you don't often find men like that.
Don't listen to all those idiots saying get over it with a fat/ugly girl for the hell of it.
Get over it with someone you actually like, and make the effort to date her rather than just losing it straight away.

 

[HolyG]

Honestly, coming from a girl, if you want girls to like you, you have to get them to notice you
What's different about you from all the other men?
You gotta know how to treat a girl, make interesting conversation, and not seem too desperate to lose it.
Being rich and ripped, like some other guy said, it completely irrelevant to most girls. Sure that's a bonus, but in reality you don't often find men like that.
Don't listen to all those idiots saying get over it with a fat/ugly girl for the hell of it.
Get over it with someone you actually like, and make the effort to date her rather than just losing it straight away.

lulz...what useless advice.

 

[Scion]

lulz...what useless advice.

Was there any actual advice in there?

Honestly surprised people are still commenting on this thread, I completely forgot about it.

But anyway, nothing's really changed since I made this thread, but I've stopped going out (don't think I've been out since Halloween).

 

[Nygard]

Suck it up, some men are not meant to procreate. Some, like me, are not mentally fit to have any kind of passionate relationship with a woman, and not even for random hookups. Look, if that were the case, population would have been out of control a long time ago. It's how the system tries to regulate itself. Just stop trying already, it's not like you ever had a chance. It's not your fault, fact is, the game was rigged from the start.

 

[Scion]

Suck it up, some men are not meant to procreate. Some, like me, are not mentally fit to have any kind of passionate relationship with a woman, and not even for random hookups. Look, if that were the case, population would have been out of control a long time ago. It's how the system tries to regulate itself. Just stop trying already, it's not like you ever had a chance. It's not your fault, fact is, the game was rigged from the start.

lol, wtf is this? Nice try at trolling bud!! It's pretty much impossible for a guy to never try again, unless you cut your balls off. You can take a break, but sooner or later you get this need to get back out there.

 

[Nygard]

Alright, keep trying to smash rocks with eggs, then.

 

[Uberguy]

Alright, keep trying to smash rocks with eggs, then.

Thanksgiving food usually gets me sleepy, but it looks like the trolls are wide awake and out in force this holiday.

To the OP, if you're desperately trying to get rid of your virginity, that is exactly how you'll come off to women: desperate. And desperate is the exact opposite of attractive. Even a woman who is initially attracted to you will lose interest if she realizes how needy you are to lose your virginity.

My advice: don't worry about it. Just like riding a bike or learning to drive a car, it only seems like a big deal to those whom haven't done it yet. No one else can tell you're a virgin just by looking at you; there's no shame that society casts upon you unless you go out into the world and meekly whine "I'm a virgin." Otherwise, for all anyone knows, you're an experienced guy with a healthy sex life. So lose whatever shame you feel for having your virginity; it's really a non-issue.

Just like 9 out of 10 issues that come up on these boards, the answer to your problem is straightforward: relax, be confident, and have fun. There will eventually be a single girl who will want to have sex with you if she sees you as a confident man that she can relax and have fun with. Don't worry about things so much, and everything will naturally resolve itself.

 

[Nygard]

looks like the trolls are wide awake and out in force this holiday

So Troll is the new "Nazi" or "person who voices a different opinion" ? Good, Nice to know. There are people in the world with different outlooks and opinions, but I think such a groundbreaking idea is too much for your brain to handle.

Do you want a real advice Scion? Stop looking around in your neighborhood, or in your city. Get out of your area, go to another country for a little time, if you don't, you'll be a virgin until you're just an obituary. Let it be Beirut(huge party city), Moscow, Cancun, Bahamas...hell, even my hometown Medellin nowadays. You'll find it a lot easier. Being foreign increases your value and since you're not a local and won't likely see you again, there's no social "penalty" in their eyes. But what would I know, I'm just a huge mean troll, am I right?

 

[Scion]

Thanksgiving food usually gets me sleepy, but it looks like the trolls are wide awake and out in force this holiday.

To the OP, if you're desperately trying to get rid of your virginity, that is exactly how you'll come off to women: desperate. And desperate is the exact opposite of attractive. Even a woman who is initially attracted to you will lose interest if she realizes how needy you are to lose your virginity.

My advice: don't worry about it. Just like riding a bike or learning to drive a car, it only seems like a big deal to those whom haven't done it yet. No one else can tell you're a virgin just by looking at you; there's no shame that society casts upon you unless you go out into the world and meekly whine "I'm a virgin." Otherwise, for all anyone knows, you're an experienced guy with a healthy sex life. So lose whatever shame you feel for having your virginity; it's really a non-issue.

Just like 9 out of 10 issues that come up on these boards, the answer to your problem is straightforward: relax, be confident, and have fun. There will eventually be a single girl who will want to have sex with you if she sees you as a confident man that she can relax and have fun with. Don't worry about things so much, and everything will naturally resolve itself.

Yeah, I've started to care about this less and less. I'm gonna do my best to be chill and social, I'm sure it'll happen sooner or later.

 

[MrP]

You said you got make outs, right? You're almost there! You're a lot more consistent than me with hot women.
You can get laid if you push it a little further.

Wanting to have sex is natural and you should do it. Now, all you need to do is
talk to some women and be sure to touch her. Don't be afraid to be sexual with sexy women.

 

[corrector]

So Troll is the new "Nazi" or "person who voices a different opinion" ? Good, Nice to know. There are people in the world with different outlooks and opinions, but I think such a groundbreaking idea is too much for your brain to handle.

Do you want a real advice Scion? Stop looking around in your neighborhood, or in your city. Get out of your area, go to another country for a little time, if you don't, you'll be a virgin until you're just an obituary. Let it be Beirut(huge party city), Moscow, Cancun, Bahamas...hell, even my hometown Medellin nowadays. You'll find it a lot easier. Being foreign increases your value and since you're not a local and won't likely see you again, there's no social "penalty" in their eyes. But what would I know, I'm just a huge mean troll, am I right?

Nah, you are not a troll. This is a good point. It's like losing your virginity with a foreign woman doesn't count? It has to be a hb10, North American blond white woman, then it counts - otherwise it somehow makes you less of a "real man"? Maybe this society is all sort of messed up, and other macho societies where men are men, and women are women, you may have more of a girl likes boy and boy likes girl type of environment.

As long as you don't pay someone money for it, then who cares?