Oh yeah, interesting distinction. I mean, looks matter subconsciously and I'm not trying to argue that they don't. But they are ultimately shallow.I don't place too much emphasis on looks, as long as she isn't outright gross/unappealing to the eye then she has a chance with me
But i was merely pointing out that your looks are an inseparable part of you, so i wouldn't put it in the same boat as someone liking you for money or status, at least your looks are actually part of you