Zapp Brannigan
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I've been seeing so many threads lately about dating and fvcking attention wh0res. People are asking for advice that will somehow get the odds to work in their favor when dealing with these types of women. It's not worth it, and you can't bend the odds. If you're getting yourself worried, and have to go out of your way, then you already lost.
These types of women get tons of male attention in person and on apps (Facebook, Snapchat, text, etc.) You aren't going to be able to persuade one who you don't or barely even know through these means. There's too many guys doing the same thing, and she cares about none of them. "I'll break her balls a little, and post a snarky comment. That'll get her attention." Doing that online has a much different effect than it does in person. In person she'll remember it, and depending on how you conducted it, she might be attracted. Online she'll be like "WTF" for five seconds before the white knight orbiters come in, and she'll forget it immediately. You have to remember women with fragile egos will ALWAYS bend things around to where they did no wrong, and are in the right.
The only true way of getting these types is if you meet them for the first time at a party/bar where she's looking to screw, or if you're consistently seeing her at a place, and it's purely incidential (NOT "running into her" at the gym.) Even then you have to play things perfectly. Don't give them any attention at first, talk/flirt very little here and there, show you aren't worried about her, and she'll eventually start chasing you. When she does you have to play things right and if you want her be quick to take action. These women will always have a backup guy lined up for if you don't reciprocate.
But keep in mind these types get very board of you quick. Once they got you, the newness of having a "hard to get" guy wears off, and she goes onto the next one. Don't get too attached if you're going to get involved.
I understand what you guys see in these women, but still it's best to stay away. Though occasionally we meet a girl whos an attention wh0re, and we're captured by her. Infact, my last fling was a girl like this. They play that "good girl" role, and you actually believe it at first. You ignore the red flags because you feel that deep down they might be different. The tattoos and red flags begin to pile, you try to look past it, thinking they're somehow the only tattoo crazed chick who isn't like the others. But eventually you realize you're fooling yourself and have to walk away, but it's not as disappointing as it is with other women. I guess because with these types you kind of know deep down what they are before going in.
Just be careful. We really don't need so many threads about this subject.
These types of women get tons of male attention in person and on apps (Facebook, Snapchat, text, etc.) You aren't going to be able to persuade one who you don't or barely even know through these means. There's too many guys doing the same thing, and she cares about none of them. "I'll break her balls a little, and post a snarky comment. That'll get her attention." Doing that online has a much different effect than it does in person. In person she'll remember it, and depending on how you conducted it, she might be attracted. Online she'll be like "WTF" for five seconds before the white knight orbiters come in, and she'll forget it immediately. You have to remember women with fragile egos will ALWAYS bend things around to where they did no wrong, and are in the right.
The only true way of getting these types is if you meet them for the first time at a party/bar where she's looking to screw, or if you're consistently seeing her at a place, and it's purely incidential (NOT "running into her" at the gym.) Even then you have to play things perfectly. Don't give them any attention at first, talk/flirt very little here and there, show you aren't worried about her, and she'll eventually start chasing you. When she does you have to play things right and if you want her be quick to take action. These women will always have a backup guy lined up for if you don't reciprocate.
But keep in mind these types get very board of you quick. Once they got you, the newness of having a "hard to get" guy wears off, and she goes onto the next one. Don't get too attached if you're going to get involved.
I understand what you guys see in these women, but still it's best to stay away. Though occasionally we meet a girl whos an attention wh0re, and we're captured by her. Infact, my last fling was a girl like this. They play that "good girl" role, and you actually believe it at first. You ignore the red flags because you feel that deep down they might be different. The tattoos and red flags begin to pile, you try to look past it, thinking they're somehow the only tattoo crazed chick who isn't like the others. But eventually you realize you're fooling yourself and have to walk away, but it's not as disappointing as it is with other women. I guess because with these types you kind of know deep down what they are before going in.
Just be careful. We really don't need so many threads about this subject.