Why I think men struggle with women in modern dating today

[corrector]

Correction: men idolize hot women under 30 who are fertile with 0 kids and 0 divorces.

No one idolizes a girl over 30. No one idolizes a single mother. No one idolizes a fat woman. No one idolizes an ugly women.

You never heard of dumpster diving?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

If a lot of guys don't pick up on them, care to give a couple examples?

I will tomorrow. Traveling for work. Just beat.

 

[corrector]

A Scarcity mindset makes you more prone to snake bites than anything else. When you just focus on the one girl that gave you a slight IOI, you are investing all of your resources in to one basket that’s not even vetted properly. If this girl screws you over then yes it’s like getting bit by a venom @$$ snake lol.

vs

When you take shots at more than a few women, you do not give them any room to bite you because you are at a safer distance. A girl flaking on you won’t mean shvt because there’s another one to replace her. This will also give you the ability to vet out a girl for LTR potential because you have an active selection of women instead of LTRing the first girl that touches your weenie.

Yeah, just go on Tinder and pick a better one out of the thousands of matches next time.

 

[BadBoy89]

Shouldn't be idolising them at all

its not that difficult to have a pu$$y , a pair of T!ts and a decent figure

Yet some men seem to repeatedly treat them as if they are they rarest things on earth

Very bizarre

Its not bizarre at all.

The problem isn’t women per se, it’s that men are brainwashed to idolize young hot women. When movies, music, tv, internet all worship young hot women, when athletes, movie stars, and rich powerful men all want to have sex with these women and be in a relationship with them and get them pregnant, its hard for layman on Sosuave to hear “hey, they are not important”.

Not saying “value” young hot fertile girls or that society or rich and famous are right, but when society values them, and it’s all around a man everyday, it’s hard not to get brainwashed.

 

[2rings]

That honesty startup technique outlined by George Castanza is almost a complete Guarantee who was ever within her realm

the first minutes let her ass know all your greatest faults and you will likely be invited into Yes-Land peppered with small lies

Go out of your way to not hide the most sensitive details about yourself while peppering in all kinds of minute lies

Readily available women are enjoyers of playful lies

Really stop for a moment and think what am I hiding from this women? Then just blurt it out to her.

the ultimate weeding out strategy is blunt honesty done right

 

[2rings]

I was fired two days ago and never want to work

I’m considering being a Drug Dealer

i might be an illimitable child

that last stock trade reduced my account account by 83%

i was arrested for beating up some ex. She was hot though and I miss her

i used to be a heavy user of XYZ

drugs can be fun.

A 19 year old hooker messed me up with easy sex

I cheated with my neighbors wife

^^ these are all bonus points across the board.

 

[2rings]

Let’s meet at The Bar

i need a Drink

i refuse work all Week. Actually I QUIT

The onlyirresponsible worker here is YOU (angry)

The next business I own will be a BAR near here

Anything bar, drugs, IRRESPONSIBLE drink and loser related is GOLD

Tomorrow I am flying to Paris for 42 days

 

[Hamurabimbi]

If a lot of guys don't pick up on them, care to give a couple examples?

Subtle would mean somewhat ambiguous. With plausible deniability. But also. the possibility it means something. Women are more in tune with nuance. They rarely do social things by accident.

As an example. yesterday. arrived at a mid-sized city for work. Not being very familiar with the place, I did the nerdy thing and sought out the Visitors Center. Well. turns out the VC has long since moved. The place is now some BLM friendly shared work space.

Although I was totally in the wrong place, the girl who was minding the place brewed me a cup of coffee. Spent 20 minutes on her phone looking up places for me to visit. She asked What my plans for the night were. I told her, Tuesday night. Probably not much.

She told me such & such bar was happening tonight and she would be there & I should go.

I’d call this subtle. If I were single I’d have gone. And if we met up, She’d still have some plausible deniability. Or. If she were interested, It would be easy to facilitate anything more interesting. .

As opposed to more straight-forward. I took a 2 day class on auto repair, as i’m on the road frequently for work. It was kind of a hippy ‘70’s vibe place. I wound up talking to a girl in the class a bit. At the end of the class, she said. ‘Well, I guess we can fix our cars no matter what. Do you want to drive down the Coast with me?’. Much less ambiguous.