Why I Hate Short Men

[stuka1939]

http://www.webmd.com/news/20000112/women-tall-men

more proof that height does matter. i reference scientific research.

Old news, I knew about that article 5 years ago.

 

[stuka1939]

I'm 5'7" myself... statistically short. I also have a gap in my front teeth and wear glasses due to poor vision. Some girls have even called me funny looking.

Now I had a choice. I could either focus on all of these things and get depressed about how unfair life is..

OR

I could focus on my strengths, which far outweigh my weaknesses.

I encourage all you guys that are down in the dumps about these disadvantages to also pay attention to what makes you attractive. Remember, women are not just looking for one particular quality in a man, she is eyeing the whole package

For inspiration, here's a list of what I bring to the table on a character level:

• Charming & friendly
• Good conversationalist
• Good listener
• Sharp sense of humor
• A wealth of interesting things going on in my life
• Well educated
• Know exactly what I want
• Passionate about living
• Persistent in the pursuit of my goals
• NEVER bored, ALWAYS learning or having fun
• Strong sense of adventure
• Emotionally uninhibited
• Open-minded towards all subjects and people

Here's a list of what I offer physically:

• Clear complexion
• Exotic features
• Well proportioned and toned body
• Strong hands (surprisingly BIG turn-on for women)
• Healthy appetite..love to eat (and cook)
• Well groomed
• Fashion sensibility
• Wicked in the sack

You can pull out all the statistics you want about my deficiencies, but notice how much MORE I have going for me.. it makes my shortcomings seem trivial by comparison.

I've even managed to turn things around and appreciate my imperfections

• Glasses make me look intellectual and classy
• Being short only highlights how big of a character I am
• The gap in my teeth gives my smile character too..wouldn't change it for anything.

I'm not saying that looks dont play a factor.. they definitely do. If you are a midget, or have some kind of severe physical deformity, then yeah.. you really got your work cut out for you and maybe dating supermodels is not a realistic goal.

But I've seen pictures of some of you who complain about your appearance and all I see is a decent looking dude who is looking for a reason to fail.

I've said it countless times but:

Worrying about things you have no control over is a massive waste of personal power.. you could be investing that into making yourself attractive in hundreds of other ways.

Why don't you get contacts or Lasik Surgery and go see a cosmetic dentist to get your gap fixed. You say you are happy with it, but I am sure you would change it if you could.

The point is, YOU CAN CHANGE IT, so stop feeling sorry for yourself and do it.

Ugly teeth is ONE thing people are not to forgiving of these days.

 

[Señor Fingers]

Why don't you get contacts or Lasik Surgery and go see a cosmetic dentist to get your gap fixed. You say you are happy with it, but I am sure you would change it if you could.

Let me put it this way, it doesn't upset me enough to throw thousands of dollars at it. There are things I'd much rather spend my hard-earned money on.

If I could afford it, then yah I would do LASIK, not to look better, but because its more comfortable than wearing glasses... its an ergonomic issue.

As far as my teeth, I wouldn't change it even if I got offered free service. I actually LIKE my gap now.

The point is, YOU CAN CHANGE IT, so stop feeling sorry for yourself and do it.

Why are you are projecting your insecurities on me? Not everyone needs a Hollywood makeover to feel like they are worth something.

Just because looks are EVERYTHING to you, that doesn't make it a universal fact.

 

[ChrizZ]

Man, I just got back from the clubs. A lot of short dudes with dime pieces. Of course, they're loaded and drive expensive whips. But hey, maybe it's a blessing in disguise-I don't feel like I can just lay around and expect pvssy to come to me-I have to actually make a way for myself.

Funny, two attractive girls (with bf's) said I was very good looking and asked me why I didn't have a GF. Imagine if I responded, "oh well, I'm an insecure pvssy who hates his height..."-I just said "I'm not trying to focus on a real relationship right now"

Also, do you get girls, Senor Fingers? Really just curious.

You should have asked them how important they think height is.

And telling you that you are good looking is a massive IOI.

 

[Señor Fingers]

Also, do you get girls, Senor Fingers? Really just curious.

I have a preference for WOMEN actually. And yes, I've had quite a few of them, from all walks of life and all shapes and sizes (no fatties tho ).

Right now I am married so that phase of my life is done. What's ironic is that now I get more blatant IOI's than before. Maybe married guys have a taboo appeal, or my aloofness drives them crazy, but I get the "Too bad you're married" speech all the time and I've had to distance myself from some chicks who try to get too comfy.

Bottom line is I look at the mirror and don't see perfection, but I see an attractive dude with a lot to offer, not only to women but to the world at large. I also see someone who deserves the best things in life and won't settle for anything less.

How you see and relate to yourself plays such a HUGE part in how "hot" you are.

 

[SAFC]

Some of you guys should feel ashamed of yourselves. DJ's? Yeah, right...

Go read some posts by Fingers in the DJ Bible, not once does he ever whinge about height etc. No, he just accepted what was, made himself into an awesome guy, and got on with it.

And THAT's why he's good with women.

You can be 6 ft but if your'e a whiny loser full of excuses, women just ain't gonna be interested.

I used to think that any guy could be good with women, it's a mentality I like to get across. I was wrong though, not every guy can get good with women.

I'll be honest, if you're a whiny loser full of excuses, you will never be good with women, and even more importantly, your life in general will suck.

Women don't want guys with more problems with them, they want FUN and to feel like women.

You can pull all these surveys and 'research' out your ass, short guys with a grip on their life will still be banging hotter women than you.

I'm about 5'7, possibly shorter, and not so great looking (although I do dress well), and I get decent women because I'm not pulling whiny excuses out my ass.

If you're a whiny loser then you deserve everything you ****ing get.

Great post, mate. If you don't love yourself, how the hell can you expect anyone else (other than your mother) to love you?

 

[stuka1939]

Man, I just got back from the clubs. A lot of short dudes with dime pieces. Of course, they're loaded and drive expensive whips. But hey, maybe it's a blessing in disguise-I don't feel like I can just lay around and expect pvssy to come to me-I have to actually make a way for myself.

Funny, two attractive girls (with bf's) said I was very good looking and asked me why I didn't have a GF. Imagine if I responded, "oh well, I'm an insecure pvssy who hates his height..."-I just said "I'm not trying to focus on a real relationship right now"

Also, do you get girls, Senor Fingers? Really just curious.

Funny you say that, I witnessed the same thing last night at the clubs.

One guy was around 5'4-5'5" and his girl was smoking hot. I think some girls don't mind or actually prefer being eye level to their man.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I'm 5'6, 5'7 depending on my shoes. I don't know why, but I've never EVER even THOUGHT about my height. It seriously NEVER occured to me. EVER. Even here in japan most dudes are taller than me.

I once knew a guy that was a frikking DOCTOR for krisssakes, and he refused to evey TRY because he was convinced girls don't like short guys.

I knew this other guy that was like 5'2, no crap, but he was this super cool super alpha super smart inventor guy that worked at my biomedical engineering company. When he walked into a room, even the 5'11 HB8 marketing director would swoon and kiss is A$$.


If you think it matters, or if you don't think it matters, either way you're right.

 

[stuka1939]

Man, I just got back from the clubs. A lot of short dudes with dime pieces. Of course, they're loaded and drive expensive whips. But hey, maybe it's a blessing in disguise-I don't feel like I can just lay around and expect pvssy to come to me-I have to actually make a way for myself.

Funny, two attractive girls (with bf's) said I was very good looking and asked me why I didn't have a GF. Imagine if I responded, "oh well, I'm an insecure pvssy who hates his height..."-I just said "I'm not trying to focus on a real relationship right now"

Also, do you get girls, Senor Fingers? Really just curious.

If you landed a HB 8.5 just recently and have had "your fair share of hotties" in the past, Why the **** are you complaining? Your complaining makes no sense to me. Once again, 5'8" IS NOT SHORT!!

Oh, by the way just saw a 5'7" Hispanic dude come into the hotel with a GORGEOUS girl who had a good inch or two on him. They were together because they were holding hands. Then again, it could of been an escort, but why would you bring an escort to a Bridal party?

 

[Nighthawk]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gd4KXw_ap8Y

 

[lordson]

I'm 5'11'' and i still feel a bit short sometimes. would like to be 1-2 inches taller

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

http://www.tallmenshoes.com

no way.

 

[Quiksilver]

This thread is a circle jerk of pity and negative attitudes.

Sorry to those who want to actually contribute something useful and helpful to this thread, but it's embarrassing just reading half of these posts since the answers to their true problems are in the DJ Bible.

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