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Master Don Juan
Thanks for posting and sharing your experience. The argument I'm making is that monogamy is best suited for an agrarian economy. So yes, it's been like that for a long time because most of us have been farmers for four to ten thousand years, until the past two centuries. I know you believe this point is self-evident, but can you explain what harm polyamory would have on raising children? It seems to me that would cause for there to be more dads, not less in a kid's life. I think polyamory causes groups to care for each other more. I have seen this personally, but again, each experience is different, and I've never yet lived it.Warrior74 said:I wonder how many of you idiots in this thread have children. And actually love your children. Now think about what this sort of reasoning does to families. There is a reason for the way things have worked for thousands of years.
Me too, I've been cheated on. It sucked at the time. In retrospect, it was fine. If she liked another guy too, I think that's great. It didn't mean I had to break up with her like I did. But that took a major shift in thinking that came much later. But now, girls cannot cheat on me because I openly ask them to please sleep with other people.That being said. I've been cheated on. And I know what that is like. And later I became the opposite and seduced married women, and I know how easy that is and how crappy I felt about it.
Very wise words. Actually, you don't need to know that you're cheating with a girl to get into a dangerous situation. What you've named above is a danger of dating in general. I'm sure lots of guys here have dated a girl they thought was single, and found out the girl forgot to tell you she has a bf. Turn bf into a jealous violent bf and you've got yourself a dangerous situation without you knowing anything about it.At the end of the day, you have to look in the mirror and decide how you feel about what you are doing. If you are happy with what you've done then go for it. Just be prepared for the consequences because everyone is not going to think like you and someone will blow your freaking head off. Come back to the real world gents. Mental masterbation will get you fvcked up out here in real life.
Still, sleeping with a girl who has an exclusive contract compounds the risk.
Also, your criteria for looking in the mirror to see if it's wrong or right for you seems to me very wise. I will keep that in mind, thank you.
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