trickynick
Master Don Juan
For most of the last two years of my life (ever since I turned 21), bars and clubs have been my primary market for meeting and picking up women. I would occasionally score a one-nighter, or meet a girl that I would go on a few dates with and one of these girls became my girlfriend for several months.
The reason I was so fond of these enviornments is that they were easy for me. It fit into my lifestyle because I liked to drink, dance, play pool, just hang out with my friends and have a beer and just in general doing what people do in bars and clubs. I also found it to be a place where it was pretty accepable and normal to talk to someone I didn't know. I became an expert on the nightlife in my city and went clubbing and bar-hopping frequently. I have had great fun but it has had it's drawbacks.
Now that I am on fire with confidence and want to diversify the demographics targeted by my DJ skills and mentality, I have found the club scene to be limiting. I want to focus primarily on girls ratable above 8. Girls who are this attractive have their gaurd up when they go to a club, totally prepared to fend off an endless array of men who will approach them. The barriers that these girls are forced to put up in order not to be completely swamped for the entire time they are at the club make it such that it can very difficult even for DJ's to penetrate. I am no longer content in the slightest to waste my time with average girls because I know now that so much more is available to me. For the purposes of gathering data to support this, I posted this thread asking DJ's where they met the women they have been successful with that they will rate as 8 or above. If you take a look, you will see that clubs were not popular for this purpose.
There are other reasons I am taking a break from the nightlife. It gets EXPENSIVE!!! It's depressing to think of what I could have done with the money I have pissed away at those places in the last two years. Clubbing with great frequency also can disrupt rythms and sleeping patterns, it turned me into a night owl. It did not help that I had an unstructured job that allowed me to come and go as I pleased.
Looking back on the last two years of my life with the insight of having been here I now realize that being as into the club scene as I was put me in a mindset that I now know was flawed. When I felt like I needed to get laid or needed some more prospects, I would always think "I guess I am going out to the clubs tonight." How wrong was I to think like that. Was I blind to the fact that women were all around me in places I would go every day? And these were women that were going about their normal business and did not have all barriers put up like they would in a dance club were everone is constantly trying to size each other up.
Being a DJ is about being ready to work your magic whenever you have the opportunity and I had been waiting until I got to the club to do what I should have been ready to do at any time.
[This message has been edited by trickynick (edited 01-22-2002).]
The reason I was so fond of these enviornments is that they were easy for me. It fit into my lifestyle because I liked to drink, dance, play pool, just hang out with my friends and have a beer and just in general doing what people do in bars and clubs. I also found it to be a place where it was pretty accepable and normal to talk to someone I didn't know. I became an expert on the nightlife in my city and went clubbing and bar-hopping frequently. I have had great fun but it has had it's drawbacks.
Now that I am on fire with confidence and want to diversify the demographics targeted by my DJ skills and mentality, I have found the club scene to be limiting. I want to focus primarily on girls ratable above 8. Girls who are this attractive have their gaurd up when they go to a club, totally prepared to fend off an endless array of men who will approach them. The barriers that these girls are forced to put up in order not to be completely swamped for the entire time they are at the club make it such that it can very difficult even for DJ's to penetrate. I am no longer content in the slightest to waste my time with average girls because I know now that so much more is available to me. For the purposes of gathering data to support this, I posted this thread asking DJ's where they met the women they have been successful with that they will rate as 8 or above. If you take a look, you will see that clubs were not popular for this purpose.
There are other reasons I am taking a break from the nightlife. It gets EXPENSIVE!!! It's depressing to think of what I could have done with the money I have pissed away at those places in the last two years. Clubbing with great frequency also can disrupt rythms and sleeping patterns, it turned me into a night owl. It did not help that I had an unstructured job that allowed me to come and go as I pleased.
Looking back on the last two years of my life with the insight of having been here I now realize that being as into the club scene as I was put me in a mindset that I now know was flawed. When I felt like I needed to get laid or needed some more prospects, I would always think "I guess I am going out to the clubs tonight." How wrong was I to think like that. Was I blind to the fact that women were all around me in places I would go every day? And these were women that were going about their normal business and did not have all barriers put up like they would in a dance club were everone is constantly trying to size each other up.
Being a DJ is about being ready to work your magic whenever you have the opportunity and I had been waiting until I got to the club to do what I should have been ready to do at any time.
[This message has been edited by trickynick (edited 01-22-2002).]
