Why hot girls choose to sit next to others on the bus

[skeeloo]

there's nothing wrong with riding the bus where i live( london) its even a good way to do cold approaches i have done a few and succeeded twice over the last year

i think luis gracia has a point. most guys would never understand this, if a guy is good looking girls will always be intimidated. a friend of mine who models goes through the same thing, when in the bus girls dont sit next to him even though its the last sit available and he's really good looking, it happens to me too in some cases(im not stuck up or anything like that). but you can always catch them staring at u through the corner of ur eyes.its like a defense mechanism,(im like so this chick is attracted to me then why sit 10 seats away from me and try to get my attenshion) this one time this girl tried to get my attenshion while she sat on the sit next to me while i never paid her any attenshion, she then starts talking about how she loves her boyfriend on the phone for no reason if u asked me ill say girls are insecure creatures.

 

[Create Reality]

You shouldn't try to hook up with girls that you see everyday, something someone said a long time back (maybe some forum oldbies know?). Think about it, you try to hook up with her, she doesn't like you, now you gotta see the b*tch everyday (if they take the bus everyday) and things get awkward. Or maybe she's not as bad as I think and is actually pretty cool, and might come around if she rejected you the first time. Tou should just grab a seat and talk with them, see what happens.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

Re: *sigh*

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Get over yourself!

Get over myself? i was being honest. and it makes me uncomfortable to sit next to strange men on the bus. Simple as that.

 

[Climax]

blah di blah...

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
Get over myself? i was being honest. and it makes me uncomfortable to sit next to strange men on the bus. Simple as that.

*yawn*

 

[Wyldfire]

Re: blah di blah...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
*yawn*

Dude...you're pissed at her over her posts on the other thread. You shouldn't bring it onto other threads.

And luv...if you are going to post here you probably shouldn't refer to random men as being "lame-@ss" unless you are speaking of a specific guy who did something dumb. It's offensive to the guys.

 

[squirrels]

WTF?!

Do you want her to just SIT ON YOUR LAP??

Where she sits on the bus is not an indication of interest in any case. Most girls don't look to pick guys up on the bus anyway. If she's interested, she'll give you some other indication...one you can see IF you're looking. If not, open her with something innocent and see how she responds.

 

[Wyldfire]

My best friend is a man and he lives in a city and uses the bus a lot. He is really turned off by forward women...he doesn't think it's feminine for a woman to be aggressive in that way. He is constantly having girls sit next to him on the bus and hitting on him. It really annoys him for some reason. So, this can work both ways. It's not only women who don't like to be approached by guys on a bus.

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
My best friend is a man and he lives in a city and uses the bus a lot. He is really turned off by forward women...he doesn't think it's feminine for a woman to be aggressive in that way. He is constantly having girls sit next to him on the bus and hitting on him. It really annoys him for some reason. So, this can work both ways. It's not only women who don't like to be approached by guys on a bus.

It annoys him because the women are probably ugly.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Fatality
It annoys him because the women are probably ugly.

No...he says they are very attractive...it's the aggressiveness that turns him off. He is turned off by women with short hair, too, even if they are really pretty.

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
No...he says they are very attractive...it's the aggressiveness that turns him off.

He doesn't like hot girls coming on to him? Maybe he's gay. That might explain why his best friend is a woman.

 

[tom121]

here are some of the things i can come up with

1) not interested
2) in a rush (trying to put her bus pass back into purse or something)
3) by sitting next to you shows she's either interested or just wanted to sit down (unless there are a lot of empty spots around)

I tend to sit near the hallway instead of the window
because
1) I am 6'2, and putting my legs against the back of the chair hurts so I tend to sit side ways
2) didn't want some old dude or someone nasty sit next to me
3) when the bus is really empty and has lots of seats around
4) I want to get off bus soon

I think bus is not a place to pick up chicks, but it's really a good place to meet people, a lot of elders tend to wanting to chat with me, I haven't met anyone young that actually strike up a conversation with me (especially sitting next to me) I've had guys got chatting with me though, eeek

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Fatality
He doesn't like hot girls coming on to him? Maybe he's gay. That might explain why his best friend is a woman.

No...he's not gay and we'd probably be more than friends if we didn't live on opposite sides of the country. He just doesn't like aggressive women. Some guys are like that.

 

[skeeloo]

if a guy dosnt like hot women hitting on him then he might be gay. i never seen anyman who wouldnt like a women to chase, something probably wrong with that dude.

maybe he's lying too. where im from women hardly hit on men directly. but i wouldnt mind if they were agressive especially if they are hot. most hot women have think they are too good to chase a guy desperatlely.

he's hiding something maye he's gay.

 

[Climax]

Let me try explain...

Originally posted by skeeloo
if a guy dosnt like hot women hitting on him then he might be gay. i never seen anyman who wouldnt like a women to chase, something probably wrong with that dude.

maybe he's lying too. where im from women hardly hit on men directly. but i wouldnt mind if they were agressive especially if they are hot. most hot women have think they are too good to chase a guy desperatlely.

he's hiding something maye he's gay.

Not at all dude... Sometimes it just gets too much or you get sick of women hitting on you wherever you go.. Sometimes a guy just wants to go somewhere and have a good time with his friends, WITHOUT having women hitting on him 24/7. And yes, inside he is probably happy about the fact that women are attracted to him as much as they are, but that doesn’t mean he WANTS it ALL THE TIME. Its like someone who LOVES chocolate, so his mother buys him chocolate ALL THE TIME, after a while he will not WANT the chocolate anymore, and sometimes he will just want to go through a day WITHOUT any chocolate, then sometimes he might WANT the chocolate... Both the chocolate being something the guy wants, but not ALL THE TIME... I hope u understand by my explanation


Laterz...

 

[skeeloo]

ido agree that if it becomes too much then you get irritated but i still find it hard to beileve a guy gets tired of girls hitting on him especially if they are 10s. what more could a guy want. i bet if they stop hitting on him then he'll start to think somethings wrong. this gives him the chance to weed out all the girls he wants and find out who's worth his time.

 

[Climax]

Ok... but...

Originally posted by skeeloo
ido agree that if it becomes too much then you get irritated but i still find it hard to beileve a guy gets tired of girls hitting on him especially if they are 10s. what more could a guy want. i bet if they stop hitting on him then he'll start to think somethings wrong. this gives him the chance to weed out all the girls he wants and find out who's worth his time.

I see what you are saying.. And its true... a guy DOES love the attention from all the HB's, but like most things that we love, we sometimes just want a break... Its hard to explain, because you ARE thinking "what more can a guy ask for", well... as nice as it sounds to have HB's hitting on you all the time, sometime a guy DOES need a break from them to just have fun and do other things BESIDES for women. And if they had to STOP hitting on him, then yes, he WOULD think that something is wrong, but now why would they suddenly stop hitting on him though? Anyways... I see your point, but i hope u can see mine too.


Laterz...

 

[skeeloo]

Re: Ok... but...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I see what you are saying.. And its true... a guy DOES love the attention from all the HB's, but like most things that we love, we sometimes just want a break... Its hard to explain, because you ARE thinking "what more can a guy ask for", well... as nice as it sounds to have HB's hitting on you all the time, sometime a guy DOES need a break from them to just have fun and do other things BESIDES for women. And if they had to STOP hitting on him, then yes, he WOULD think that something is wrong, but now why would they suddenly stop hitting on him though? Anyways... I see your point, but i hope u can see mine too.


Laterz...

yeah i get your point man.
at the end of the day a mans life shouldnt revolve around women all the time. i know how annoying it can be when girls constantly gives a man attention.

 

[Wyldfire]

He's a very, very good looking guy who is just very turned off by aggressive women. He lives in a city that he refers to as a "Feminist Mecca", and he really dislikes feminists. He doesn't like women who have short hair, don't wear make up or drive SUVs, either. Any woman that acts like a guy or tries to take on a masculine role just really, really turns him off. He's pretty picky, I guess you could say.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

Wyldfire, he sounds ultra-conservative. And might I ask, he does not think that there should be equality among the sexes? because thats what a feminist is. Well i do commend your friend for being a retrosexual.

And don't think he's gay either. I know plently of guys that dont like aggressive women, my boyfriend being one of them. Not to say they dont like aggressive women in bed.

And its also an age-old stereotype. Where are the retrosexuals who approach women and dont wait to be approached, who dont like being approached because it makes them feel less of a man if they're not doing all the work? Because i thought that's how its "supposed" to be like? I dont get it. There is nothing wrong with not liking aggressive women hitting on you all day long. I'd imagine it'd get annoying, especially if you're not interested.

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
Wyldfire, he sounds ultra-conservative. And might I ask, he does not think that there should be equality among the sexes? because thats what a feminist is. Well i do commend your friend for being a retrosexual.

And don't think he's gay either. I know plently of guys that dont like aggressive women, my boyfriend being one of them. Not to say they dont like aggressive women in bed.

And its also an age-old stereotype. Where are the retrosexuals who approach women and dont wait to be approached, who dont like being approached because it makes them feel less of a man if they're not doing all the work? Because i thought that's how its "supposed" to be like? I dont get it. There is nothing wrong with not liking aggressive women hitting on you all day long. I'd imagine it'd get annoying, especially if you're not interested.

The guy has too many signs of being gay.

1. His best friend is a female
2. He's in his 40's and still single
3. He hates it when attractive women flirt with him
4. He looks for stupid reasons to dislike a girl (the car she drives)
5. He's very good looking (they are stereotypically that way)

Does he listen to Streisand?