Why hasn’t committing to ONE women changed

[BadBoy89]

Everything is the world has changed in the last 50 years, even more so in the last 20 years. Technology has changed, dating has changed, movies have changed, music has changed, money has changed, university has changed, governments have changed. Everything you can think of has changed.

Yet, the institution of marriage, where a man legally commits to ONE women for the rest of this life, has NOT changed. It is still very much alive, very much wanted by men. Very much promoted by society.

Why is marriage the only institution that has not changed? Why is society so scared to change marriage? People have created bitcoin, a crypto Currency that could bring down banks and the most powerful governments in the world. Yet when it comes to a man legally committing to ONE woman forever and forever, no one questions it.

Thoughts?

 

[SargeMaximus]

I’m not monogamous

 

[Paper Crane]

That's because there are plenty of healthy secure, confident individuals who meet their partner naturally and don't think about chasing sexual gratification in being a serial dater for the rest of their life.

I mean who wouldn't want to find that person they could spend the rest of their lives with?

I was totally against the idea of marriage my whole life until recent years. I think most men are just scared of that idea because they're not super secure and don't see themselves finding that person-- nothing wrong with that.. its not for everyone.

 

[SargeMaximus]

That's because there are plenty of healthy secure, confident individuals who meet their partner naturally and don't think about chasing sexual gratification in being a serial dater for the rest of their life.

I mean who wouldn't want to find that person they could spend the rest of their lives with?

I was totally against the idea of marriage my whole life until recent years. I think most men are just scared of that idea because they're not super secure and don't see themselves finding that person-- nothing wrong with that.. its not for everyone.

Nothing wrong with wanting multiple partners either. I don’t think it has anything to do with security.

 

[Paper Crane]

Nothing wrong with wanting multiple partners either. I don’t think it has anything to do with security.

I mean marriage is a choice just as much as not being married and casually dating/playing the game. Why would it bother anyone that that option is still available and promoted? Do people want to see a world where no one is in committed marriages ? Wht about weddings? Those are some of the best events to go to in my opinion...

I jus don't understand the rational behind this..What's the alternative? Everyone going around piping each other? What's next being okay with your main chick having multiple partners? Having kids with random hoes then having them be raised by other dudes? Having kids and being okay with their mother being able to sleep other people?

 

[SargeMaximus]

I mean marriage is a choice just as much as not being married and casually dating/playing the game. Why would it bother anyone that that option is still available and promoted? Do people want to see a world where no one is in committed marriages ? Wht about weddings? Those are some of the best events to go to in my opinion...

I jus don't understand the rational behind this..What's the alternative? Everyone going around piping each other? What's next being okay with your main chick having multiple partners? Having kids with random hoes then having them be raised by other dudes? Having kids and being okay with their mother being able to sleep other people?

“Humans are not swans.” - George Clooney in “Up in the Air”

I never said there was anything wrong with wanting to be monogamous. But there is a strong cultural and Disney predisposition to most guys especially those who were blue pilled so I think it’s more likely wanting to be monogamous is pointing to unresolved issues

 

[Paper Crane]

“Humans are not swans.” - George Clooney in “Up in the Air”

I never said there was anything wrong with wanting to be monogamous. But there is a strong cultural and Disney predisposition to most guys especially those who were blue pilled so I think it’s more likely wanting to be monogamous is pointing to unresolved issues

Not you in particular but in general. All that blue pill / red pill stuff is for nerds . Stop feeding into these black and white idealogies made by dude who spend too much time on the net.. It's cringe. It's stuff that I never even heard anyone in real life utter out their mouth.. The worst is "incel" stuff. Tht **** is cringe af. Everytime I see somoen post a thread on it I immediately get off this site and go do some other sht.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Not you in particular but in general. All that blue pill / red pill stuff is for nerds . Stop feeding into these black and white idealogies made by dude who spend too much time on the net.. It's cringe. It's stuff that I never even heard anyone in real life utter out their mouth.. The worst is "incel" stuff. Tht **** is cringe af. Everytime I see somoen post a thread on it I immediately get off this site and go do some other sht.

Lol fair. All I know is people are more complicated than to be faithful to one person forever. Divorce rates prove that. And even those that don’t get a divorce, have most likely cheated. It’s just human nature. We’re animals and our spirit is free deep down

 

[BadBoy89]

I mean marriage is a choice just as much as not being married and casually dating/playing the game. Why would it bother anyone that that option is still available and promoted? Do people want to see a world where no one is in committed marriages ? Wht about weddings? Those are some of the best events to go to in my opinion...

I jus don't understand the rational behind this..What's the alternative? Everyone going around piping each other? What's next being okay with your main chick having multiple partners? Having kids with random hoes then having them be raised by other dudes? Having kids and being okay with their mother being able to sleep other people?

You are still stuck in the 1950’s.

Marriage is promoted becuase it benefits society. It does not benefit the individual man in 2021. Women statistically cheat and imitate divorce much more than men, and are encouraged to destroy men if they are not getting their needs met.

A man can raise kids with ONE women without being married. He can raise a family without being married,

The reason why it’s promoted so much is because it benefits women and society, and brings massive cash to the table for the powers that be. A married woman now has the man under CONTROL. The governments don’t have to worry about him challenging their power.

If marriage wasn’t a thing, the alpha men would get all the women pregnant without committing and the beta would have no reason to work or care. How would governments function?

 

[Paper Crane]

You are still stuck in the 1950’s.

Marriage is promoted becuase it benefits society. It does not benefit the individual man in 2021. Women statistically cheat and imitate divorce much more than men, and are encouraged to destroy men if they are not getting their needs met.

A man can raise kids with ONE women without being married. He can raise a family without being married,

The reason why it’s promoted so much is because it benefits women and society, and brings massive cash to the table for the powers that be. A married woman now has the man under CONTROL. The governments don’t have to worry about him challenging their power.

If marriage wasn’t a thing, the alpha men would get all the women pregnant without committing and the beta would have no reason to work or care. How would governments function?

You really just said "Women statistically cheat and imitate divorce much moe than men, and are encouraged to desroy men if they are not getting their needs met".. I can't take you seriously, but what I can do is try to understand your perspective-- I think it comes from a place of insecurity about marriage. I believe the rest of what you're saying comes out of some kind of angst against government and society.

So you acknolwedge that in your reality, if marriage did not exist, "alpha men would gt all the women pregnant without committing and the beta would have no reason to wrok or care"...

So wait, I thought you were against marriage? Is that --^ the alternative you believe in.. ? I don't get it.. That idea in itself is super far-fetched that I can't take you seriously at all.

 

[The Duke]

OP- I think it has changed somewhat. Having Multiple divorces is acceptable. More people living together that are not married. None of these are exactly long term commitments. People have more sexual partners than ever before.