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Why girls like bums

JaegerPilot217

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bradd80 said:
Not really, women of all ages are prone to shacking up with loser guys. Generally, it's easier when the dudes are around 17 to 27 - the age at which guys are usually very good looking. It happens a lot in the 28 to 35 age group as well, although it's not as intense as women start to learn from being burned in bad relationships that hot guys who are jerks don't make the best partners. The hotter the woman, and the better she is able to hold on to her looks, the more likely she is to hold on to her dream of getting a good looking guy who will treat her well. Women who's looks are starting to fade away tend to smarten up as cold reality starts to hit them.

Finally, as women approach 35 and beyond, they get older and they start to get more worried about things like having kids and being supported, and it's at this point that they start dating guys for their ability to support as opposed to their looks or perceived hotness.
Well I like the sound of that, guess it doesn't matter on how much money a guy makes since a lot of women hook up or date these loser guys that many people deem them
 

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JaegerPilot217 said:
Well I like the sound of that, guess it doesn't matter on how much money a guy makes since a lot of women hook up or date these loser guys that many people deem them
Lol, this place is pretty funny. The guys with no money are saying the guys with money get all the chicks, the guys with money are saying the guys with no money are getting all the chicks, the ugly guys are saying the good looking guys are getting all the chicks, the good looking guys are saying the guys with game are getting all the chicks, the short guys are saying the tall guys are getting all the chicks, the bald guys are saying the guys with hair are getting all the chicks, the (insert race here) are saying the (insert race here) are getting all the chicks, etc etc etc.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Just because it pulls tail doesn't mean you should do it. 10 years from now those guys will be working at wal mart while I will be highly involved in my career and with a great woman. Their "attractiveness" only works for so long with immature girls. You should focus on improving your life which doesn't always coincide with pulling tail. My friend posts pics of himself clubbing every day and gets women but in 5 years when he is 40 he will be depressed
i was this bum. all i ever cared were video games, aquarium fish and pvssy. i also liked programming for fun. now i am a software engineer with my own company. so no, not everyone ends up in walmart.
what is a common trait to these "bums" is that they don't get all worked up in these philosophical questions and don't think in the future. he who thinks only about his future when young, will forget to live the present when grown up.
even now, my company and my video games are on the first place, aquarium fish on the second, and females on the third. this makes me feel more relaxed around women, and helps me score. and yes, most times my mmo character's level, and the usual raids is more important than dating, but this also helps, because i am "busy". women like busy guys. of course i would never tell them i'm ditching them to play games, because society still shuns gaming as a form of having fun, and associates it with losers.

hoping they will all work at walmart is the equivalent to religious people who, when they see someone doing something they want, but jesus or some other entity forbids them, avoid feeling bad by hoping "they will go to hell anyway, but i will have the final laugh"

live your life NOW, don't dwell in the past or the future. it's not worth it.
 

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CrimsonPanther said:
i was this bum. all i ever cared were video games, aquarium fish and pvssy. i also liked programming for fun. now i am a software engineer with my own company. so no, not everyone ends up in walmart.
what is a common trait to these "bums" is that they don't get all worked up in these philosophical questions and don't think in the future. he who thinks only about his future when young, will forget to live the present when grown up.
even now, my company and my video games are on the first place, aquarium fish on the second, and females on the third. this makes me feel more relaxed around women, and helps me score. and yes, most times my mmo character's level, and the usual raids is more important than dating, but this also helps, because i am "busy". women like busy guys. of course i would never tell them i'm ditching them to play games, because society still shuns gaming as a form of having fun, and associates it with losers.

hoping they will all work at walmart is the equivalent to religious people who, when they see someone doing something they want, but jesus or some other entity forbids them, avoid feeling bad by hoping "they will go to hell anyway, but i will have the final laugh"

live your life NOW, don't dwell in the past or the future. it's not worth it.
only bring this up because if there are guys who don't make much money that are able to get girls then that means I can be able to as well
 

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I'm a bum at home, but at work, I work DAMN hard. So, in a sense, I can be both bum and dolla dolla billz. It's a deadly combo. They (chicks) think...How/? can he do both? It's kinda like peacocking, a big plooom bloom of feathers, how does he survive? He looks so drunk, so vulnerable, but yet, he thrives. It becomes a mystery, this best of both worlds, so rare. It's like a rockstar, works damn hard on his art, but at home, bum. Jack Nicholson, Brando, all bums at home, but hard at work when getting paid. LSD, lively
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
They just did not give a **** about anything but weed lol.
When you chase a girl and your joy is based entirely/largely on the relationship, it pressurises her. When your happiness [to each his own] is comparatively independent, she doesn't feel the undue load of your expectations :)

Yet, they had no trouble pulling women. They would always have a girl that stayed at our house a lot and they would always cheat on them.
Of course these guys get women. They have nothing else to do. If you could devote your life to just chasing women you'd get good at it too after awhile.
This + Being happy ?, relaxed/laid back = Why girls like bums [IMO]
 
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