There is no pre written laws of nature. The point is one persons' beautiful voice is not always anothers. One attractive trait to one person may be unattractive to another and so on. Sure there are trends but overall much of the world especially in terms of relationships and interactions is not some set in stone law, keeping frame gives you the best chance to make the best of whatever you have. Most people gravitate toward leaders, leaders have certain skills and tend to be confident which assures other people. Holding frame is basically assuring other people, making you authentic and building your own confidence rather then questioning and losing positive qualities because you are too worried about the reaction of someone or failing. Holding frame is having faith in yourself, sticking to what you believe and becoming outcome independent, when you are outcome independent you don't worry about a loss, you simply go out and do what's best and let the chips fall as they may.
Frame can't change how you look physically, but don't underestimate how much people communicate through body language. The combination of body language and how you carry yourself and speak are things people take into consideration, you can be butt ugly and frame won't change the actual physical problems you have, but not caring about a certain defect minimizes the negatives and paints a picture that you have more to offer then that, you believe it and a big nose or bad hair is just a small disadvantage. The only way to get that across is to believe it yourself. Women **** test to see if you are fit to lead, not if you have a cute face or nice hair, those things are black and white, the grey area is your frame. You are showing you are a ship that can hold its course in stormy seas and that is what matters, not the asthetics or size of the ship. Not everyone will be interested in that little ship, but no one wants a leaky unreliable ship, so make the best out of your ship and actually be a sturdy ship and don't sway from that.
