Best response. Should have this written on the wall at the foot of the bed. Instant motivation.
-——-
I believe it’s 100% the mans fault. I believe if you have a life; whatever you experience, positive or negative is 100% that individuals fault. Man or woman. Doesn’t matter.
And why? It’s more empowering and at the end of the day one is authoring there own existence. Your life is your book. What’s the point of blaming anyone but your own self? It’s useless. It’s exhaustive. It’s victimhood. It’s immobilization.
Everything is my fault. Yes. And just because I believe this, I’m not a defeatest; it will actually make me incredibly strong. That’s the goal. To be like steel; body, mind, spirit.
MrMuscles, you’re a kid. You inflate your own ego on every post which shows you’re weak, you’re in need of something external. You have no idea what you’re talking about. You criticize people here and point fingers every direction. You’re backed in your own corner like a dog whose been abused for years and can’t trust anything; let alone his own self.
You truly would be better to slow your role, walk over to a mirror and have a good long look at yourself and then sit in a room and do some introspection.
You arrived at this forum for a reason. To seek something which is not whole in you. So do that; seek it, rather than fight it. You must be tired. I understand.
You’re learning right now; and that’s what not to do. and that’s where you’re at. That’s where you’re at. Approach this forum with humility and you’ll start to see where you’re actually at in your journey to self actualization.
You mentioned men here are 40’s and 50’s who are washed up and don’t have any credible knowledge because of their age and they didn’t get the women they desired. Even if that is so, they are your elders, and have experience and knowledge which you could greatly heed. Everyone is your teacher, they are teaching you what to do or not to do. Their perspective is their truth. It’s valuable either way, whether or not you agree.
The problem here in this thread with you, is you think you have this whole thing mastered, like you’re tapped in to the truth of what is reality. But you’re not. You’re guzzling down your own drink and being washed away in your own self delusions.
Remember one thing kid; the self proclaimed master, has mastered nothing.
The true master is never a master, because knows he’s always the student.
Choose to humble yourself and know you know nothing.
But do get to know yourself.
And that returns us to the point. 100% of everything in your life is your fault. Because your life is your responsibility. And your responsibilities are 100% yours.
"100% of everything in your life is your fault." , this sentence is wrong and yet you keep repeating it and this what i meant when i asked this questions, guys acting tough and claiming they've got women under control but when the slightest issue arises suddenly they start blaming themselves .... what about women arent they human beings ? dont they have a mind of their own and can make decisions ? how come its your fault she refused to date you or wanted to play you and she shouldnt be responsible yet when she decided to steal from her workplace that was her decision and she got int a lot of sh*T for doing it .... why so many men blame themselves when they dont have to , whats the deal with that .
you can never control everything in your life and a lot of things are not your fault, if you were born in a first world country to poor parents living in a rented apartment you will sure as heck be poor for a long period of your life till you get an education adn start making money, even if you get a job most colleges cost a fortune and there is nothing you can do about that ......... can you ever marry into a royal family ? forget that, can you date and marry a girl from a high social class from a presitgeous family when you are barely middle class ? no you can't do that, can you ever be get the respect you want if your dad was a garbage man ? no, no matter how great he was people will always look down on you .... a lot of things are not your fault, i work my asz off to reach 1/4 of what my wealthy friends had since they were 10 , my uncle is a well respected doctor and is rich af, people were more than happy marrying into his family, when someone was born looking like brad pitt or leondardo decaprion with great body no matter what he eats and one was born looking like jack black , is that their fault as well ?
the guys i talked about give sh*t advice (No offense) they claim to bang chicks left and right yet as i said no wife, no gf, no quality girls to be found anywhere near them and when they do get laid its either through tinder, dating sites or they admit they hit the bars and clubs and prey on drunk girls regardless of how drunk they are, that doesnt take special training or advice a couple of beers and youre good to go, i will be far more impressed if they banged normal every, young and attractive chickswho are 100% sober, but that rarely happens and when it does the chicks are in their 40s or 50s .
iam not perfect by any means, i dont know it all and iam only 23 , but claiming to know more than me or acting like your ways are right and mine are wrong wont work, the advice givin on here is either unrealistic or is very specific for a certain group of people and wont work for most others .
the number one mistake anyone on here makes is they start assuming stuff, he said this so he must be that but in reality no, that is rarely the case, i have been described by all kinds of bad words on this forum but in reality none of that applies to me in fact if we meet in real life iam probably more fun and confident that most guys on here that claim to know more than me and , girls should take responsibilty for they actions if they fvck up , as simple as that .
