Why don't women reply on Tinder to me?

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So on another OLD dating app I've hard a cute girl view me a few times so I've wrote to her but she won't write back yet she keeps viewing my profile. I write back to her again, she then keeps viewing me.

Why do they do this? I've had women who would view me a lot and I'd write back and eventually if I say something playful about being shy I get them to finally reply.

Why keep looking at someone but won't reply?
 

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because they want to.
why do you care so much?
Because i dont keep looking at a chicks profile over and over if I have no intentions of replying.

Does this mean I'm not sending the right message to her if she doesn't reply but likes be and keeps looking? Maybe I can have you write the message for me and I can paste it since you're an expert message writer.
 

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Because i dont keep looking at a chicks profile over and over if I have no intentions of replying.
let me help you...
women are different than men
people are different
people do things different than you


sending the right message to her
replying to someone looking at your profile is abit stalker unless both paid and unpaid features allow you to see that activity

Maybe I can have you write the message for me
Maybe you give me 10 dollahs
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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let me help you...
women are different than men
people are different
people do things different than you



replying to someone looking at your profile is abit stalker unless both paid and unpaid features allow you to see that activity


Maybe you give me 10 dollahs
Yes, sites like match tell you when someone views your profile.
 

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If you are interested then send an opener without mentioning her views.
You can try my Tinder opener... use it exactly as I have written it. (10$)
Sit back, wait... send more openers to others.
Sit back, wait

its a numbers game
 

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If you are interested then send an opener without mentioning her views.
You can try my Tinder opener... use it exactly as I have written it. (10$)
Sit back, wait... send more openers to others.
Sit back, wait

its a numbers game
Is it written in your OLD thread?
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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i said use it exactly as it is, regardless of what app etc

here:

Hello! My name is BigGoal.
I like your style, cute smile...
lets get acquainted and see where it goes, what do you say?

how she should respond:

thanks
lets
Hello

how to respond
If she says:

"Hello (etc)" you reply should be "Hello (etc)"
"Hi (etc)" you reply "Hi (etc)"

this is called mirroring. either she will use it or you should use it.
At times I literally copy and past replies back to them... its magic
 

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i said use it exactly as it is, regardless of what app etc

here:

Hello! My name is BigGoal.
I like your style, cute smile...
lets get acquainted and see where it goes, what do you say?

how she should respond:

thanks
lets
Hello

how to respond
If she says:

"Hello (etc)" you reply should be "Hello (etc)"
"Hi (etc)" you reply "Hi (etc)"

this is called mirroring. either she will use it or you should use it.
At times I literally copy and past replies back to them... its magic
I mention smile a lot and they like that. Of course because I only message them if they have nice teeth. If they dont show their smile it's an automatic red flag.
 

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I mention smile a lot and they like that. Of course because I only message them if they have nice teeth. If they dont show their smile it's an automatic red flag.
I dont care... follow the script, son.
 

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The problem about those apps is there is soooo many options for women. So they tend to ignore if they have matched better men for them. Hypergamy basically.
I made a fake female account, 2 average looking photos
Within minutes i already had 99 likes. Every swipe was a match.

Tinder is a gigantic sausage fest
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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Some of these women on Tinder and Bumble list their IG handle on their profile. However a lot of them are late teens and early 20s so they have super high standards and then you have the maturity issues to deal with as well with a 20 year old.
i immediately swipe left on anything under 25
 

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I made a fake female account, 2 average looking photos
Within minutes i already had 99 likes. Every swipe was a match.

Tinder is a gigantic sausage fest
I wanted to make that too... But I was afraid to have problems using fake images so I gave up.

But a friend of mine showed a woman who sent him a print of her tinder... There was 5k likes man... Thats insane. And she was not that beautiful.
 

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i immediately swipe left on anything under 25
You're 28. 18-24 year olds are still a legit part of your target market without a stretch of the imagination. When you're 35, it'll be more difficult to get 18-24 year olds via any method.
 

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You're 28. 18-24 year olds are still a legit part of your target market without a stretch of the imagination. When you're 35, it'll be more difficult to get 18-24 year olds via any method.
I think going for women at 18-20 a guy that is 28 is going to have some issues purely based on social interaction. Most girls around that age are super immature and I really can't see how a 28 year old man would be able to relate to them on any level other than purely sex. I feel 21-22 would be on this man's lower range and up to around his age.
 

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I think going for women at 18-20 a guy that is 28 is going to have some issues purely based on social interaction. Most girls around that age are super immature and I really can't see how a 28 year old man would be able to relate to them on any level other than purely sex. I feel 21-22 would be on this man's lower range and up to around his age.
At 28, I wasn't interested in dating 18-20 year olds because I wanted to go out to bars with someone. With nearly 10 years of hindsight on age 28, it's debatable if I did the right thing then. I think dating 21-24 year olds at 28 makes a lot of sense.
 
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