Why Don Juans are rare, but, special creatures

[PVSSY-EATER]

Happy Memorial Day to all the Don Juans and Don Juans In Training....I have a moment here before I go and grab some barbeque, so I thought I would post this thing I wrote last night...here it is fellows.....

Why are Don Juans rare, and jerks and nice guys, and even players and pimps are so common? Well......for a couple of reasons...

A jerk, is an ******d angry and mean man, but an inward kind and gentle person, who has been mistreated somewhere in life.
Jerks are not bad people, jerks are hurting people. Jerks have had disappointments in life, and have not been able to get over them as of yet.

A nice guy, is an ******d kind and gentle person, but an inward angry and frustrated person, who cannot seem to understand the value of himself, so he values others before his own will. Nice guys are only nice because it is their way of telling the world, I need you, but you dont want me, but can you still allow me to be your friend?

A player, is a cartoon. He is a drawing and a made-up person, who only shows up to entertain women, however, because he is not a real person but only a made up man of seducation and techniques, his show eventually gets tired and old...

So why do these three types of guys fill the earth so much, and why do don juans pop up every now and then? And just what the hell is a don juan really? Lets read on.....

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

As we look closely into the lives of the jerk and the nice guy who all both at sometime in their lives, do become successful with women, they all lack one common thing---------
a positive attitude.

A positive attitude is a positive way of living and thinking that we adapt, that can not be affected by people, circumstances, or situations.

The jerk, lacks a positive attitude. The reason being, is because he is still really upset over something. He may never admit it to us, nor his women, but something is really bothering the jerk...what is it? That can vary, but if the jerk forgives, he would feel much better inside.

The nice guy lacks a positive attitude. The reason being, is because he feels as though he is not worthy or valuable on the inside. His actions of niceness, are only to persuade people into giving him attention and affection, but because he does not believe he has value, he has nothing from the inside of him to give back....the reason behind this? It could be due to low self esteem, or just a lack of knowledge..but if the nice guy finds his calling, he would feel much better on the inside.

And why you ask, is upsetting the player? Does he have a positive attitude?

A lot of players, are a mixature of nice guys and jerks. Some players use gifts and seducation to get women, some players use toughness and seducation to get women, however, the common denoimater is seducation.

Seducation is a set of rules adapted by a person, to arouse connection and sexual thoughts in another.

Some say seducation is wrong, some say it gets puzzy and thats all we are looking for, both....are correct.

If you go to the club and are looking for a quick one night stand, seducation can get you that. Make no mistake about it......

Players come in all shapes and sizes, and in life, we must learn how to play in order to really become successful, but should we all be players or don juans? Hmmm....what in the hell is a don juan? Read on....for the conclusion

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

P-E, do you start threads for a living??

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

If a player is one who adapts seducation to get women into bed....some may say, whats wrong with that? Well...nothing....
why be a don juan? What is so special about don juans? Well...

A don juan, is a person who is one who has adapted a positive way of living and thinking, regardless of circumstances, situations, or people.

A don juan must learn to play the game as well, but what makes him special is that he does not fold. He does not break. And the cares of this world seem not to bother him one bit.

Can a player have a don juan mentality......you better believe it.....most players actually are not affected by rejection and will go through the numbers game quickly.

The difference is between all four men, the jerk, the nice guy, the player, and the don juan, is this, what you all been waiting for......

INTERNAL PEACE.

The reason I would rather be a don juan, is because I can have the strong qualities of a nice guy, that is, be caring of others and seek to what to know others, but still have peace.

The reason I would rather be a don juan, is because I can have the strong qualities of the jerk, that is, not being afraid to put people in their place or stand up for what is right, but still have peace.

The reason I would rather be a don juan, is because I can have the strong qualities of the player, which in all honestly, is not his seducation but his persistance, and still have peace.

Each three of these men may have college degrees, may have a lot of women, and may be alpha males, but they are still warring inside. They are not satisified with themselves, they have no peace.

Only don juans can have the best of the world, and joy and peace within himself, to truly enjoy it.

So in conclusion fellows, how does one become a don juan?

Decide that this day, before I walk out the house, I will put on a smile, a positive attitude, and I will put love in my heart for people and myself.

Put that positive attitude on, take it out the door with you, and dont allow any outside factor to shake it.

That my friends, is a don juan.

God Bless you.