Why doesn't she really want to talk anymore?

[mrgoodstuff]

Ah! I see the problem... you think women are consistent. They are not. You have to judge a women by what she does IN THE MOMENT. When you are trying to make a move or push things forward, what does she do?

Women learn from an early age that they can manipulate men with flirting. If you are acting like a friend, or doing sh!t for her, she will be nice an flirt... that is your 'treat', like a dog doing tricks. BUT, if you start to flirt with her.. and she doesn't like that... well 'bad dog', BAD! Observe how she is responding to what you are doing. If she is flirty while you are un-clogging her sink... well she likes that you are being a good useful man. If you are pushing things forward and flirting with her, and she is flirty back... she likes that what you are doing and wants you to keep going.

Dudes fvck this up all the time. Chicks are emotional and can say "I love you!" then 2 minutes later say "I hate you!" and be telling the truth in both cases.

Some of us do have a few real female friends we'd do stuff for. What do we do in the case someone weasels us into the friend zone after having a period of sex and wants us to still come around and do her man stuff?

 

[Stallionstud]

She used you for sex? Alot of them are flip flopping roles. A pump and dump just like a guy. She got your attention.

7 years younger than me but yes it felt great then hurt equally as greatly. It’s bizarre how clear she was she did not want to be friends with benefits either. Real bizarre. I turned down the friend Zone, ****ty offers like that I view as long standing anyway. I’ll probably accept in a few months and try to bang her friends

My terms, ya know.

 

[Tyuiop]

Ah! I see the problem... you think women are consistent. They are not. You have to judge a women by what she does IN THE MOMENT. When you are trying to make a move or push things forward, what does she do?

Women learn from an early age that they can manipulate men with flirting. If you are acting like a friend, or doing sh!t for her, she will be nice an flirt... that is your 'treat', like a dog doing tricks. BUT, if you start to flirt with her.. and she doesn't like that... well 'bad dog', BAD! Observe how she is responding to what you are doing. If she is flirty while you are un-clogging her sink... well she likes that you are being a good useful man. If you are pushing things forward and flirting with her, and she is flirty back... she likes that what you are doing and wants you to keep going.

Dudes fvck this up all the time. Chicks are emotional and can say "I love you!" then 2 minutes later say "I hate you!" and be telling the truth in both cases.

She never asks me to do anything. All we mostly did was talk. We would talk about our day, our interests, or just tease one another. It's not like she really got anything out of it except for that. That's why I thought she was interested in me or at least be friends. I'm cool with being friends with her as long as she knows I'm going to treat her like any other one of my friends. If she wanted to be friends I'm guessing she'll be back because I honestly can't think of one thing I did wrong, the worst being asking her out. If she likes me she'll again she'll come back. If she was just using me or bored then why would it matter if she came back. Why would I want someone in my life who uses people or leads people on. It's her choice what she wants but I'm going to continue to live my life with or without her involved in it.

 

[djthiago1]

I asked her out again because I thought she just wanted to get to know me better. After we started talking she got really flirty and seemed to really be interested

Women are always flirting, i've had girls i've never met talking about having babies with me. Nothing matters if she's not showing up on dates and kissing you goodnight,