Why does this keep happening?

[mrgoodstuff]

At the end of the day all of my exploits which is greater than 50 and under 100, most penetrations where out of several long term relationships where due to females being attracted to me ALONE. Not as part of a group. What I'm seeing these days is females may be more eager to gain access to certain groups, so the "lone seducer" is not as attractive. And she will fvck you from just being part of a crowd.

It's just weird to me that the group can say he's "ok" and it's just any guy tagging along to the group and he gets full access just from her need for "social proofing". That's weak to me as a man, because I'm going to base my judgement on my interactions with them and their performance as a person outside of politics.

But this is 2019.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Wrong. Average looking brown girls are getting payments from desperate sugar daddies all over the world just for text chats and occasional titty flash.

The price and value of P has dropped in our society. Ask some of the other guys. When a resource is more easily accessible and easily had the price drops.

 

[nicksaiz65]

At the end of the day all of my exploits which is greater than 50 and under 100, most penetrations where out of several long term relationships where due to females being attracted to me ALONE. Not as part of a group. What I'm seeing these days is females may be more eager to gain access to certain groups, so the "lone seducer" is not as attractive. And she will fvck you from just being part of a crowd.

It's just weird to me that the group can say he's "ok" and it's just any guy tagging along to the group and he gets full access just from her need for "social proofing". That's weak to me as a man, because I'm going to base my judgement on my interactions with them and their performance as a person outside of politics.

But this is 2019.

Yeah I'd agree with that. Women are like heat seeking missiles for status/social proof.

At the same time, I don't think Cold Approaching will ever die. If she finds you attractive she'll fvck you right?

Social Circle is good but limited imo.

Nice Laycount btw. I wanna beat you one day. My goal is to get 100 bodies. Could take a bit but oh well.

 

[biggoal]

This happens to ALL OF US, all the time. Don't let it get to you. Remember a woman is nothing until she actually goes out with you. I had two women flake on me this week, granted I can't remember a time when it happened twice in a week, mostly because I forget about them as fast as this happens... but I have a date with a new one tomorrow, but I still have 24 hours to see if she doesn't cancel or just not fvcking show up. I honest to God do not care because there is nothing I can do about it.... if she shows up great... if she doesn't... no problem I'll have fun where I'm going anyway.

I get dead numbers and calls with no responses frequently. I forget about these almost has fast as it happens.

Some here are giving you advice on technique to improve your results... go ahead and pay attention, some of it is good advice... Me... well... I don't think you really did anything wrong... so what if you asked her if she had a BF.... so what that you texted her back too soon... heck, I've done these things before and sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't... I do whatever I want... really.... sometimes I'm very direct sometimes I'm not.... it's really just a gut feeling I get at the moment for what I want to do.

What you did right was the most important thing, you saw a girl you wanted and you had the balls to approach her... you made your intentions clear, and you asked for her number. Most guys won't do that... so you are ahead of the game. Now the next thing you have to do is not let chicks flaky @ss behavior get to you.

Why do you think women flake so much these days? You can plug a number into spy dialer and see who the person is too. Then you can tell if it was a real number or not.

 

[candyman105]

The price and value of P has dropped in our society. Ask some of the other guys. When a resource is more easily accessible and easily had the price drops.

But only top 5% chads have access to that pvssy. Plus, most women are opting for careers over family. Pvssy is scarcer than ever.

 

[candyman105]

Yeah I'd agree with that. Women are like heat seeking missiles for status/social proof.

At the same time, I don't think Cold Approaching will ever die. If she finds you attractive she'll fvck you right?

Social Circle is good but limited imo.

Nice Laycount btw. I wanna beat you one day. My goal is to get 100 bodies. Could take a bit but oh well.

Women choose looks over status every time.

 

[biggoal]

Women choose looks over status every time.

Disagree. How does a old lardball like rush Limbaugh get a hot wife way younger? Certainly not looks.

 

[candyman105]

Disagree. How does a old lardball like rush Limbaugh get a hot wife way younger? Certainly not looks.

The problem is women can't always find a man good looking enough for her so she settles for status/wealth.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah I'd agree with that. Women are like heat seeking missiles for status/social proof.

At the same time, I don't think Cold Approaching will ever die. If she finds you attractive she'll fvck you right?

Social Circle is good but limited imo.

Nice Laycount btw. I wanna beat you one day. My goal is to get 100 bodies. Could take a bit but oh well.

If she is a gossip junkie, you won't have much value unless her girls wanna talk about you.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Disagree. How does a old lardball like rush Limbaugh get a hot wife way younger? Certainly not looks.

Raw power. The snake in the garden of Eden represented infinite power.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Women choose looks over status every time.

Us long termers on this site disagree. It would be nice if by your own volition it would be that easily done. But it is very political in the real world.

 

[biggoal]

Raw power. The snake in the garden of Eden represented infinite power.

True and he has gobs of money. I mean Trump when he married Melania was in his 50s, certainly way past his prime but he had MONEY and is famous.

Guys who are famous or have money are going to get hot women regardless. They might be gold diggers in many cases, but they still can get them.

If you're older and fat and have money and can attract HB9s because of your money I say go for it. If you can support their lifestyle easily and still get p*ssy then go for it.

That's one of the few advantages men do have. Even if you're old, fat or even look like Rush Limbaugh if you have the money and wealth you still have a chance at getting a hot girl fairly easily if you want one!!

Reverse the tables though. A fat, ugly 250lb 55 year old woman with money is not going to get a decent guy in most cases.I know I wouldn't hit it even if they had 10 million dollars! No way would I do it. I'd rather still lowly that screw that whale.

 

[candyman105]

Disagree. How does a old lardball like rush Limbaugh get a hot wife way younger? Certainly not looks.

You can't generalize from rush Limbaugh to all men.

If we used little goal as a case to generalize to all men, we would think all men are solely attracted to dried up granny skanks.

Us long termers on this site disagree. It would be nice if by your own volition it would be that easily done. But it is very political in the real world.

Confirmation bias. I know a ton of rich guys and guys who are not quite rich but making well above average incomes. The vast majority of them are struggling to get even a single date.

 

[biggoal]

You can't generalize from rush Limbaugh to all men.

If we used little goal as a case to generalize to all men, we would think all men are solely attracted to dried up granny skanks.



Confirmation bias. I know a ton of rich guys and guys who are not quite rich but making well above average incomes. The vast majority of them are struggling to get even a single date.

What's their location and age range though? As you see my post about down here on the west coast how it's a very old area of the state, BUT you see younger women like 40s and in their 30s with fat, balding men who have $$$$. We have a lot of gold diggers down here. Even with the lack of younger crowd in these retirement areas if they have money they would not have a problem getting a woman down here. FL is a gold digging haven. I see old, ugly guys with hot women all the time down here.

I call BS on that. Will your wealthy friends offer to settle with a gold digger? I just can't believe they struggle getting a date. I use mainly OLD and even with the very very few non landwhales on there even I'm able to get a few dates despite them living up to an hour away.

 

[fanatic22]

Strongly agree with candyman that looks are by FAR the most important, but having outsized status or money can of course net you a gold digger or a social climber. Rush Limbaugh is in the 0.001% in terms of money and status (in conservative circles). Would you rather have that, or be in the top 0.001% in looks? Can you imagine what you could get if you were that attractive? Certainly someone more attractive than Limbaugh's wife.

 

[biggoal]

Strongly agree with candyman that looks are by FAR the most important, but having outsized status or money can of course net you a gold digger or a social climber. Rush Limbaugh is in the 0.001% in terms of money and status (in conservative circles). Would you rather have that, or be in the top 0.001% in looks? Can you imagine what you could get if you were that attractive? Certainly someone more attractive than Limbaugh's wife.

Limbaugh's wife has aged of course, but when they got married like 10 years ago she was a stunner.

Again, guys like Trump, and Limbaugh can get the hottest women due to insane wealth despite not being in top physical shape and not being a chad.

I guess if there was a term like Money Chad then Limbaugh and Trump would fit that mold lol.

So would you want to by a Chad and be attractive, BUT have an average income, OR look like Limbaugh or Trump, out of shape, old, BUT have multi millions like limbaugh or a billion dollars like Trump?

Unless you're physically scarred and that ugly looking I would take the Money Chad part. You can always hire the best personal trainers, buy the best exercise equipment, cosmetic surgery, Liposuction, etc. and make yourself look better.

However, I don't see Limbaugh working and Trump has even admitted he hasn't exercised for years and admit it he has a big gut on him and yet he gets a hot wife.

If you had mega wealth and could get hot girls would you still stay in shape or just eat what you want and let your body go to sh*** because you can still get girls regardless?

 

[candyman105]

Melania Trump was never that hot. He just likes Eastern European looking women.

I could give a million examples of rich and above average income guys who are struggling to get even a single date and I could give a million examples of the opposite. It doesn't help YOU. It's just mental masturbation.

Back on topic, OP is just mentally masturbating, looking for excuses for why he sucks with women. He's dumb and he doesn't take action. So simple.

 

[biggoal]

Melania Trump was never that hot. He just likes Eastern European looking women.

I could give a million examples of rich and above average income guys who are struggling to get even a single date and I could give a million examples of the opposite. It doesn't help YOU. It's just mental masturbation.

Back on topic, OP is just mentally masturbating, looking for excuses for why he sucks with women. He's dumb and he doesn't take action. So simple.

She's hot for a 50 year old. Well send some of that cash my way then. I'll put it to good use! Again, your rich friends unless they're 350lb lardballs in a scooter or something there is no excuse they can't go to events and out and about around really which people with high end HBs and meet one. Even Limbaugh met his current wife at a golf tournament.

Even with the sparse amount of decent young women down here, rich men are able to still get very decent looking women down here in FL. I simply call BS about your millionaire friends can't get a date.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Strongly agree with candyman that looks are by FAR the most important, but having outsized status or money can of course net you a gold digger or a social climber. Rush Limbaugh is in the 0.001% in terms of money and status (in conservative circles). Would you rather have that, or be in the top 0.001% in looks? Can you imagine what you could get if you were that attractive? Certainly someone more attractive than Limbaugh's wife.

I don't think that's really a useful question outside of hypotheticals. In the real world, you want to maximize EVERYTHING so you have the greatest chance of success. Looks, money, and status. And THEN you need Game to top it off.

 

[candyman105]

This guy is so ****ed in the head.

She's hot for a 50 year old.