I just realized something interesting...
Anyway it's a known fact most girls have low self esteem.
But as for how much they believe in others' compliments of them i dont know.
Anyway i remember once with this girl, she was leaning on my chest and i said "mmm you smell good."
her response? "you think so?"
me, "yea"...then i started to stroke her hair.
Then another time she was showing me photos of a dress she made (she's a fashion major). It was pretty awesome looking and i said "i love it."
her response? "c'mon tell me the truth."
Then she went about to asking me how i feel when i see the dress...
Usually im not a big complimenter in general. But when i give them i mean it. I think under another situation if i was an acquantance and she wasnt dating me, she wouldve probably just say "thanks."
I dont know why, but it seems like she wants to disprove my compliments in disbelief that im capable of being genuine. Perhaps subconsciously did she want me to NOT give her validation and tease her on the situation?
However lately she appears to be looking for my validation since she's offering to do me favors.
Anyway it's a known fact most girls have low self esteem.
But as for how much they believe in others' compliments of them i dont know.
Anyway i remember once with this girl, she was leaning on my chest and i said "mmm you smell good."
her response? "you think so?"
me, "yea"...then i started to stroke her hair.
Then another time she was showing me photos of a dress she made (she's a fashion major). It was pretty awesome looking and i said "i love it."
her response? "c'mon tell me the truth."
Then she went about to asking me how i feel when i see the dress...
Usually im not a big complimenter in general. But when i give them i mean it. I think under another situation if i was an acquantance and she wasnt dating me, she wouldve probably just say "thanks."
I dont know why, but it seems like she wants to disprove my compliments in disbelief that im capable of being genuine. Perhaps subconsciously did she want me to NOT give her validation and tease her on the situation?
However lately she appears to be looking for my validation since she's offering to do me favors.