Why does my heart beat fast when I'm about to approach?

Ricardo

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Women like nervous guys, yeah right, then Barney Fife would have gotten laid like no tomorrow.

I have always done my best when I was my most confident and when I'm my most confident I'm calm. It also seems to happen when I'm not totally on the prowl, that is to say I'm not planning on getting laid, I'm just having a good time and when I don't care where the conversation goes or if the girl blows me off.

Now it is rare when I am that confident and calm but it sure beats the nervous, horny Chihauau (did I spell that right) that I and other guys become at times
 

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Originally posted by Ricardo:
Women like nervous guys, yeah right, then Barney Fife would have gotten laid like no tomorrow.
Let me point out that Barney not only had Thelma Lou, he had Juanita down at the diner on top of *that*. Ol' Barn must have been doing *something* right, whether it was bravado (he was famous for that) or a little nervousness. If you saw the A&E Biography on Don Knotts, you would know that back in the '60s he was a surprisingly successful DJ in real life.

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Originally posted by Nosferatu:
Gee, MysteryWoman, you're not much of a mystery at all. In fact, your response was quite predictable. I could have almost predicted it word-for-word.

As a "top intellectual", I become more aware every day of how little I know. This is because I am increasingly able to ask more questions and to see things more microscopically. I would be the last person to say that I know how everything in the world works.

I DO know how women work, though. They primarily do not think rationally. They interpret the world through "feelings". Since feelings in both men and women are highly unstable and unreliable, this explains women's often unpredictable and irrational behaviours.

Now, MW, if your emotional reaction to my post were replaced by good old rational thought, you would see that I stated that women's ability to think rationally is retarded, ie. "impeded" or "not fully developed". This does not mean that women are mentally retarded. Can you see the difference, or are your emotions clouding your ability to understand?

Anyone with a brain knows that emotions are often faulty in premise, and therefore are a poor indicator of reality. I therefore stand by my claim that a rationally thinking human being will generally live more effectively than one who is ruled by emotion. It is important to refrain from squelching all emotion, but acheiving proper balance is a must.

As far as your question, "Can you prove that women can't be logical?", the answer is no, I can't. That is because women can be logical, to a small degree. Why would I attempt to prove that women can't be logical? Oh wait; I see, you misunderstood my last post to mean that women have absolutely no capacity to think logically. Well, go back and read it when you're in a better mood, and you might see what I really wrote. The finer distinctions are, of course, hidden from your perception.

I'll have to look back at your previous posts to find out what in the world a girl like you is doing frequenting these boards. I'd like to see just what the agenda is.

As far as you guys go, I know what you're bombarded with in high school, college, and via the mass media. You are saturated with femminist bs all day and all night long. The reason it affects many of you is that acceptance of these silly ideas is tied to acceptance or rejection by them. It makes you unsure of where you stand.

Don't buy into it! Make no apology for being a man and speaking boldly like a man. I know lots of women who might offer weak objections to what I say on this subject, but it is very clear that each of them respects me specifically because I have the backbone to stand up to them. Try it - you'll like the results.
I've already wound you up, now looks whos acting emotionally and not logically.
 

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Ok, I get it, but Barney Fife must have got them from the uniform not the nervousness.

Well I still don't believe the nervousness as being attractive, these girls like confident guys.

But hey, just go do it, don't worry if your nervous
 

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Originally posted by MysteryWoman:
I've already wound you up, now looks whos acting emotionally and not logically.
The classic response of a little girl who has run out of amunition in a battle of wits...

Understand, mw - you have no power whatsoever to "wind me up" as you say. I find you amusing, though a little sad. Just to clarify, I am engaging you to expose you to the men on this forum.

What will be the next response, guys? How about "No, YOU are amusing"? We can only hope for something of real substance...
 

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I think what MysteryWoman was saying about nervousness being attractive does have some truth to it. A good example of this is that commerical where the girl is out on a blind date. She's waiting at the bar and asks a guys she sees if he is who she is expecting. He's not. Then, the guy, Brad, pulls up in his nice car with the arrogant as **** license plate "The Brad." This guy was dressed as arrogant as you can get, yet obviously full of confidence. The women was turned off by him, and rightfully so. The other guy who she had just met stepped in and resolved the situation. So, the other guy showed confidence and a nice side by resolving the situation. The Brad just came off as an arrogant ******* and you can't blame a woman for not wanting that guy.
 

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Why does a heart beat faster when approaching? It's called adrenaline. It's a manly trait to have it. Men who don't have adrenaline rushes ever are usually pretty much wimps. So be glad that adrenaline runs in your blood.

Now, the question is, how to deal with that adrenaline. Think of it as your enemy, think of it as social anxiety, and it will become social anxiety. Think of it as excitement that you have because of meeting new interresting people and it's nothing but an adrenaline rush - which, at best, might make the woman like you ;)

And about this "intelligence" conversation - on general those people who claim to be intelligent (or optionally more intelligent than others) are usually the dumbest people on earth. I've met intelligent women and intelligent men, and I've met stupid women (read: little princess's who think they are so special that they don't even have to use their brains for anything) and stupid men (read: jerks who think that they can get anything they want with their whoop-ass-attitude). Which are dumber in general, men or women? What a dumb question, who gives a rat's ass! It's always better to look at individuals - and sex does not always determine the intelligence for individuals.

EDIT: One more thing. Nervousness is not attractive. EVER. I just don't consider every single heart beat I have as a sign of "nervousness" ;). So from my experience, this thing what mysterywoman said
Personally I'm more likely to be attracted to the guy who comes across as slightly nervous as oppose to being completely relaxed. If a guy is too relaxed and confident, I immeditately percieve him as a womanizer and will reject him.
Whilst if the guy I'm attracted to come across as nervous it seems like a more geniune attraction.
is not true if you look what most women would do. To claim that people with confidence are automatically womanizers is just ridilious. Even women know this - altough for some of them it is hard to admit, they are so wrapped up in the "nice guys are cute" -fantasy world ;)
 

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Originally posted by Tantric
If it's bothering you that much, there is a drug you can take although i don't remember the name.

You can get it at health food stores. It's generally used by doctors to stop their hands from shaking...i don't know EXACTLY what it is it called or what does, but it relaxes you to the point where you feel more in control...

Check out the health food store.

I'm going tomorrow, so if i have time, i'll look it up.

[This message has been edited by Tantric (edited 09-05-2002).]
Diazapam?
 
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