Why does a woman need legal commitment?

[BeExcellent]

I’m a little surprised that you’re actually going to do it legally, because if memory serves, I believe you once said that you saw no reason to ever get legally married again, particularly with the amount of assets that you have.

How old is he? Has he ever been married before? Does he have kids? Are you going to get a prenup? And... am I sounding like your dad? LOL

And lest I forget: congratulations!

-Augustus

Thanks Augustus. Always good to see you & hope all is well.

It’s important to him partly because he’s never married and has no kids (never wanted any.). He sees good marriages around him and wants that (I mean couples happily together for decades). He’s 45, handsome, tall, six figure salary, sexy, masculine, smart & a semi pro athlete. He’s also got a sweet & goofy/geeky side. He wants to marry me as he finds me hot (before he knew my age), kind, smart & fun. We laugh all the time. He knows I am a catch and he wants that locked down. I desire a life partner. He wants to marry/have a life partner. Ok. My assets are already in trust so it should be fine. I’m still considering a pre-nup. We shall see.

So no I don’t see any real reason to marry except that it matters to him. I think for him (having never been married) it carries more weight than a divorced man, although that varies. He is a bit idealistic. I am not getting divorced again except under the worst circumstances (he cheats or gets physically abusive), but I do not see that in his nature or his history. He’s an LTR guy, just never found a girl worth marrying since his teen years, and that first ex wanted children, so it wasn’t going to work since he didn’t want babies.

He has established solid relationships with my kids however, which at first seemed a deal breaker. But he knows he doesn’t get me without the children so it is what it is.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

Thanks Augustus. Always good to see you & hope all is well.

It’s important to him partly because he’s never married and has no kids (never wanted any.). He sees good marriages around him and wants that (I mean couples happily together for decades). He’s 45, handsome, tall, six figure salary, sexy, masculine, smart & a semi pro athlete. He’s also got a sweet & goofy/geeky side. He wants to marry me as he finds me hot (before he knew my age), kind, smart & fun. We laugh all the time. He knows I am a catch and he wants that locked down. I desire a life partner. He wants to marry/have a life partner. Ok. My assets are already in trust so it should be fine. I’m still considering a pre-nup. We shall see.

So no I don’t see any real reason to marry except that it matters to him. I think for him (having never been married) it carries more weight than a divorced man, although that varies. He is a bit idealistic. I am not getting divorced again except under the worst circumstances (he cheats or gets physically abusive), but I do not see that in his nature or his history. He’s an LTR guy, just never found a girl worth marrying since his teen years, and that first ex wanted children, so it wasn’t going to work since he didn’t want babies.

He has established solid relationships with my kids however, which at first seemed a deal breaker. But he knows he doesn’t get me without the children so it is what it is.

“He’s 45” BE the cradle robber...

I work with a woman who was divorce raped by her ex to the tune of 2500 a month.

Get the prenup. look at it this way: what’s the downside to getting one?

-Augustus-

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Having read this forum for almost 15yrs, the lack of masculinity missing from many of the younger members is evident on this forum. Its the root of their troubles and they have little awareness.

Agreed.

Irl I see gym cel Gen Z. Kid lifting nonstop. The sec a girl touches his penor he switched off. Is in cherish. On that phaggy times. Gets cucked and bitter. It doesn't end well. Fellas need to be icy as f.

It's actually a inversion. Getting the girl means dudes should be approaching &&& pulling more. More lifting. Lots more sessions at you bjj gym. Run 4x a week. Dual in that diet.

A lot of fellas think perma poon means turning into a big ****ing phaggit &&& sitting when they pee. These deserve getting wrecked.