Why do young college women say there’s no men to date?

[SW15]

from what I've seen and heard women in the nursing professions give off a sense of entitlement and act like their job is so underappreciated. They complain about being overworked and about how difficult their career is, kind of reminds me of those who are teachers lol. There is a guy that I know from the gym who is a male nurse and he has told me about this as well, which just adds to this lol.

I'm not impressed with this attitude from nurses.

I had tried reaching out to that woman to get a 2nd date, got some short replies at first that lead to nothing and then I was ghosted. I didn't give up after a failed first attempt and honestly tried a couple more times before moving on.

That was a bit thirsty behavior. I think this was a learning experience for you. Plenty of men have done things like that and likely even worse than what you did.

I don't think a woman having less than a bachelor's degree makes her a bad choice.

It doesn't. It does depend on what she's doing with her life though. Her character matters a lot too.

A paralegal without a college degree is more datable than a career woman with an advanced degree who is a mid or high level business manager/executive, a doctor/dentist, or a lawyer.

I think the reasoning behind what you are seeing though is that women who are career/education focused honestly put off dating and relationships for quite a long time, which naturally delays pregnancy, marriage, etc. Those women who are not in this frame of existence are often not in this boat.

Career track women don't put off at least one element of dating. They are having sex.

The crazy thing is that these careerist women will look down on women who decide not to do this, yet they are the women that will be single, childless and miserable lol.

I thought childless women were so happy! LOL!

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[eli77]

I don't know where you guys are at but covid has decimated the community college here in south Florida we'll find out where that goes by the end of this year.

 

[sangheilios]

I'm not impressed with this attitude from nurses.



That was a bit thirsty behavior. I think this was a learning experience for you. Plenty of men have done things like that and likely even worse than what you did.



It doesn't. It does depend on what she's doing with her life though. Her character matters a lot too.

A paralegal without a college degree is more datable than a career woman with an advanced degree who is a mid or high level business manager/executive, a doctor/dentist, or a lawyer.



Career track women don't put off at least one element of dating. They are having sex.



I thought childless women were so happy! LOL!

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The thing is, women in the nursing field should be looked at as having a "careerist" mindset. Basically, any woman with a degree in today's world feels entitled to some top tier men and they often become incredibly picky. Again, this is the reason why these nurses were saying how there are no good men, no men with brains, etc. Nothing will ever be good enough for these women and you should stay away from them. They could find men that on a basic level fit their criteria but then find something else about them that they don't like and send him to the reject pile. Hence, these women are 30+, single and childless lol. They deserve their misery but it's unfortunate in a way because they were just programmed to behave in this manner. They've been told growing up to aggressively pursue education and career, whilst also looking down on women who decide to be home makers, etc. Again, at the end of it all they are just miserable and unhappy but would have been far better off listening to their instincts.

As for that experience with reaching out to that woman, I really don't care. There is nothing wrong in my opinion with trying a couple more times to get a woman out for a 2nd date. Worst case is nothing happens, it's not like I was just sitting there fantasizing about marrying her lol. Better scenario is maybe you are able to get her out. I just don't see how giving up after a failed first attempt is somehow better than trying a couple more times. Again, I really couldn't care less and it was so long ago.

 

[SW15]

women in the nursing field should be looked at as having a "careerist" mindset. Basically, any woman with a degree in today's world feels entitled to some top tier men and they often become incredibly picky. Again, this is the reason why these nurses were saying how there are no good men, no men with brains, etc. Nothing will ever be good enough for these women and you should stay away from them. They could find men that on a basic level fit their criteria but then find something else about them that they don't like and send him to the reject pile. Hence, these women are 30+, single and childless lol. They deserve their misery but it's unfortunate in a way because they were just programmed to behave in this manner. They've been told growing up to aggressively pursue education and career, whilst also looking down on women who decide to be home makers, etc. Again, at the end of it all they are just miserable and unhappy but would have been far better off listening to their instincts.

The problem with college degrees and women in the workplace is determining who is "careerist". I assign the "careerist" label to the worst women. I assign the "careerist" label to the mid to high level business managers, the lawyers, and the doctors/dentists. I also assign the "careerist" label to any woman with an advanced degree.

Female nurses are not typically as career focused as female doctors. Therefore, nurses escape my definition as "careerist" in most cases, though there are women who are obsessed with their nursing careers and would be careerist.

Women with bachelor's degrees and advanced degrees do tend to exhibit more fussiness in evaluating men. They are more likely to say "there are no good men" (especially after age 30) and express the other anti-male attitudes.

Women with just bachelor's degrees alone are more difficult for men to evaluate as careerists as compared to women with advanced degrees. If a woman has only a bachelor's degree, where she got her degree also affected who she likely is. Women from more elitist universities typically make worse girlfriends than women who went to public universities. Women from lower tier public universities often have fewer bad attitudes than women from higher tier public universities.

Women with less than a bachelor's degree can be a more difficult assessment. There are more irresponsible behaviors in this group compared to the bachelor's degree group. There are also some really good options with more feminine attitudes in this group too. I tend to like the women who completed some trade certification in this group.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

The problem is that women cant tell the difference between being wanted for sex and being wanted for a relationship.

They believe that their league is the same one of top tier chads who pump and dump them while they are average at best.

So an average woman is trying to get commitment from a top chad while ignoring even for casual dating an average man....when they say that there are no men to date they mean that chads are taken or unavailable while other men are not good enough for them.

A futher issue is that women dont realize that men dont care about those features that they care about on men.

Your degree means nothing if in order to get it you avoided sport, healthy lifestyle and got fat and smelly.