Yes, there will always be some men who are better cooks than most women. But it is also true that there will always be some women who can powerlift more than many men.
Nothing is really absolute.
The idea that the best chefs in the world are men isn't necessarily true. The best chef might actually be a 70 year old grandma in Louisiana who never opened a restaurant. You just don't know, because not everyone becomes world renowned for their abilities. That grandma might not be considered the best only because she didn't want to turn her kitchen into a corporation.
Some men are better caretakers than women. Some women have a better work ethic than men. There will always be exceptions.
OP, I'm starting to think you have a superiority complex. And although it has driven you to succeed, it has also driven you to overcompensate. It's starting to seem like you hold achievements in such high regard because you are trying to make up for a significant flaw.