Maybe this isn't what the OP was trying to communicate, but my optimistic interpretation of what he said is through the lens of value. If we don't first believe we have value then there is no point beyond that. If we don't perceive value within ourselves, what is it that we're trying to attract?
Let's be real for a second though... women are not devoid of value. And beauty, while it can be associate with negative qualities like narcissism, disloyalty, and a "princess mentality", it is still a piece of value. It is evidenced in that most men would never get excited (as possibly never even try) about f*cking an ugly girl. But most men would get very excited about f*cking a beautiful girl all other things being equal.
So when the OP says we "deserve" a beautiful woman, no, there is not some universal law or moral imperative of fairness or anything else out there that says we as men should be endowed with sexy females. But if we have value, we should expect that in our search for women what we value should be met in them... and one of those values is attractiveness. In that sense, I would say we "deserve" a beautiful woman. The way everyone seems to be taking what the OP said is from a position of submission and unworthiness... and I do not accept that at all. What a man should do instead is have standards and accept nothing less. A man without value cannot do that.